Would I be coming off strange if I saw a girl at the gym all

>>18101208
There's nothing wrong with being spontaneous, but when people go to the gym they're mostly focusing on their workout and probably don't want to be disturbed

>>18101224
I won't force it. I go to a gym with about 1500 attendees, it's a hybrid of a commercial gym and powerlifting gym. The girls I'm interested in are powerlifting and like me... also take long 5-10 minute rests between sets.

>>18101224
I am paranoid mainly because I have been a loner practically all my life and while I have the drive to change this, I also have the paranoia that I will appear "fake" as these people have already determined my personality over the last 14 months.

>>18101208
Sup bro fellow fitizen here

Idk there's one girl I talk to sometimes, she powerlifts like me, I actually messaged her on instagram to ask her about the gym kek. Then I joined and a few weeks later I said hi and thanks for telling me about it and she was very friendly. Not trying to bang her or anything though, though she is very cute and strong tbqh

Just depends. If you do you have to be confident or they will get the weird vibes

Femanon here. Honestly, I feel like most girls do not want to be approached by guys at the gym. Most of the conversations I've had with girls about guys approaching them in the gym have revolved around how uncomfortable they felt or how irritating it is. This is because gyms are male-dominated and girls just want to be able to work out in peace. Guys wanting to flirt while we're trying to get a good workout in obviously gets in the way of working out. Girls are also a bit defensive about guys approaching them at the gym because they feel like men are being condescending towards them when they give advice or critique them. Either way, not a great place to meet people. That's not to say that some girls don't go to the gym hoping to be noticed by guys, but I'd say that's a lot less common than girls who just want to exercise.