Boyfriend sleeping with a prostitute

>I'm worried this will turn into him wanting an open relationship or threesomes and I really really don't want that

I think you just about answered your own question there.

You gave him a green light to go sleep with another woman, because you had sex PRIOR to your rship with him, which started 3 years ago. Great logic, OP. At any rate, if the guy told you that he wanted to have sex with another person its pretty much over anyways. If you have been denying him sex, then the fault is all on you. If you have been a loving gf, then the spark just died. In either case- move on, its done.

Don't be this fucking pathetic and stupid. Seriously.

>>18100963
I say power to you
Only you know what's best

>>18100963

Absolutely huge mistake.

If he has only slept with you, this is essentially allowing the floodgates to be opened. He's going to end up fucking someone whose job it is to provide amazing sex and look good - do you really think he's going to just leave it at that one time, then come back to you?

If you're happy enough to have an open relationship then that's one thing - I just think that's the kind of thing you decide when you're both sexually experienced enough to know the risks and the levels you can go to.

Allowing your boyfriend to visit a prostitute as his second experience of sexual intercourse is very risky. Obviously I don't know either of you personally and you may have the type of relationship that can survive something like this. However, I'm going on the number of threads I see on here where guys are desperate to fuck another girl as they feel inexperienced after only sleeping with the current love of their live. What usually happens is they come back a few weeks later having done this, no longer wanting to remain in their relationship and wanting to fuck even more people.

>>18101753
You make having sex with a prostitute sound so amazing

I'm not sure I buy it