Tldr- Dating a new chick and things are great, considering having sex with my ex until things get more serious with the new girl.
Hey adv,
I was in a relationship with my ex(we go to the same uni) for about 2 years. It ended pretty badly, but it was rocky for about a year before that. After it ended i started dating a new girl from my university and so far we have gone out 3 times and everything is great (it is probably headed towards something serious).
My ex has recently started calling me and texting about no strings sex. Now, there is no doubt in my mind that there are HUGE incompatibility issues between me and the ex(i.e. no way im getting back together with her), but ive been thinking about having sex for a bit, and then ditching her when things with newgirl eventually escalate. I am aware that this is moraly wrong/ambigious, but im more worried about my ex trying to gain advantage of me in some way (my ex does not know about newgirl however). Help me figure this shit out, please.
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>>18099241
Leave her be if you dont want more problems later, simple as that. It is up to you.
Don't fucking do it dude, you should have just gone no contact in the first place, especially with an ex you'd been with for more than a year.
Look going back to having sex with your ex won't just only open up a can of worms for you in the sense that you'll be giving her the satisfaction that she still has some control over your person but also giving her the power that if she does find out about the girl you're currently dating to go tell her and ruin the good thing you've got going.
It's not worth it man, call your ex out for wanting sex with you again and go no contact and then focus on making sure the relationship you'll develop with the new girl not end like the last.
>>18099248
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>>18099262
Thank you, guys. Knowing her it will probably come to bite me in the ass later.
>>18099241
>hey advice should I cheat on my girlfriend?
Fixed your post for you.
>>18099291
Thanks for fixing it, but that is not really whats bothering me about this whole ordeal.