Hard time getting aroused

>>18098506
you need foreplay you dip


need some of that becky

>>18098510
No I mean it was after the foreplay. I we made out and I did the thing with the bra and touched her tits. Then she went to unzip my jeans and my dick just wasn't hard.

>>18098519
Wow you say it like you were exchanging compulsory pleasantries

If your dick didn't get hard, it wasn't foreplay. That's the purpose of foreplay... getting your dick hard and her snatch wet

Trust your instinct here, your brain is sending you a strong message. GTFO.

>>18098631
Uh I'm not really understanding...

>>18098506
Were you drinking heavily, playa?

>>18099762
No, I was totally sober

>>18099768
Maybe you caught the gay. No shame in craving cute boy butts, but you should let her know ASAP.

>>18099778
Y-you think so... I don't really find men attractive although I think fit men look nice

>>18099785
Oh shit, that's super gay. Even a straight dude might plow a cute boy, but appreciating fit men is legitimately a red flag.

Find a nice hunk, son.

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>>18099795
Fuck dude...

> Do I have erectile dysfunction? Low T? I don't masturbate btw and neither do I watch porn
If you can drop the second sentence just like that, you probably _do_ have very low sex drive. Do you not masturbate because you think it's harmful to you so you resist the urge, or do you simply not feel the urge to masturbate?

Regarding the urge, you didn't like get horny for the girl? Not just boner, but also the willingness to have sex? Wasn't there?

I'd consider myself lucky if I were you.

>>18098824
according to my limited experience, foreplay usually involves her hands on your genitals and vice versa.

Picture yourself having sex with a man. Picture different things. A gruff burly man with bodyhair all over pulling down your pants. You fucking a slender, girlish boy who makes high pitched noises. You with a "normal" guy just like you, wrapped up in a passionate make out session.

What does it do for you? You really need to give it a chance to rule this out. Try to picture as much detail as you can, really envision that it was not a girl but a guy revealing his body that night. Does anything for you?

If not, you are probably simply not that interested in sex and too turned off by the casualty of the situation. Doesn't mean you would/could get get aroused with a woman you love and feel comfortable with.

Probably low testosterone from low-fat-diet, and lack of exercise.

But penis dysfunction is probably from porn addiction, you dont get aroused unless you are watching a 12inch dick penetrating a hentai girl.

>>18099834
No, I just don't feel the urge to. It's not that I've never got aroused, but never has it been enough that I was compelled to masturbate. But to be honest the only reason I hooked up was because I didn't want to feel like a virgin loser haha

>>18099845
I'm imagining it... It's a really weird feeling, I don't know know what to think. I'm imagining sleeping with this tall dude I know from work. It doesn't disgust me

>>18099832
Nothing wrong with gay shit. There's some nice fellas out there. You just have to be honest with yourself and accept your feelings.

You dont masturbate at all... ??

Obviously isnt health masturbating 24/7, but atleast you should 3 x a week.

You probably dont have brain-penis-nerve connection if you never use your tool...

>>18099856
Dude, give it some thought, but you might legit be into dudes. Explore your feelings.

>>18099845
>You fucking a slender, girlish boy who makes high pitched noises.

Where can you even find these? I want one so bad.

>>18099856
>It's a really weird feeling
Good, try to picture his mannerisms, the different kind of smiles he has, how he smells if you're aware of that.

Obviously you don't have to reach a clear cut conclusion right away, but from what you've said I would absolutely try to let this stew in your mind a bit and become more actively sensitive towards how you feel around for example this coworker. Eg - having this fantasy now is one thing, but how do you feel when you're facing him again tomorrow? Turned off by your thoughts now that you are confronted with the flesh and blood reality of him, or flustered and kind of good?

>>18098506
Sucking my girls big titties always does it for me.

Also when she moans when I finger her.

Also that pussy smell when I go south.

Also when she blows me.

>>18099856
What are you imagining doing with him?

>>18099856
just saying, these other people ITT making you imagine having sex with dudes are trying to brainwash you into thinking that you're attracted by men, when the only thing that's in my opinion going on is you really have barely any sex drive. Congrats, that's a privileged position, and you aren't missing out on anything.

If imagining sex with men doesn't arouse you any more than imagining it with women, there's probably not much to see in that direction.

>>18099894
Hey, it's statistically more likely that he's a homosexer than a non-sexer

>>18099894
What >>18099902 said and I don't think you know what brainwashing means. If you elaborately picture a man fucking you (or vice versa) and it turns you on, congrats, you're gay, you didn't turn gay because you thought about it for too long.

>>18099906
I think it would be really cute if we encouraged Anon to embrace his true self and give his coworker the dick.

>>18099917
That's a bit far for me, give him a break trying to figure out how he actually feels. It's an option to rule out or explore further. If he really is gay he likely doesn't feel comfortable coming out or acting on it for some time, pretty shocking to suddenly realize that at a later age.

>>18099932
I know, but he also needs to understand that it isn't something to run from if it is true. He can do cute love shit or raunchy smut shit with a boy if that's his fate.

sounds like you need to find out what makes you tick

probably need to do some of the porn thing

I appreciate the input guys, I'll keep exploring but I won't do anything in not comfortable with

ur a 20 year old virgin (which is sad btw) you need to learn the ropes. You didnt jump into the deep end when you learned how to swim did you?

Start out with some foreplay, light petting making out, then start twisting her nipples around and running ur hand down her pants a little bit.

Work your way to some pussy eating and if you're not rock hard by then just give up.

>>18099986
You should totes stick it in his butt.

Maybe get your current fling to dress masculine and stick it in her butt as a test

>>18099996
>>18099998
I'll try both