How to stop being paranoid about relationships

Just be content with the idea that she, like any disgusting human being, will eventually do something to hurt you... like leave you for another guy.

Then, as you reschedule, you'll think "eh, if she leaves me, I'll find someone else... and if she leaves me before the dinner, I'll have saved monies."

>>18096503
This mind set is very hard for me to get into.

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>>18096497
Ignorance is bliss, my friend.

Being paranoid about things like relationships tells me that you like being in control (of a situation). I have no doubt that you have a rational mind that knows all this, but let me repeat it anyway: know what you cannot control and exercise yourself to simply let go.

You live in the Now. The only active control you can exert currently is what you plan on doing the next moment. All else is just an illusion.
Yes, people can sometimes misuse trust, or do things that you cannot control. But such is human nature. Let go. Live in the moment and enjoy a date when you have one, and don't regret the moment when you do not have one.

I know you can do this, Anon.

>>18096747
I like understanding where I am in a situation. But maybe I should just relax

>>18096497
I have the same problem, help me too, Im needy

>>18096497
cupple reason why she drop contact with u
1) internet relationship; she thought u were creep and just wanted someone to ask about her day

2) probably u nag her a lot irl and make her mad

Git gud

>>18097547
I've been on a few dates with them and they did message me like an hour ago to reschedule. My issue is my paranoia when it comes to dating.