>Friends with this 24 year old girl in grad school
>I went on vacation for a couple of days, sent me a million text messages asking when I'm going to be back, and if she can chill
>Shows up at my place like 3 days a week
>Went out tonight and saw her, and I left to go shit post online
>"Why did you leave anon? I was going to ask if you want to watch TV but OK..."
Whenever she comes over she sents on her phone the whole time and is dating someone like an hour away
can't tell if she wants to smash
>>18096082
Just ask her. Staright up ask her if she's interested. Don't say you are. If she says no, TAKE IT AS A NO and give 0 shits about her and ignore her completely, if she's actually interested she'll say something about it and you will be able to say "why did you lie to me then".
If she's not well then she just wants attentions she doesn't deserve and you can tell her you're not a supplement for her shitty boyfriend who's never there.
>>18096168
Don't even fucking ask her.
Just invite her over for dinner (alcohol included) and movie. If she says yes, she's down to fuck but doesn't want to come off as a slut.
Have dinner, a few drinks, get settled in with the movie and make the first move.
Stop being a fucking beta.