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Relationships 2017-03-03 03:29:05 Post No. 18095993
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Relationships Anonymous 2017-03-03 03:29:05 Post No. 18095993 [Report]

Im wondering if my relationship is worth the stress involved. I met a guy about 6 months ago and we went out on a few dates and it became a regular thing to hangout and we started to date, shortly after we started dating, i explain to him that i have chronic depression and im also bipolar (medicated for both so that they don't effect my daily life) and he says that he will do his best ti help me and explains that he deals with stress too from time to time... this was the beginning.

He calls everyday which isn't bad but all he does on the phone is complain about his life and when we text it's nothing but the same, he chastises me for not being as verbal as he thinks i should be, and equates it to my illnesses (its not related) and whenever i bring up negative things between us, he gets extremely emotional and will even cry. (Today i asked what it was that we see in each other and he started sniffling and crying about how we need each other.)

Im wondering what happened and how did me explaining my illnesses to him trigger this static change in behavior... should o just end it before i get too attached?

Anonymous 2017-03-03 03:32:59 Post No.18096001
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Anonymous 2017-03-03 03:32:59 Post No.18096001 [Report]

Stop being depressed and mentally ill, then change your bf. EZ PZY

If you need help, ask me.

Anonymous 2017-03-03 03:59:06 Post No.18096056
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Anonymous 2017-03-03 03:59:06 Post No.18096056 [Report]

>>18096001
If you were to befriend me you would never know i have any mental illnesses, i'd say im pretty well adjusted.

Anonymous 2017-03-03 04:01:20 Post No.18096060
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Anonymous 2017-03-03 04:01:20 Post No.18096060 [Report]

>>18096056
So about what percentage of people that you call your friends know you have a mental illness?

Anonymous 2017-03-03 04:03:04 Post No.18096067
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Anonymous 2017-03-03 04:03:04 Post No.18096067 [Report]

>>18095993
Nah, relationships should bring you happiness most of the time. As soon as it becomes a stressful thing, I'd say my goodbyes and wish them luck.

To me it sounds like the guy has some dependency issues and unrealistic world views. Don't worry about what or how something happened, half the time you'll never get an answer.

Kudos for taking your meds

Anonymous 2017-03-03 04:24:35 Post No.18096107
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Anonymous 2017-03-03 04:24:35 Post No.18096107 [Report]

>>18095993

Neither of you sound right for a relationship, and seem to be wanting to hope you'll fix each other.

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