Met up with an old gf of mine. We never slept together. Been talking on phone lately. She lives in another state now with her bf. I live with my gf. She came into town and told me she was home alone. To come over and drink. I go we have fun drink till 3am and smoke weed. Then bedtime. She initially puts me on the couch but i convince her to let me sleep in her bed. We spoon. I rub her ass to get her horny. Shes into it. All the sudden stops and asks me politely to stop. Not the first time shes done this to me. What the f am i doing wrong and why does she put herself in these situations w me always to refuse at the last moment. Is there any chance of her sleeping with me? Pic sorta related
>>18095758
shes baiting you to rape her for reasons unknown... -i call it 'bait-rape'
>>18095769
Meaning she wants me to become angry and frick her anyway? Then claim it was rape? Not sure about that one
>>18095758
Do you like this girl?
>>18095812
I like her weve been close most of our lives. From age 15 -30. Fooled around sporadically throughout the years but never penetration or oral. It just kills me why she always puts a stop to it
>>18095826
It raises so many questions to me. Like WHY WONT YOU JUST GIMME THE ASS
I dont know it all, but youre friendzoned because you allow yourself to play that roll. You have to make yourself less available. Dont go no contact but only talk on the phone and messenger to set up times to be alone with her. Tell her that you want to spend alone time with her. She will get it.
>>18095832
Shes gotta know i want to frick her already. We get into these alone times and things start to happen because i initiate them. But as soon as i go to slip a finger in or escalate it she stops and asks me to as well.
>>18095758
>>>18095832
>Shes gotta know i want to frick her already. We get into these alone times and things start to happen because i initiate them. But as soon as i go to slip a finger in or escalate it she stops and asks me to as well.
Exactly my point. If you dont tell her outright then she can still mentally rationalize rejecting you. If you tell her then she has to make the conscious decision that she DOESN'T want to be with you.
>>18095843
Oh btw it could mean ending you relationship.
>>18095855
I think thats why i dont just come out w it bc im pretty sure she doesnt feel the same. And im afraid ill lose what little connection we do have
Would it be wise to just be real w her and ask why she does this and refuses to become intimate with me but continues to hang out alone
You're a piece of shii.
>>18095914
Why
>>18095758
So you have a gf but go meet an old one and try to have sex... OK...
Anyway, getting out of the friendzone is very easy: just stop talking to her.
And I kind of agree with the guy that says that she may be baiting you. Girls are crazy nowadays. Better safe than sorry.
>>18095758
Probably cause you started rubbing her ass 5 minutes into bed. Spoon, fall asleep and have her wake u up when shes ready to fuck.