Relationship goals?

>>18095212

id recommend making your goals about what you do and not how people react. otherwise you'll be aiming for the lowest hanging fruit you can get.

instead of goals that require someone else to have a specific reaction, just put yourself in the situation that could ellicit that reaction.

you can't guarantee someone will like you, and even if you could it doesn't mean she'd be a good girl. crossing that off your list would feel empty and being unable to cross that off your list makes you feel like you failed at something that isn't even an accomplishable task.

>>18095307

I see.. I had not thought of it that way.

>>18095619

it helps. make a goal to go out X number of times a week and while there to just talk to Y amount of people. regardless of where it leads you'll know you put yourself out there.

>>18095631

thats where it gets tough man. I am super concerned about being creepy. I don't want the only reason for me to be going somewhere is to troll around for women.

However, I honestly don't really go anywhere where women would be UNLESS I go there specifically to troll around for women. Its hard.

>>18095653

thats why i said people and not women.

regardless, you're going just to talk to women/people so why pretend otherwise, its just putting pressure on yourself.

anyone who finds you creepy doesn't have to interact with you ever again. no consequences.