So far Ive never enjoyed sex, not even oral Is it because all

>>18094106
Could ya be gay?

>>18094108
Nah, Im attracted to guys

>>18094106

No clue. We can't possibly make any educated guesses about the entirety of your sex life with absolutely no backstory or information to base our opinions on.

>>18094124
Ok what info do you need?

First thing, did you ever masturbate to get to know your body?
Second, do you talk with your partners about what you like and what they like?

Casual sex for women is a tougher dice roll. I don't think myself as a sex god, and I didn't even have many partners, but I had girl tell me that I should give oral sex classes, and their shaky legs show me that they're telling the true

Either keep trying, or get a less experienced partner willing to know your way

>>18094143
Yes I masturbate, Its mildly pleasurable, I guess I dont have anything I could tell a partner to do

Maybe love is the answer?

>>18094150
I dont have a "way"

Also shaky legs doesnt necessarily mean pleasure unless theyre also moaning

If a guy rubs or sucks my clit hard enough Ill start shaking but feel no pleasure

>>18094155
Uuhhh I seem to know my way better then you, so I know pretty well when an orgasm is happening, thanks

If you don't know what you like, it'll be impossible to enjoy it. Crystal balls aren't exactly something you get in a sex shop. Just tell the guy where to touch, how fast and how strong. It's that simple.

>>18094168
I don't have anything to tell the guy, there are no places on my body for someone to touch to give me pleasure, although I really really really wish there was

How do I find out what I like when Ive tried almost everything and not found anything?

>>18094170
Your problem is definitly not physical. It's nearly impossible that you simply don't enjoy being touched in any spot of your body. It's most likely anxiety performance: you pressure yourself too much to get into it, which makes you not get into it.

Maybe try that: take a bit of alcohol, not enough to get drunk, just relaxed. Go to a (serious) massage parlor, get a male massagist if you want a guy touch, or a female one to feel safer with your body. The objective is not to get turned on, just relaxed and feel in touch with your body.

After that, go home and touch yourself in your favorite way, but make it real erotic. Don't focus on the technical point of view, like which point of anatomy you should touch or not, just go with the flow. Also, get yourself into it: the very same touch will feel completly different if you sabotage yourself with anxiety and if you just think to yourself "I'm really enjoying it"

It's impossible to tell you "touch like this or like that", because even though a good knowledge of anatomy will take you a long way, only your mind will push you further.

Maybe a boyfriend will do you good. My gf can have an orgasm just from getting really erotic and relaxed, contracting her pussy without either of us either touching down there

>>18094178
I really don't think its anxiety, I don't give a shit what these guys think of me

I could look into male massage I guess

I wouldnt know how to get a boyfriend

>>18094186
It's one thing not caring what they'll think of you, it's another completly different your worry on how you'll perform. Not for them, but for yourself.

You apparently don't have a problem with getting casual sex, so the easier, standard practice is just stalling the guys making them wait for sex, and seeing if they'll tag along. It seems very natural to me: people just hang around until it's official

Take MDMA.

>>18094150
What's your routine, bro? Obviously every woman is different but is there anything in particular that makes them go wild? Sorry for derailing OP.

>>18094106
>lesbianon here
Used to think I was bi, until I finally had sex with another girl. 10x better than sex with a man. Another female knows exactly what it feels like, so most likely she's gonna be better at giving orgasms to other females

My advice? Have lesbian sex.

>>18094186
>I wouldn't know how to get a boyfriend
>casual sex

Casual sex cheapens even your ability to find love, and if you find it, it weakens your ability to appreciate it. Someone made an analogy here yesterday saying, that casual sex is like a piece of tape that has lost it's ability to stick (multiple partners), whereas making love is the opposite. However, most people seem not to have the patience to wait for love now a days, and yes, you have to wait for it (sometimes years and years). You'll notice when you get the spark, anxiety, warmth and joy around the person. In contrast, most casual sex decisions are basic impulses, usually out of desperation, and you may even feel guilty or disgusted with yourself after.

You have to make a mental shift to see this though, and most people who engage in casual sex wanna "live every day like it's the last", which only adds to the desperation. As if life will somehow run short if you don't get fucked every weekend.

Think of it this way, you can spend your life eating whatever seed you stumble upon, or you can wait till the seed grows into a tree, and eat fruit instead forever.

Temptation is a bitch though, I fucking hate it. When you do find love though, you will probably wish you hadn't slept with all those guys and settled for the one guy you will fall for. In fact, I feel like it's one of the things preventing people from finding love the most, thinking less of oneself for having had too much casual experience. But you shouldn't, if that is the case. I personally don't have casual sex, though I'm tempted heavily from time to time to try it. Recently though, I fell hard for a girl, like seriously crushing, and that experience alone put out the flames of my desperation. Such a feeling would DEFINITELY make you feel different, about everything, life, the future, your present.

>>18094106
have you considered not being a dirty whore?

>>18094106
You're asexual. Please stop wasting others' time and only have relations with your kind.

I've had a few long term relationships and like you, never had an interest in sex. I'd masturbate, I found guys attractive but absolutely hated sex. I avoided it and once went over six months in a relationship without it.

Then I met my current partner. I have literally never found another man as attractive and we just have this physical connection which I've not had with another person. I truly love this person which is probably why we have such an awesome physical relationship.

So now I want sex all the time to the point where it's too much for him. It was like a switch. Maybe it'll be the same for you :)

>>18094336
Is his name Chad Thundercock, by any chance?

>>18094228

It's kinda hard to explain. I've been dating with my current gf for 8 years and we had threesomes with three different girls in this time.

I usually take my time with their bodies and do a lot of teasing, going everywhere except where they'd want it. That's until they're all tingly, then I move on.

With hands, inserting fingers is almost always not the best option. I find my way around the clit with a very wet finger (using their or my lube). Some girls prefer rubbing and some pressure, but rubbing it directly with a very wet finger is almost always a sure shot. Not fast, just at a steady pace until the orgasm.

Licking is similar. Don't suck the labia too much, it's like sucking your foreskin: might be good but probably won't take you anywhere. Find the clit and simultaneously suck and lick it, like women should suck our dicks.

For penetration, keep contact with the clit at all times. Taking the dick out and inserting all the way in feels great to us but only as a tease for them. It feels better if you go all the way in and just stay there humping like you still had an inch or two to insert. This will "smash" the clit and pressure the g-spot from the inside and is almost surefire

If the girl is multi orgasmic, give her one or two orgasms before thinking about yourself.

Of course, like you said, each girl is different, but they also aren't all that mystery that we're told they are. Some girls for instance claimed to prefer penetration only to crawl up the wall screaming when I got clit-centric. Unfortunatly even them believe a lot of the mysticism around their gender's pleasure.

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OP, I'm sure it's because of your mental state. I guess your problem is that you're really tense subconsciously. As to why it is, I don't know. You have to have a trauma, not even necessarily sexual but definitely something affection related. This is the only hypothesis - besides being asexual - I can think of.

Casual sex isn't a guarantee to relax and enjoy what you're doing. Maybe you really need to share a deep emotional bond with a man - maybe then he'll then fuck your brains out like in this one: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5861666c538dc

>>18094380
Good advice. I'll try out some of it next time I'll be with my gf.

>>18094380
All of this, especially the maintaining contact with the clit during sex thing. As a girl, that gets me off quicker than anything. Only riding makes me cum faster.