I found out my wife cheated on me yesterday. Should I attack

Pros
>you feel better for five minutes

Cons
>after five minutes, you will still feel like shit
>also getting arrested, probably
>also getting sued, potentially
>also letting your wife see how much she emotionally owns you that her behavior can make you act like a child who solves things with violence, definitely

>>18094031
>Pros: literally nothing
>Cons: your wife sees how you're good for nothing
>you prove you're no better than your base desires
>you will possibly get in trouble with the law
Dump her though

>>18094031
Accept becoming a cuck and worship your wife or break up if you can't handle it.

If you feel worthless enough to swallow that and think of your wife highly i'd recommend you stay with her and make sure no one else knows of this, having said that it will probably be able to happen again, if you act though or weak won't change it. Being a cuck is really looked down on here but desu if mine were to cheat on me i'd probably look the other way and pray she won't leave me since i love that girl more than anything and are too unsocial to ever get there again.

Stupid. The fault lies with your wife.

>>18094052
Nah, she's like a drug. No one can resist her.

So your wife betrays you and your solution is to mess with the other dude? He doesn't owe you anything, why would he care about your relationship? Is your wife that is a bitch.

This would be comparable to someone suing you and you beating up their lawyer.

>>18094065
He was my best friend. Or at least, I thought he was

>>18094066
Which you didn't even mention and would completely change the dynamic of things you dumb fuck.

>>18094076
Fuck, dude, I've had a lot of malt liquor. I can't even walk straight right now

you can punch him for good measure but the fault ultimately is on your wife

even if he resisted, your wife would still be an unfaithful whore who will find another dude to suck

>>18094031
The other guy owes you nothing. He just took what was offered him.

It is your wife you have a contract with, and she who betrayed you.

>>18094094
But I don't want to hurt her, Anon. I still care, I can't help it. Why can't I fuck him up?

>>18094096
Because he wasn't in a relationship with you and betrayed you, she did. She's the asshole, he just wanted to get his dick wet.

Shoot em both and let God or Allah or who the fuck ever sort it out.

So sick of society and it's imagined civility, we should just go back to dueling with pistols at high noon. Betcha if people had to worry about getting the shit beat out of them or even shot would make them think about how they act before they do something shitty, especially to someone they "love".

Honestly, bitterness and unseriousness aside get evidence whether it's a written or recorded confession of the infidelity and divorce her ass. Your friend will be there to catch her so don't worry about her, she is certainly not worried about you.

Guy didn't betray you unless you knew him. She did.

>>18094096
No wonder she wants to leave you, a spineless cuckold who won't even admit she's at fault when she is. You wanna stay with an unloyal woman? Fine. You can be mad and get drunk when she does it again, idiot. You leave cheaters, you don't stay with them. The whole thread has literally told you nothing good will come of beating the guy and that you should leave your stupid bitch. You came here for advice and you have it.

>>18094031
You can beat the fuck out of the guy but you have already lost your wife to him. Your relationship is over no matter what you do.

Matthew 5:32
But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

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>>18094031
Allow me to try to lighten the mood with this pic related.

Now, how's it happened? Like who seduce who first?
As much as I'd like to say your wife is at the fault and you can divorce her for being unfaithful, if you want to hit the guy you should make sure he's the one who seduced her first.

You can choose to forgive her too, if she's sad about it. But it's a burden you'd have to carry, it's possible.

No is perfect, some of us a little less perfect.

Just get a divorce and move out. Stop trusting women.

>>18094031
It was shitty for this dude to fuck a married woman. There is no doubting that.
Though it was your wife whom you should hold a grudge. She took vows of fidelity and knowingly, deliberately broke them.
She betrayed you. She is the one who hurt you. She is the one you have an issue with.
Divorce her. She is the cheater, she is at fault.

>>18094031
Nah, just ghost your wife. Take the day off and pack your shit.

Shoot them both.

>>18094081
Do you have kids together? if so tell them mommy is a cheating whore who fucks daddys friends, and that's why you two can't be together anymore.

>>18094031
Pros
>feels good
Cons
>you can never again claim to be a civilized person

If you do it please move to a third world country where people like you belong

>>18094357
Also if you really love her but don't want to physically hurt her, just kill yourself, she'll be so emotionally scarred she might end up killing herself too, or living with the guilt of it or being blamed by everyone around you. it will ruin her life.

secure your assets, and start the divorce process.

waste as much of her money on escorts and hotels while you have slight access.

maybe convince her you want to work through it while you get your divorce terms set up.

>>18094031
If the guy and you know each other, then yes beat his has for not respecting you. But if you don't know each other, it's just your slutty gf's fault

He might attack you back you know. I wouldn't do it.

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>>18094240
>we should just go back to dueling with pistols at high noon

>>18094250
Fuck, fine. I just wanted to hurt somebody. I haven't slept since it happened.

>>18094307
It was pretty mutual

>>18094342
This. I'm not sure what I'd do in your position though OP. I take it divorce is off the table seen as though it's pretty pricey, my advise would be to simply question her about it. I'd say you're fully entitled to be furious though.

>>18094031
The biggest concern is going to jail and being portrayed as a violent psycho in the courts during your divorce.

>>18094951
I know. I'm getting ready to move out. She's hiding out like a damn coward at her parents' house three hours away. They locked my guns in a side room and took the keys to try and prevent me from getting psycho. Fucking Nicholsoned that door down first fucking thing. Fucking cowards assuming I'm fucking dangerous. That's rich.

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Do what must be done. You know what you have to do.

>>18094096
>But I don't want to hurt her, Anon. I still care, I can't help it.
This reads as
>I want nothing more than slurp another man's cum out of my wife's dirty hole
Get some self-respect and slap a bitch.

>>18095641
>They locked my guns in a side room and took the keys to try and prevent me from getting psycho. Fucking Nicholsoned that door down first fucking thing. Fucking cowards assuming I'm fucking dangerous.
Have you considered that your wife might already be doubling down and painting you as a bad and abusive guy?

>>18094031

So how did you "find out" she cheated on you?

Someone tell you? Who? Did you walk in on them?

>>18094031


You attack him, get charged with assault, go to jail. Your wife is a still cheating whore.

You don't attack him. Your wife is still a cheating whore.

Sounds like your options just involve whether or not you want to go to jail just to make a statement.

>>18094031
Rape her, and then divorce her.
No one will believe the husband raped the wife as revenge for the wife's cheating on the husband.

Basically, your lawyer will have an easier time defending you than hers will with defending her.

>>18094031
Are you in a relationship with the other guy? Then how did he fail you? What a jackass!

>>18094031
Pros:
You feel powerful for brief moment

Cons:
Probably going to get arrested. Everyone will see you as the emotionally unstable tard you really are. You will be looked down on for rest of your life by everyone who knew you.

Tell her something simple like "I don't know how you could live with yourself doing something so horrible to a person"

Say it in a calm collected manner, or say something simple that cuts deep.

Walk away with dignity, no need to hit the guy.

If you do something like this, you are the better person and it's respectable.

Or gutter stomp the cunt.

if you have children you need to tell them what your wife did now and indoctrinate them against her, just simply tell them the truth

Nothing good ever comes out of tearing someone down. I would move on. If you have kids then I don't know that would be a pickle.

it's not the guys fault she cheated, but it's still one of the most disrespectful things to fuck someones woman. and hes also a traitor since he's your friend so it would be justified to smack him. or try to fuck his girl if possible

No point hitting him. Your just trying to fuel your masculinity because it's taking a hit. Nothing wrong it that but can't do that shit anymore due laws.

Best thing is day as little as possible to her and stay stoic. Just tell her you're finished. No fag shit about how much she hurt you or how can she do this. If she says stuff like we can work it out or talk about it, just say "I'm cutting my loses".

>>18095641
That's your fault for not having copies of keys.

>>18096418
She told me after she had already fled the house while I was at work

>>18094062
....then it's definitely her fault bc you certainly can't blame the guy for not resisting something no one can resist

>>18096647
Okay, so it was actually something mutual and your wife told you after she fled mean they're both in cahoots against you.

Now it looks like they're trying to bait you into something. Just don't bite it and go consult to your lawyer then divorce your wife. Further actions would risk you more.

Poured out all my booze this morning. That's a bad path to go.

>>18094240
>People never fucked other men's wives before the modern era
Absolutely false, read Boccaccio some time.

>>18097039
He said people, not Italians

>>18096889
Good for you, buddy. That shit's a dead end road, at least until you get out of this.

>>18097042
Kek

>>18097100
I think I nearly died last night. I remember waking up and texting her from a puddle of vomit, then waking up hours later, colder than I've ever felt in my life. Couldn't stop shaking until this morning. It was horrifying.

>>18094031
no wonder why she left

>>18094031
Leave your wife she's the one that cheated on you. She is piece of shit that your don't need in your life. Don't go after the guy because it just makes you look stupid. Pack your wife's shit and get her the fuck out. Do not hit her, record the conversation you have with her about divorce, so if she tried to say you hit her you will be able to protect yourself.

>>18097629
I don't want the house. She can keep it. I don't want to live in rooms where they were fucking.

>>18094240
It's actually the fact that we can no longer beat them both up why it's even more troublesome.

>>18096481
Yes, this is smart, because no one in an english-speaking country takes rape so seriously that men get convicted even when they don't do it.

>>18094066
who spilled this plot thickener everywhere?

>>18094088
this
if you think you can get away with it, give him one good punch with all your strength and then walk away from both of them

>>18094240
they really wouldn't think twice much more than they do
why do think shit like that was so common?

>>18098240
What if I use a bat?

>>18098237
Satan or some shit, bro

hey another anon here
what if for example my wife would cheat on me and i would beat the shit out of her and asshole shes cheating with but instead of punching them in the face i would punch them in stomach dude in the balls etc
they would have no evidence and no reason to sue me cause i would leave no marks on them
awesome idea

>>18099531
You drunk or shit? If you put your hands or them, no matter how and where you'll still be found out.

How about no punch at all, or if you want to hit it, go full OJ.

>>18094031
No don't attack the guy. You go to jail, feel shit about yourself and she feels "fought over".

>>18099712
I mean, I feel shit about myself now, buddy. Hard to make it worse

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OP here. How do you unpack this shit? Where do I even start? I've defined myself by her for seven years. I can't just snap my fingers and unmake all of that.

>>18100527
Stop larping and kys.

>>18100527
Time to drain any joint bank accounts, as well as yours. If you haven't already you may be in for a surprise. She left the house, then maybe it can help you claim it during divorce. Change the locks maybe. Regardless. Call a divorce attorney now. And do not let your wife know of your intentions. Quit drinking. If you have family that you trust, consider taking all your valuables to them. Perhaps "sell" them to that trusted family member for cheap, or "lose" them in a poker game. Or get a storage unit. Good luck.

Lawyer up bucko, and get out of that shit.

>>18100628
Family's coming down tomorrow from back East. I already ditched the booze. Ain't much in valuables. I only just started making proper money, but we kept having to spend it on pets for awhile there. No joint accounts, my shit's safe. I've been keeping tabs.
The property's rented anyway, so not much sense fucking around over who gets it.

OP. You need to handle this like a man who has just been fucked over by his unfaithful wife and his backstabbing best friend. You're going to let them get away with that? They deserve torture and slow death

the longer you wait the less it can be argued as a crime of passion

>>18101023
Yeah, it's way too late for that. I'd have to somehow accidentally catch them fucking or something to trigger a new Passion phase and then immediately fuck them up.

>>18101009
I don't know if it's worth it. Not really feeling going to the Big House, even if it is for something really gangsta like torturing a guy to death.

>>18094031
The fact you have time to sit down and create this thread tells me you're already over the "finding out" stage
Most people attack other people when they're REALLY mad, normally immediately after the fact. Going after him now will probably just end in you pussying out or getting HEEMED
Someone's gotta have the OP image

>>18101092
There are support groups online for survivors of infidelity, you might seek one out.

Pros:
You unleash that rage
Cons:
You still got cheated

>>18101820
I tried on day 1 but he's hiding out away from his house.