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went out with a girl great chemistry and all that but i never made a move and all we did physically was a quick hug, we are going out again on saturday, have i just friendzoned myself?
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>>18092308
no. girls dont sit around going
>WOW I TOTALLY WOULD AHVE DATED ANON BUT SINCE HE ONLY HUGGED ME ON OUR FIRST DATE I AM NO LONGER INTERESTED IN HIM AT ALL TROLOLOLOL.
shes either in or shes out, and one date without a romantic edge isn't going to change that. if she rejects you in the future its because you never really stood a chance.
the friendzone is just a place you put yourself in. a girl can offer to be friends only, but its you who accepts or declines it. it has nothing to do with whether or not you made a move on the first date.
on the second date, make a fucking move.
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If you actually had chemistry and it's not just your head or your penis imagining it, then something like you not making a move is not going to make her lose interest
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>>18092311
>>18092314
cheers your right
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>>18092319
it happens mate. the problem with a lot of the men on this board is they think that they did something particularly wrong because a girl doesn't date them. its rarely ever the case. its not like there's some specific ritual that guarantees courtship. they just dont bother making a move until after a lot of investment and when they finally do, the girl says no so they assume they did something wrong.
the default state isnt attraction.
just ask her out again, and go for a kiss. dont be sad if she rejects it, not too sad at least.
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>>18092319
Stop listening to guys here who say that you've fucked up if you haven't had sex on the first date. Different people are comfortable moving at different dates, and as a girl, a hug on the first date would be just fine. I don't actually think I'd be comfortable kissing on the first date anyway.
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>>18092308
You are going on a second date, m8. That would indicate that she feels the same way about you as you do about her. If you are still unsure, ask her.
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>>18092308
>have i just friendzoned myself?
beyond a shadow of a doubt yes
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>>18092308
Nah. You're basically almost always guaranteed a shot at a second date,which you already have so don't worry.
Definitely go for it in the second though and make sure to flirt with her.
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