Feeling Guilty about a Dream

>>18091833
>Am I making this too much of a big deal?
obviously, its just a fucking dream

The consensus of the psychiatric community is that dreams have no meaning, and do not represent your repressed desires or anything like that. They're just random movies that play in your sleep combining faces stored in your memory with an emotion you felt during that day.

Indeed

I had a dream where I cheated on my current gf with my ex; something of which I would never even consider in reality. Dreams are just brief what-ifs, they're nebulous at best and aren't representative of "you"

As for pondering whether you should of been more adventurous, well that's up for you to decide. I'll chip in and say good sex is whatever works for you. I personally don't believe that some karma sutra like awakening can be found in the beds of other people. Sex is whatever you make of it, with whoever you make it with. It's nice to entertain the brains fantasies, so long as you realise that theyre just that, fantasies. You're not "missing out" on anything.

>>18091843
>>18091854
Thank you both. This helps me feel a lot better.

>>18091854
kama, not karma

>you're not missing out on anything
that's a bit of a stretch don't you think, what if this guy sucks in bed and she doesn't realize it because she's never had better? How is she supposed to help him get better if she doesn't even know what better is?