So, after 8 months of pseudo dating with this girl, she tells me that she doesn't want anything serious, and that she doesn't want me wasting my time on her. I spent a lot of time, dedication and money on this ungrateful fuck, the thing is, that I really liked her. Anyway, it's been two weeks ever since, I'm starting to get over it, the thing is that, my autistic friend, (he met her because of me ), is getting really close to this girl, and I kinda feel betrayed and un-easy. Should I also cut ties with this ""friend""?
>>18089594
Odds are he is misreading signals or she uses and throws people away. Keep your distance for awhile. It's unlikely this will last very long. You know them both, you be the judge.
>>18089594
>I spent a lot of time, dedication and money
>I really liked her
Off of this it sounds like you just let her use you and kept telling yourself that one day she'd pay you back. I'd bet she never did either beyond maybe giving you access to her pussy like it's some sort of reward. How it should've gone is you should've infatuated her so much she'd carry her own weights in life while pining after you.
But that aside don't get salty with your friend. You failed her, now he's probably just trying his hand. Give him advice and help him along.
You're out,he's in.
>>18089698
You may be right, I did spoil her maybe too much, she kept going on about how " she didn't deserve me", and she constantly needed reassurance.
>>18089619
Yeah, she is using him as a napkin, not even in a sad-fuck kinda way, just cleaning her tears on him, I spoke to him, and he said he didn't mind. I'll just let him be, and move on, not caring about them anymore.