Two girls are crazy

>>18088996
OP here. One of my closer friends and I are trying to give our friend some space until he's ready to talk; but we'd like to throw a pizza party for him on the weekend and just be there. I just don't know what to say or do, like this girl that dumped him; she kept trying to start her car and ignored the problems it was having until finally she wrecked the pistons. The girl that I was into was similar(They are lifetime friends and roomates), she drinks a lot and crashed her car. I felt bad for her, helped her repair it, taught her about basic maintenance and was always there for her. Then she just up at met some random guy and said that he was doing more than me. Should I lay into these two verbally? Or let them learn there own life lessons? It's hard caring for people who don't give a fuck.

>Being this beta
You must be white, neither of the two girls are worth your time, have some pride fuckface. Also your friend is a tool for dropping his hard earned money buying her a new engine and doing all the work, you need time to figure out what type of broads the women you surround yourself with are like, not doing everything for them as if they're your mom/wife/daughter
Forget the first chick, damn you guys are pussies

>>18089007
Also no don't lay into them you turbofag, cut them off from your life, you can still talk to them if they initiate a conversation and you're too much of a pussy to have some balls but don't do anything else for these broads, fucking pushovers man
Bet you're the kind of faggot who gets mad at the guy who she's blowing now instead of realizing she's the cunt

>>18089007
I have self respect. That girl and I talked like I said and I told her how disappointed I was in her, but that I wasn't going to try and stop her from doing what she wanted, if she thought that I wasn't "good enough" to reconsider her actions, then that's not a girl I want to be with.

My friend on the other hand has been dating the other girl for 3 years now and has been trying to help her with her drinking/smoking problem. She's complained many times about how he "treated her like a child" because of it and when those two girls get together with their other female friends, they just get super wasted and make dumb decisions. Girl A got drunk, met some guy at a bar, accepted going out with him; and didn't even tell me. Now she spends almost every night at that bar where he works, only making her drinking problem worse. Girl B like I said got drunk at a party, and dumped my best friend in front of everyone. It's really stupid.

>>18089021
What I did stands, also when I say cut them off I don't mean make it obvious you're ignoring them, I mean they become like any random person on the street, just hey whatever hi bye, you move on and find someone worth your time and effort
Read your own post, you're not there to save those two from their own stupidity, let them drown in their idiocy, it's the only way they'll learn
I'm telling, you're going to end up miserable if you keep rescuing these two, you're the safety net while she gets her excitement and orgasms from someone "more exciting". I've fucked my share of those types who had their own suckers
You'll get over it, pick yourself up and move on

>>18089041
I did my man. I was really angry but as you said, realized that I was turning into a literal "captain save a ho" and so I talked to her last weekend, politely explained how the whole situation made me feel and that I wasn't going to be around for her like that anymore. It's been difficult actually saying "hi" and the general pleasantries though because of the feeling of betrayal. I'm just whining really. My friend on the other hand really thought that his girl was someone who after such a long time, was slowly starting to mature and put down her demons. What happened has thrown our friends group into chaos.

>>18089052
You don't have to say hi at all, you go on about your life, she's not another random person and time will take care of whatever lingering feelings you may have
I personally don't believe in people changing, you are who you are, that's my experience and no matter how much I've denied it in past I'm pretty much the same guy. So basically I would never see a girl like that as a potential life partner, I'm pretty vanilla so drunk girls who do drugs and shit are just not my thing
Either way, help your friend move on but don't force it