how to navigate social situation

>>18085450
if she wants to hang out like you said she does, then do it, don't hesitate. The fact that you didn't capitalize on it when she mentioned it is bad on your part. You should have asked her to chill after work that day/night.

Or do one better and bring a spliff to work and pass it around out by the dumpster with her.

>>18085508
>didn't capitalize
we were both going home, for sure, but I will try to capitalize

>bring the weed
I'll try harder to get the weed! I actually know four other people who might have some.

>>18085524
Why are you so fixated on the idea that spending time with her outside of work has to involve weed?

I mean if she's interested in you, don't you think that what she would care about is spending time with you?

>>18085536
she's not that typical. we're getting along well but I don't even think she wants to fuck. we already talk a lot. I think getting stoned is a good way to ensure that the get-together is interesting and the music is enjoyable.

>>18085577
So what you're saying is that you're boring as fuck and the only way you think girls will be interested in spending time with you is if you smoke 'em out.

You're basically wanting to be a drinking/drug buddy, not someone's romantic interest, or even a friend who wants to spend time with you because they like your company.

I'm kinda sad for you dude. I think you should want more for yourself.

>>18085622
just woke up and made breakfast

can I get an amen that this guy is an insecure little bitch?

>>18086532
>>18085622
and apparently all of his "romantic interests" fuck on the first date. ha ha you'll learn man, do not worry.

>>18085450
>>18086533

>and apparently all of his "romantic interests" fuck on the first date. ha ha you'll learn man, do not worry.
>We've been talking for long hours and disclosing things about ourselves.

Dude, chill. Go smoke with her or whatever, but don't assume she is into you just because of that. Don't assume emotional support will turn into sex. Maybe she just wants a friend. GIvce it a try, but keep your expectations realistic.

>>18086542
yeah. I wasn't expecting sex or anything.

going to a different job now, have a good day brotheh

>>18085450
Jerk off, get some bud without telling your connect who will be smoking with you, tell this girl that you'd like to hang out and then tell her that you have feelings for her and know that she doesn't feel the same way, that you are telling her just so she knows you won't try to date her unless she changes her mind, and then tell her the invitation still stands. Let her decide. If she wants your friendship, she will accept and you will discover some new layers to Radiohead's "Hail to the Thief."