Keeping my boner.

bump that shit

>>18084871
Time to start poppin pills, nigga.

>>18084871
Stop watching porn (including seeing sexy pics).
Fapping some times per week is good.

See if it isn't related to anxiety or low blood pressure.

Performance anxiety

It happened once, now every time you live that situation again, it comes back to your mind, and the fear of losing your boner makes you lose your boner

I had it for a while after starting on anxiety meds, and the way I fixed it was getting as close as possible to orgasm in a situation I was comfortable with, and finishing in the ones I wasn't. After you succeed a few times, you build up confidence to do it every time

>>18085100

What do you mean finishing in the ones you weren't?

Also I didn't write it but I do cum even when I'm semi-hard (didn't even know that shit was possible). My gf is very supportive and I can manage to make her cum with a good old cuni, so there's still hope. But yeah, I always end up frustrated at myself because of that, that doesn't help.

>>18085172

In my case, I got very anxious with penetration as a whole. The first meds I took made me last too long and my gf seemed kinda bored after a while. I didn't feel well, even with her being very understanding.

Her jerking me off or blowing me was fine. So we did that until I was on the verge of cumming, then I penetrated and gave the last humps to do it

>>18085205
How long did it took before it went back to normal? Were you still on meds when it happened? Not taking any myself, just curious.

>>18085213
Honestly? I don't remember. Between starting with the meds, figuring out how to fix and actually fixing it, about six months. I was still on it, so cumming eventually took ages anyway, but I managed to keep it hard throughout penetration without problems.

I have a similar situation to you, OP. When I was with an ex, when I was good, I was really good and she bragged about me. But most of the time I was finishing under 30 seconds, but most of the time I just couldn't get it up or stay hard.

After reading about it, its likely performance anxiety, porn overload (wired the brain poorly), and general anxiety.

I have no advice for you because I can't really talk to people to make friends, and I can't quit porn because I'm on the internet for 10 hours a day. Time for some life changes; Start on a monday or the first of the month to give yourself a psychological starting line. I'm starting tomorrow on Monday myself and going a week without fapping, then on saturday its going to be without porn. Starting with some small but realistic goals.

One thing my ex helped with was playing music, lighting a candle, and kinda taking charge in bed. But because it wasn't her personality or preferred style, she wouldn't continue it and one of the major reasons we separated.