Compatibility versus Attractivness

Yes. If shes not ugly and dying, I see no problem with her if your personalities are so compatible like you said. To what extent does she not take care of herself, though? Because there is a limit.

>>18084337
To list what stands out to me:

Personally I like to take showers daily, and especially after sex -
she'll skip a day usually when shes at my place and that means sex fluids tend to just...stay...
I've asked her about it and it doesn't seem to be an issue to her, which is strange considering you'd think you'd wanna keep your cooch clean.

She's also gotten sick 3(4?) times in the 6 months I've known her, which really concerns me in the long run because I almost never get sick. This is probably because she doesn't eat nutritional foods, which doesn't help me because I've been trying hard this year to eat healthier.

Teeth brushing seems to be sporadic as well.
Sometimes they're white, but often times there's plaque, which less then savory.

Other stuff like minimal hair-dressing and makeup is a thing, but that's not as concerning.

>>18084372
I should say that had I known all these things before getting to know her, I'd probably have broken it off then, but its hard to justify leaving someone once you know you get along with them so well, and that doing so will really hurt them.