ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

To guys,
Is gagging on dick annoying/gross or is it actually a turn on like its portrayed in porn?

>>18083768

it depends on the guy.

im bisexual and when a girl gags on dick its a turn off to me. but when a guy does it, its hot. i think its because i dont really like dominating women, but i do liek dominating men. i love smacking a guy and spitting on him, but with a woman i like things cute, as innocent as possible, etc.

with straight guys it would just be a preference. some like it, some dont. it depends on the kind of guy they are.

>>18083768
Straight guy. I think it's attractive. If anything it shows you're doing your best at sucking dick so it's not like anyone can fault you for it.

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Can I get a qt kissless virgin girlfriend if I offer food and shelter? It's kind of like adopting a dog right? I think that's how it works.

To women

I'm 27 and I need to get braces, my teeth aren't a mess but need some sorting out, is this a negative or just don't give a shit?

>>18083791

it is a negative. if you're cute you'd ahve that going for you but it still limits the kind of girls you'd get.

im probably going to get braces when i hit thirty myself. my teeth arent bad and dont turn off women, so i figured id enjoy my youth and then when i hit 30 get them done so i can look less wrecked as i get older. by then i can likely afford invisalign anyways

To women, preferably

How fucked up this girl is?

>be me, have gf for 8yrs
>do a threesome with a girl our age
>super cute, darling, perfect match, the three get along really well
>she lives in another city
>kinda cold and distant in convos, but every once in a while gets super sweet
>recently said that she misses us a lot and that she's a better person after she met us (wtf but ok)
>said she's loyal to us as a couple, feels very included, said she felt abandoned when we stopped replying briefly
>ff today
>talk to her, super cold and bitchy

We do our best to not be clingy and I think we do manage it, but those mixed signals make us confused AF. My impression is that she really likes us, but get a bit jelly that she can't be with us due to distance. She seems to be a bit low on self esteem, like the ugly swam that is cute now but has problems dealing with it.

>>18083791
Let me put it this way: I'd rather a guy who was sorting out his teeth than a guy with jacked up teeth. There are other options like invisalign if you're feeling self-conscious about it though, or if they're not terrible, you could just leave them

>>18083825
I'm aware of my options, I just wanted to know if it was a negative. Thanks anyway.

>>18083768
I think some guys like it, but I'm not a fan. It just sounds disgusting. I'd prefer not getting my whole dick in your mouth to hearing you gag.

Girls, do you like being grabbed by the pussy?

>>18083768
It's a turn on. Please suffocate on my dick.

>>18083783
wtf man

How do you handle it when the urge to fart suddelny emerges during sex?

>>18083985
I get this is a joke, but I actually like it when bf randomly grabs me secretly in public.

Sometimes he puts his hand in between my thighs and creeps upward if we're sitting next to each other and no one is watching. The embarrassment and tingling turns me on.


However, let me make it clear that it is only acceptable for my boyfriend to do this. Don't go grabbing pussies.

I have a guy friend who is recently single, how can i proposition him? We are close ish, I met his gf and used to hang out with them both. Now he's single and I'm attracted to him now. I'm still down to be friends with him but he's just really good looking.

>>18084014
I do it, my boyfriend and I laugh, and keep going.

>>18084044
My farts are really foul though.

>>18084030
I make silly questions for people to answer however they want, kind of like a test. It isn't just a joke. ._.
It's funny when people get offended by my silly questions.

Your answer is pretty hot. I've never thought of that. Thanks!

>>18084014
Fortunately never happened to me and no girl ever farted on my dick (that's nasty!).

>>18084039
Grab him by the dick.

>>18084044
Gross.

>>18084050
Can't help you with that, my boyfriend and I both eat good diets and have regular bowel movements

>>18084052
>Gross
Good thing I'm not asking you to have sex with me then

>>18084055
So do I, I guess it's the milk.

Im a male. My unemployed room mate is an attractive female. Is it wrong for me to think if she is going to have a man, then her man should be taking care of her and not me?

On the one hand, if she were a male it wouldnt make me angry. On the other hand, if she were a male i would have kicked her out by now.

How can i handle this situation without making me look like a terrible person?

>>18084076
Does she not pay for anything or split/pay you rent or pay bills? If so, regardless of gender she's a mooch who you have no obligations to help.

>>18084076
>>18084088
Unless she is providing vagina.

>>18084076
If she's paying her share of rent and utilities, why would you kick her out? If she isn't, then you have every right to kick her out (though you'd be left paying all expenses of your own anyway)

>>18084088
Nah she doesnt have any money. Im supporting her and her adorable child who has become attached to me. I really just want to know if im wrong for thinking she should not be sleeping with someone while im supporting her. If i brought this up would all of her family and friends think im the biggest douchebag theyve ever met?

>>18084100
Damn, you have cucked yourself so far.

Would taking to instagram/snapchat asking for a plus one to a family party be considered odd? I have several available girl friends and I'm good looking/not awkward at all. Would something like "looking for a plus one to this party, hmu if interested" on an instagram story be odd? Would girls look twice at it?

>>18084099
Ive been paying everything and providing food, gas, and keeping her phone on for months. She has cost me at least two grand plus lost opportunity for a room mate that actually helps with expenses

>>18084100
>supporting a single mom
You're a HUGE cuck.

>>18084106
That's desperate as fuck, and not much better than posting it on Facebook or Twitter or any other social media platform.

>>18084108
Then no, you don't owe her anything. Unless she's on the lease and it says that you're jointly and severally liable to pay these expenses.

>>18084103
Lol yeah its pretty bad! Sometimes you just have to learn things the hard way. I learned my lesson!

>>18084100
>>18084108

I mean, theyd think you're a weirdo who thinks the girls your gf or something, but they probably already think you're a cuck. Honestly I have no idea what the fuck you're doing and I hope this is a joke and I have no other advice for you other than stop

>>18084117
>I learned my lesson!
>doesn't kick her out

>>18084119
Its not a joke. Ok i will stop. Thanks everyone.

>>18084119
To clarify, if you brought up the whole "she shouldn't be sleeping with ppl while i support her" thing theyd think you're a freak. Not if you said you're gonna kick this bitch out.

>>18084115
>desperate

Sheesh, thought it was harmless lol. Any suggestions?

>>18084127
Ask individual girls that you know if they want to go with you. Posting it on something makes it seem like you have no actual friends or got rejected by them all already

>>18084126
Yeah that's what i thought. I will keep that part to myself. Its just that ive supported several unemployed male room mates in the past and i thought this should be no different just because she is female. But it IS different. I guess im old school but i feel like if shes got a man then her man should be taking carw of her.

>>18084039
Proposition him for what exactly?

>>18084141
You shouldnt let anyone leech off you regardless of gender. That was my point. Her man should be taking care of her, but even if she was single this situation would still be fucked.

How do you deal with self-consciousnes about your body imperfections towards a possible partner, girl- or boyfriend?

I for example have several issues like:
> acne scars on my back
> occasionas pimples on back and upper arms
> whiteheads on my back
> strech marks on my belly, shoulders, thighs, back, etc.
> a huge darker pigmented spot on one of my legs (like a birthmark, but homogenous)
> light overweight (too much fat, esp. at belly)

I can't do anything about most of this issues e.g. the scars or the strech marks. I did the very best I could in conjunction with a dermatologist and my acne still went on badly.
I already am training to reduce my overweight but how I said, the rest will stand forever.
The most unpleasant part for me about my strech marks is that even though the have lost their coloration, everytime I work out and get my blood pumping the marks turn bright reddish...

Guys,
Let's say a random girl you haven't talked to in a decade tells you to grab coffee. You weren't ever really close, you only hung out a couple of times. You go and grab coffee with the girl the following day.
You hint on another meetup later, but that would be in a group setting.

What would you think if the girl asked you out for another coffee or dinner?

-I just feel awkward already, as I'm really shy. Random anecdotes of your gf's who asked you out welcome.

girls (and guys actually who have done this)

i was looking for ways of adding some flair to dates (specifically first dates) and someone told me that bringing along a colouring book is actually a gold plated move. the idea is you pull it out when you go to sit down for a drink or something and do some pages while talking, few obvious bonuses

- gets the girl right up close
- shared activity
- antarctic icebreaker
- memorable

it still seems like a slightly goofy idea to me, so what do you all think, how would you react if a guy did this to you? and for reference im talking like disney colouring books for kids, not some animu or erotica shit or whatever

>>18084269
Going out to grab a coffee does not automatically hint towards romantic advances.
It does not even indicate specific interest in you.

Maybe this girl just wants to catch up by getting in touch and see what happened to old acquaintances or more likely she has some ulterior motives and wants to probe her chances (again not nessesarily in a romantic matter).

My advice would be if you'd be able to menage meet up, just go out to enjoy the coffee, maybe accompanied by some sweet pastry and see where the conversation goes. Is it a informal chit chat about what happened in the past decade, e.g. the usual topics: education, work, travel, relationships. Usually some form of conversation structure will emerge.

>>18084269
>What would you think if the girl asked you out for another coffee or dinner?
I would assume that she's interested in me really. Not sure there's anything else to read from that. But I would wonder why she got in touch with me out of the blue if we haven't talked in 10 years.

>>18084308
>>18084311
Thanks!

We both have good reasons for that long gap, so that's fine.

>>18084178
halp pls

>>18084269
i'd assume she has interest in me and is playing it safe by being conservative. i'd have more respect for her than if we hadn't met up, only because she is a girl asking me out 1 on 1. that is a certain amount of confidence and self-awareness that a lot of girls don't have, or maybe choose not to act out on. a lot of post-baby boomer millenial girls in 2017 still believe that "the guy should do everything" and that is straight up cancer.

>>18084178
the way i deal with it is i talk about it. i talk about how it makes me feel to an extent so they know what is on my mind about those issues. it's not like i obsess over things like that. like i will talk about my acne openly with no issues, but at the same time i don't feel embarrassed or try ot hide my acne at all. i'm comfortable having acne even though i prefer not to have it. so i talk about it as if it isn't a problem, because it isn't. well, acne is a problem, but me having to have it, isn't.

>>18084370
thank you.
that actually helps me

I am a 25 years old guy and I have never flirted.
Is this normal?

Girls, what do you like to talk about during your first date? I am going to have one soon and I am afraid of being boring, never was a big talker, only a great listener.

>>18084365
Thanks.

If I like someone, I go all out, even though I'm shy. I do worry about me coming off too strong, though.

Im way too tight to do anything specifically with doggy style and similar positions, even with MY finger (which is tiny as fuck) and being ridiculously wet and legitimately turned on. Anyone else have this problem or experienced it with a girl? Am I just supposed to stretch it out?

How do periods feel?

>>18084484
You seem like a dream-tier girl then...
I once had a gf who despised masturbation and had her last bf a year before we met. In the beggining she was really tight, to the point I could not go fully in and it was painful for her (and also uncomfortable for me as well) I stretched her in a week or so and from then on no issues emerged.
After all remember that a standard vagina is fit to have a child put through. So yours can definitely stretch enough for a penis. Go for it, better yet with your partner.

Why do some men like to emotionally abuse women, manipulate their feelings or push them into having sex when they barely know each other?

>>18084178
if they like you for who you are they won't care and accept you.

>>18084501
Yeah, I never used fingers inside before I met my bf and he was my first so I guess it makes sense then. I just wanted to make sure there wasnt anything wrong with me because I couldn't find anything on being just too tight for doggy style that wasnt just shit like "youre not turned on"

>>18084499
awful

>>18084484
>>18084511
Relax your muscles. There is no vagina that physically tight unless you're clenching.

>>18084302
Honestly this would be weird to me

>>18084511
Forgot to add that I'm not sure why its just doggy style, I mean I've been having sex with my boyfriend for a while now and even though im still decently tight, I dont understand why doggy style makes such a drastic change.

>>18084511
yeah. I don't know all this much about female masturbation, but I guess that the huge majority of girls uses insertions well before first sex, so they never experience the problem. Myself I'd love to be given task of stretching out a girl, so your bf may enjoy it as well

>>18084515
you clearly haven't seen enough vaginas then

>>18084517
the fit's the most perfect then, I believe. Also it may be just your unusual build

>>18084515
I have tried relaxing my muscles but the most I can fit without it hurting is one of my fingers or half of one of my bfs. Should we just force it next time?

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Never had a gf before but now I do, thinking off buying her this make up lamp for her birthday.

http://muid.cc/mirror.html

You think she will be happy?

>>18084530
Thats actually super cool. I think she'd love it. What does the 2 speed switch thing mean though?

>>18084545
lol, think it just means it has 2 buttons for light. one mirror lamp and one "reading" lamp aiming from the bottom.

Asked in the last thread.

Did I do the right thing? And what can I do now?

My friend didn't respond to my text early in the week. So I messaged her "Hey, I just wanted to check in and make sure that everything is all right" she responded a few hours later with "I'm good, we had a rough call the other day" and "It was a call for a suicide, it was kind of rough"

I really couldn't say much to that, so I just said "Damn. I really can't say much beyond that I'll be here if you need to talk to someone"

I was gonna come clean with how I feel for her, but it didn't seem like it would be appropriate give the messages

(I like her both as a friend And more)

>>18084572
Thats what I guessed, regardless its cool af. The tray at the bottom is neat.

>>18084581
think ill buy her a pink one since she is pretty girly and like pink

http://www.gearbest.com/makeup-brushes-tools/pp_298980.html?wid=21&lkid=10357243

available here if you are interested, thank you.

>been dating this girl for the past month or so
>can't stop wondering what her pussy and asshole taste like
>afraid how she might react if I ask to eat her out
WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO

?

>>18083822
She's just a moody type, and your impression of her is spot on. If she admits she's getting to be a better person after met you, it's a good sign things are working.

Ladies,

Have you ever dated or had sex with a guy who was shorter than you? How was it? Was it ever awkward, did you have to stop wearing heels, etc.

>>18084594
you strand her and check how she tastes. This way her reactions will not be important

>>18084580
You did the right stuff, now you've to live your words, anon, be there for her when she needs you.
Keep messaging her, make her feel that someone out there still cares about her being, just don't expect her to be the one who initiates things with her current state though.

When she's showing progress to being better and can think straight, that's when you could start coming clean with your feelings. Good luck, anon.

>>18084630
Yea. I guess I handled this as best as I could?

But that's more or less been my plan, keep in contact, dunno how frequently I should message her though.

But, yea, when she seems to be more her usual self, I will start to come clean.

And if she does need me, I will do what I can for her. Though I think she'll be fine in the end, she is a tough girl

>>18084580
Um, I'm not a native speaker. So does it mean that she's been suicidal or that someone else has been?

>>18084637
Someone else, i assume that the calls are part of her job, like a paramedic or cop or something

>>18084637
She's an EMT and responded to a Murder/Suicide call.

I woulda done alot much different if she actually was Suicidal

>>18084646
Yea, she's an EMT. Only been one for a month...

>>18084634
>>18084637
You handled it right at least.

As how frequent you should message her it's up to you just don't go overboard, but let's say once a day try asking about her day/condition. If she replies and want to chat further, go on. If she don't reply, wait a day before you start texting her again.

Nah, she's working on suicide call/case, but it seems that thing really drained her and she appreciated your concern.

Question for girls

When you wake up before work/school and you have a message from your ldr boyfriend, when do you respond?

>>18084667
I guess, daily might be a bit much though, but I would say weekly is best for now. I would avoid the topic, but still try to show I care and will be there for her.
Though, I am sure that it did mean something to her, that I showed concern and offered my ear to her.

>>18084681
When I have time or whenever I remember.

>>18084646
>>18084661
Just as I thought. So in this case I'd say that it may even prove beneficial, as you can compliment her on being able to stand such situations and show how much do you appreciate her strength.

Hmm, maybe that should be a question for both genders. I wonder why guys want to respond ASAP but girls are much more casual.

>>18084706
>>18084697

>>18084700
True, maybe I can use it, but it won't be until she is back to normal

>>18084706
because you have biased experiences and what you observe isn't generalisable

>>18084609

I think so. She definitly doesn't seem like the manipulative type that wants to emotionally kite us. Looks more like she has her own personal relationship/emotional/self esteem problems and we are indeed doing some good for her.

It's tyring that she flips from honeymoon to bitchy, but well, it's not like I'm starving for pussy since I already have a gf, and we're not obliged to keep up with that since we don't live in the same city...

But I gotta say, o boi am I curious to see how this will end

>>18083737
>I buy whatever the fuck I want
>I drink whenever the fuck I want
>I go wherever the fuck I want
>I invite whoever the fuck I want
>I watch whatever the fuck I want
>don't fucking nag


Ladies. Why is this so hard to grasp?

>>18084706
>I wonder why guys want to respond ASAP but girls are much more casual.
On average, I've never found guys to expect more or less than girls regarding this issue.

>>18084728
It's not. Just like the fact that I'm not going to date you if you disregard my opinions and feelings like they mean nothing.

>>18084681
ASAP.
I was in a ldr before he moved to my state and I'd always respond as soon as I woke up. We'd talk for hours every day too. We've been together irl for a year now.

>>18084617
It's a bonus if you fuck standing up

I'm 1.88m and rarelly fuck my gf of 1.72m standing for this reason. I did today and my legs were shaking from fatigue pretty fast

>>18084737
Forgot to add, if I didnt respond to that message immediately because I was late or really busy etc. I'd at least tell him I love you and tell him I'll talk later

>>18084617
Never dated or had sex with one, but I have a few friends who are about my height or only slightly taller. Not going to lie, it feels weird

Women:

So I'm going to visit my friend in a few weeks and i'll be staying at her place. What sort of fun things do you like to do at home with a guy friend that is staying for a few nights?

>>18084728
As long as you date a girl whom holds those exact same beliefs about herself, then you're probably fine.

What are the worst deal braker for you, girls? I mean things which cannot be overcome (at least by non-billionaire or so)

>>18084770

Sex

>>18083737

>girl ends things with me because she was super busy with school/life and had no time for a relationship
>Starts posting snaps on her story of how busy she is always at school or out with her sister, makes it clear and known shes with family not with someone else. through captions
>Started to feel like shes posting that shit so I see it.

is she feeling regret? or just wants attention in general, maybe other guys?

I deleted her after a while cause it was fucking with my head. But I'm still wondering. Was deleting the right step?

( I secretly want her back but im moving on)

>>18084788
What kind do things are you're talking?

Like a general personality trait /vice like dishonesty?

Or something specific, and obvious, like being a murderer?

>>18084806
oh yea, all this is 3-4 months after things ended

>>18084823
basically anything that comes to your mind. Both physical and mental traits interest me in this respect. Things done by person are not as interesting, as I believe it's pretty much unrelated to gender

>>18084788
That's such a broad question, I don't even know what you're asking.
>I mean things which cannot be overcome
Lots of personality traits can't be overcome, or at least are very difficult to overcome, this is a huge limitation on what you're asking.

>>18084832
no, I meant things that you cannot get over, even if that person is great in other respects. Probably phrased that wrong.

I know it's very broad, but I'm interested in your first thoughts

>>18084844
I honestly don't know the scope of the question, I can't answer it if you don't tell me.

>I meant things that you cannot get over, even if that person is great in other respects
That is exactly what a dealbreaker is, there was no need for you to add this...

>>18084775
that's idiotic, I couldn't possible allow that. don't you realize that women can get pregnant?

>>18084732
why would I want to date you?

>>18084862
I could ask you the same thing

>>18084869
well you didn't, I'm asking you. Don't you realize I have a lady??

>>18084873
And I have a boyfriend, what's your point?

>>18084874
well I'm flattered but I'll have to say no

>>18084877
That's okay, I don't date fuckwits anyway.

>>18084885
are you on here alone?? its kind of late isnt it?

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Girls, is it better to be warm and caring or cool and teasing?

Going to college with this girl who's very social yet inseparable from me it seems. She rarely leaves my side when we're there, and rarely leaves my phone when we're not. She's a pretty innocent church-going girl and a bit of a doormat, which kind of reflects in how we interact.
We go for drinks and dinner at college every now and then with just the two of us. We've grown very close and fond of each other it seems. I'd go full lovestruck sap, yet while she clearly enjoys that, the most she said herself was that she's had trouble expressing her feelings to people she's crushing on for all her life.

I'd call her up and she wouldn't take it because she's busy studying (while typing out lengthy messages to me all night as we were studying)
I'd ask her out some place randomly and she tells me she can't because she overheard her family having plans that day, or can't distract herself from her studies (which she tried to combine with plans once. Didn't work out)
I'd see it as her rejecting me, yet occasionally she does agree to go if her plans line up.

With how warm we're acting towards each other, I feel like a caring boyfriend. Except that I'm not, and she's randomly shooting down my plans and advances. Feels more like I'm an orbiter that way. What can I do about it? Should I change the way I behave? Wait it out until she eases into it and drops the barriers?

>>18084853
> the scope of the question
physical traits like having braces, being short, having a mustache, having no legs

mental traits like being depressed/introvert/stupid

>>18084899
Hard to say because it's a pretty individual thing. Back off a little and see if she comes chasing.

>>18084893
Sweetie, depending on where you are in the world, it's a different time. It's the middle of the afternoon where I am. Don't you have a girlfriend to fuck anyway, or did you make her up?

>>18084908
are you in hawaii?

>>18084901
So you want to know any dealbreaker I could possibly have?

>>18084920
why, yes. Look, I know there may really be a lot, I'm just asking about first couple of things coming to your mind. I really can't narrow the question, besides maybe very obvious things like serious disability

>>18084925
Okay, I'll indulge you. My biggest dealbreaker is anyone under 6'2". Second is canadians. Third is anyone that looks like Chad Kroger

>>18084925
Okay:
>ugly
>an asshole
>stupid
>bad hygiene
>manchild, or otherwise immature
>terrible with money
>desperate
>Nice Guy, or embodies any /r9k/ trait in any way
>clingy and/or needy
>body pillows, figurines or the like
>engages in illegal activity, regardless of whether he's been charged or not
>impulsive and reckless

Just a couple off the top of my head

>>18084939
>>terrible with money
what do you mean?

>>18084938
I see. Well, I'm 5'3"

>>18084942
>what do you mean?
What's so hard to understand? Frivolous spending, living beyond your means, being unable to budget properly, living paycheck to paycheck etc.

>>18083737
girls, how do you like your man's pubes to be like.

>>18084788
>>18084844
Smoking of any kind is an immediate deal breaker for me, no matter how casual.
Having kids from a previous relationship
Low confidence/submissive in nature. I just only like dominant men.

>>18084939
>ugly [x]
>an asshole [x]
>stupid [x]
>bad hygiene [x]
>manchild, or otherwise immature [x]
>terrible with money [x]
>desperate [x]
>Nice Guy, or embodies any /r9k/ trait in any way [x]
>clingy and/or needy [x]
>body pillows, figurines or the like [ ]
>engages in illegal activity, regardless of whether he's been charged or not [ ]
>impulsive and reckless [x]
damn

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>>18084681
As soon as I saw it, unless I was just absolutely 100% late for work and had to immediately jump in my car and go, in which case I'd respond as soon as I had a spare second.
>Implying I'll ever have such a message to wake up to ever in my life

>>18084269
I'd feel flattered if she was cute and oblige to anything she proposes.
If she was ugly I would just feel awkward as fuck and would just pretend I'm busy and avoid interacting with you completely.

>>18084944
well, he could as well be able to manage budget just fine, but never have much cash. Or be very avaricious. All in all you have pretty reasonable needs it would seem

>>18084950
how about men not willing to impose their will on you, but still being confident and not letting anyone control them?

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Girls, do you enjoy getting your butt licked?

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>>18084939
>ugly

>>18084499
You know, I'm really struggling to describe what it feels like in a way you might get.
I would say, imagine you were constantly pissing yourself, but it's not just blood coming out of us, it's like, tissue and mucus too, so it's not completely fluid like that.
So you're sitting in a pile of blood, mucus, and bits of tissue all day. The worst is when you can like, feel a chunk sliding out. It's awful.

The other little side effects, like cramping, cramping kinda feels like a muscle ache in a way. But targeted and intense.
Me, my tits always swell and get sore. So I guess imagine your balls are swollen and extremely sensitive to the touch, where something just barely grazing it hurts like a fucker. But imagine your balls are in a position where they;re far more likely to bump into shit or be touched by shit.

Man, it is difficult to explain. All women even experience it differently. Hell, none of my own damn periods are the same month to month.

how common is it for girls to bleed after/during sex?

i see my girlfriend infrequently, about every 2 weeks, and we have sex and every few times i'll pull my dick out and there will be brown stuff (which we both assume to be dried/undried blood) and we can't really figure out why it's happening

her hypothesis is that it's because she has sex so infrequently that it's too tight for me. but i can't imagine that being the case and all the google searching im doing doesnt seem to add up to our situation

>>18084986
If it's brown, then you're not the one who made her bleed. If you were making her bleed, then it would be bright red. My first thought is that it's the last dregs of her period, but that doesn't make sense if it's every two weeks. It's got to be something else, get her to talk to her gyno about it

>>18084962
Yeah, thats fine. I mean, I don't really want to be /controlled/ either. Dominance doesn't have to be extreme. I just don't like taking the lead, at the very least not all the time, and would prefer my dude to enjoy that role.
But I'm still my own person. If I don't wanna do what he wants me to, I'm not gonna do it. I'd just want him to be dominant enough to give that lead to me, and then let me decide if I wanna take it or not.

Idk, basically my complaint is the past couple dudes I've seen had put me so far ahead of themselves that I felt really uncomfortable. Like they'd bend over backwards to do whatever it is I want without ever offering to tell me what they want to do, or what they like. Because to them, it didn't matter what they liked or wanted, only what I wanted. And I just didn't like being put on a pedestal like that.
Would rather a guy who can tell me what he wants to do, and then be chill either way if I wanted to do it or not.
Like hell, I'd actually prefer if my guy said "I wanna do X event" and if I wasn't into it, he'd go anyway without me. Instead of like, just forgetting all about it in favor of something I wanted to do. Vice versa too. I don't see much of a point dragging people along to things they aren't interested in at all. Would rather our dates have more mutual interest than that.

Sorry for the wall of text, this was a complex thing to explain and I still don't think I explained it well lol.

>>18085004
No problem, I get it. I guess I'm a special case, because I rarely want anything. To most things I'm indifferent, so I can have them both ways. Still, there are things I want, I do, and I'm adamant about. Only, they are mostly the important life things you don't have often in day-to-day life.

>>18085021
mm yeah, indifference isn't something I'm particularly attracted to. I like a man who knows what he wants and how to get it.
My unicorn of a dude is one that's just a touch cocky, but still kind and caring in the long run.

But that's just me.

>>18085037
well, I know exactly what I want. I only don't want much.
Thanks for answerin btw, good luck finding your unicorn

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QTDDTOT:

Dealbreakers. Open to everyone. Say you're in a great relationship, you're both into each other and are in love. What are your deal breakers that could cause you to break it off? What would upset you that much? Obviously cheating is the big one, but what else could happen?

I'm just interested in what people might answer.

>>18085063
Contempt, any sign of it and I'm off.

>>18085063
Distance. I don't do LDRs, if for whatever reason we had to move apart from one another for some significant time (more than a month or 2), I'd just break it off and cut my losses.
Only way I might be able to go longer is if there is some sort of, set 100% this is going to happen plan to get back to one another. Even still, I know how it goes, you go more than a couple months without significant contact, one of us finds someone closer to get with. And in my experience, it's never me.

>>18085063
For women, not being open if there is something that is bothering them and just building up recent.

Do you present 4chan to a new partner?

>>18085094
Rules 1 and 2 newfag

>>18085094
Guy here, hell no. Ideally a potential partner already uses 4chan.
Could you imagine the situation tho?
>hey babe, this is the website I was talking about
>open site
>child pornography
>interracial cuck porn
>traps everywhere
>gay porn

>>18085094
My boyfriend knows I browse and post on 4chan. I can't actually remember how it came up or when he found out though.

Girls

How often do you gossip about sex with your friends?

>>18085118
What do you mean 'how often'?

>>18085118
Never. Some of my friends will tell me what they hear about OTHER people's sex lives, but we never talk about our own.

>>18085108
>>18085110
How will I shitpost when I'm with my partner, then?

>>18085112
Does he browse here too?

>>18084859
Alright well good luck then

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When a girl gives you the hot and cold treatment, as in is affectionate, has sex with you, then stops responding to messages, etc, for some period of time then comes back and starts talking to you..

How do you react to that? Specifically if your intention is to make a relationship happen.

>>18085125
>Does he browse here too?
Nope.

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how do i stop being so shy
pic related its me, ive had two gfs before but they both kinda made it very obvious before anything happened

>>18085125
why don't you touch her tits instead of shitposting.
Only reason people even uses this site is because they are single.

>>18085063
The biggest telltale sign for me is how she generally conducts herself in arguments. I will find more red flags or green lights there than at any other time. This is the same with everyone frankly, not just romantic partnerships.

>>18084945
Trimmed

>>18085063
If she told me she wanted to have sex with another guy. I'd pretty much instantly lose respect in her.

>>18085120

So you don't?


>>18085122

That's quite surprising. Even when you've hooked up with guys? Not talking about a relationship you've been in?

>>18084044
Gtfo white trash subhuman

>>18085159
>So you don't?
I never said that, I asked you to clarify what you mean

>>18085169

When you talk with friends, how often do you gossip about sex?

When I hang out with my friends, my friends almost always talk about sex at some point while we are hanging out. It's really annoying actually

Girls and guys

Is it alright if someone decides to just live through other people's experiences?

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I am stoned.

My girlfriend doesn't like the fact that i get stoned, though she pretends she doesn't mind.

She just texted me saying she needs to tell me something. I want to reply, but she is really good at telling when I'm not acting myself through text.

Should I reply to her? I want to, but since I'm stoned, I don't know if I should. I'm not even sure if she knew what the situation was, what she would prefer I do.

Is it morally right for me to reply? What if it is important? I'm worried that the decision if I do or don't could ruin my relationship.

>>18085184
um, how can you make that happen again?

>>18085182
It depends on the friends, and whether there's anything to talk about

>>18085191

It's extremely easy. You just really listen to people when they talk about their lives, and just absorb the emotion and their experiences.

For example, ive never had a girlfriend before. But I've seen my best friend go through 5 of them in the past 15 years. So I've heard so much of both the good and bad, and seen how it's effected him and how he's grown, that it's like I learned all of that shit without ever actually experiencing it.

>>18085159
>Even when you've hooked up with guys? Not talking about a relationship you've been in?
I'm not exactly sure what you mean. I've never hooked up with anybody and I've only ever been with my one guy. My friend group is all nerdy, mostly Asians, so maybe that's why. None of us ever had boyfriends in high school and we tend to be pretty conservative in that area.

Do women secretly like the prospect of being a SAHM but just refuse to come out and say it because of stereotypes?

>>18085190
you left out the most important part
do you want to be dating this chick?
if you do, and you honestly think she wants to be dating you,
then own up to the fact that you're high and work through it.

but if one of you doesn't want to be dating the other
or there's an incessant suspicion of such,
then if the one still wants to fill that royal role,
just breathe slowly and take the chance to acknowledge
that most people say "breath" when they mean to say "breathe"
just like they say "loose" when they mean to say "lose".

so just die if you wanna or kill somebody if you wanna. and good luck with everything. I'm honestly trying my darnedest to make life stop forever.

4chan is a big cauldron of garbage, but we keep sucking it like a life-straw.

>>18085207
No, I couldn't think of anything worse than doing that, at least for more than a few years

>>18085206

Oh well, that's a good thing. Good for you all for not being sluts. That's rare in today's world.

>>18085207
Many do, yes. I feel like people would look down upon me if I told them.

>>18085138
Interested if you would care to elaborate.

>>18085198
I wouldn't call it living through. There is a difference between listening how to ride a bike and riding one yourself. For example I had a gf who was molested as a child. While I could easily sympathise with her, I couldn't for the life of mine actually imagine what her feelings were.
Even better example: my parents got divorced. Many times other people told me they feel for me, even though I never had the slighties problem with that fact. They just couldn't understand, for they imagined it differently.

What you describe helps, but cannot fully substitute the lived through knowledge. It is not the same thing, simply.

That being said, I don't think you can evaluate it as right or wrong. It's either fine with you and your tastes or not.

>>18085215
Kek thanks anon. It's honestly not as uncommon as many people online think. At least I think so, but I might have a skewed perspective.

>>18085211
you seem to be a very strange person. But I kind of like you, provided you actually expressed yourself in that post

>>18085215

actually I saw an article recently that millenials have less frequent sex than previous generations

Guys and girls: how long do you usually take to get ready to walk outside?

>>18085215
>rare in today's world.
that's common bullshit in today's world

>>18085236
nine months. And even then I'm just crawling, not walking yet

>>18085211
I have no idea what you're trying to tell me.

Half of it even seems relevant to you.

>>18085228
>>18085235

I used to be friends with this girl, and I asked her one time from her experience and from what she's heard in Uni, the average number of sex partners a 24 year old has had in her lifetime, and she told me "umm, well.. I'd have to say 9 is probably about right".

She said from talk she's heard at college, and her own experience that 9 sex partners is normal. That's slutty

Question for anyone:

I'm talking to this girl on private messages on reddit. we live pretty close to eachother.

would it be totally crazy to suggest we hang out irl some time? how do you broach that subject and not seem like some internet weirdo

>>18085245

anecdotal evidence from a college girl isn't going to give you an accurate picture of all of society.

>>18085245
>there was that one girl at one uni who told me this basing on a statistically unsignificant sample. It is therefore true for any other person

>>18085236
As long as it takes me to put on appropriate shoes and clothes

>>18085218

I honestly do this with almost everything. It's way easier then actually experiencing it and risking going through a lot of hardship.

I'm too embarrassed to ever have sex or have a relationship. So it's easier to just listen to my friends when they tell sex stories and shit. It's easier

>>18085247

If I went to that college and surveyed 150 girls age 24-25 I bet most would say they've been with 7-9 guys over the course of their life to that point.

>>18085250
do whatever you like. Just bear in mind that experiences acquired this way aren't necesserily suitable for coping with actual problems which may arise.

Why should you ever care whether other people feel it's alright for you not to experience some things in life? Just do what you want

>>18083783
>touhou poster
>is a complete autist who has no idea how social interactions work

Sounds about right.

>>18085256
Hell, I'd really want to bet with you, then.

>>18085262

You really don't think that estimation is accurate? Why?

>>18085256
>Implying this is a lot

>>18085257

>Why should you ever care whether other people feel it's alright for you not to experience some things in life?
>Just do what you want

Life doesn't work like that

>>18085265

Do you know how surveys work?

>>18085267
then redpill me please on how life does work

>>18085268

Do you know how basic reading and interpretation works?

I was talking about the 7-9 number of partners dipshit, not the sample size

>>18085217
There are a lot of factors to it of course, but essentially I mean that it shows you how people deal with dispute and I think a heated discussion with someone is actually one of the faster ways to see elements of a person's character because it's a demonstration of how someone approaches conflict resolution, which is an important aspect to anyone's personality.

Everyone gets angry and heated sometimes, we all understand that, but context is important. I think if you can't discuss a simple disagreement with someone without them freaking out then that's going to be a long arduous road for anyone. Can you argue with someone without them insulting your character or having physical outbursts as a first defense? Can you discuss and deal with things like adults? Everyone has their moments where they act a little out of control, but what patterns do you start to notice? Can you have a nasty fight, cool off, and come back later and resolve it because the relationship is more important than the dispute? This is basically what I'm talking about because conflict resolution skills have implications about a person's overall maturity in my opinion.

There are many ways to learn about someone's character but I think an argument might be the fastest. Like I said in my previous post, this really applies to anyone in your life, not just the person you want to spend the rest of yours with.

>>18085270

so. If anything you're proving my point. You're saying 7-9 sex partners for a 24 year old ISN'T a lot??

>>18085134
ha saw u on /fa/
just get come of your comfort zone
think of your comfort zone as a small pizza dough and everytime you come out of it, it stretches making you more comfortable

>>18085236
Ten minute, but that assumes I just woke up.

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my best friend is having problems with her BF
she is hella pissed, mad, angry
told her "when i see you like this i wish i could hug you and make you feel better but i feel i'd be stepping a line"
she replied "im fine" in a serious stern voice
>greentext
i feel like i shouldnt have said that

>>18085264
because it has been taken from a very small sample, is biased very heavily (one place, one school, one gropu of friends=similar interests). Hell, you don't even have any credible way of checking whether that information is true. After all, do you really think that girls never brag?

If you don't believe/understand the significance of all this I suggest either reading on the basis of scientifical research or not exposing your opinions to anyone

>>18085269

Well for starters. Most of the time, you won't get what you want. Why settle for something you don't actually want.

>>18085292
but you can think what you want, right? The original question was about a subjective think being right or wrong. That's only a matter of subject's opinion. Thus in such case you can have exactly what you want

Girls and guys

My gf doesn't want me to talk to her ex. Like, she gets mad if I even joke about sending a facebook friend request to talk to him. She really doesn't want me to have any sort of contact with him, like at all

Why tho?

>>18085246
if you guys are getting along, i dont see the problem with it. but dont be premature

>>18085289
>i feel like i shouldnt have said that
No, you shouldn't. If a guy said that to me, I'd start distancing myself from him

Guys and girls:
What would you do in a situation in which you care about a person genuinely where you both like each other but they tell you they've broken up with their ex a month ago and had rebound sex twice 3-4 weeks ago to cope but then they say they regret it. Then you comfort them. What would you do if you care for them but feel a sense of disappointment? If they tell you that they need you and care for your general being and they don't want to lose you. You want them to be happy but also yourself.

>>18085279

People star their sex lifes somewhere around 15-17, 7-9 at 24 averages somewhere between 1 or 1.5 partners a year

So nope, it's not that much at all. Just for virginfags/virgin seekers who think by this age a women should already be married to their highschool boyfriend

>>18085298
Unless you're a cuck, why the hell would you want that

>>18085245
>>18085235
This is true. This article compiles a lot of really interesting statistics on the matter comparing the generations, including teenage sex rates, virginity, number of lifetime sex partners, views on extramarital sex, divorce rates, etc.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/there-isnt-really-anything-magical-about-it-why-more-millennials-are-putting-off-sex/2016/08/02/e7b73d6e-37f4-11e6-8f7c-d4c723a2becb_story.html?utm_term=.32da399f6577

>>18085298
Why WOULD you want to talk to him?

>>18085301
I didn't mean it in a romantic or sexual way. But i feel that's how it came off.

>>18085303
>People star their sex lifes somewhere around 15-17
don't forget you're among people here, who have never started their sex lives... But overally I agree with what you say

>>18085297

>The original question was about a subjective think being right or wrong. That's only a matter of subject's opinion. Thus in such case you can have exactly what you want

Yes, exactly. My point is, by living through someone else's experiences, I can choose to how things play out.

For example; one of my friends is a total Chad. We've been to the bar in the past, and we could just be sitting down bullshit amongst ourselfs, and really attractive girls (8/10+) will just approach him and flirt with him. I don't know how he doesn't it, maybe it's just his natural pheromones or something. But he literally does nothing, and they approach him. And he has quite a bit of sex with these hot girls. That experience could never be mine IRL. I mean, if I put in ton of effort, I could take girls home, but they wouldn't be girls I am attracted to. So, it's easier to just hear crazy stories about these really attractive girls. With no negative side, no time wasted or disappointment.

>>18085306
I don't. But I told her that I once crossed him while i was riding bike with a friend. She got fucking nervous and started asking me if he recognised me and if I talked to him or something. Since then I can't help but have the feeling that maybe she's trying to hide something from me that he would probably tell me I we talked

>>18085303

Not him, but thats really disappointing to hear.

>lots of girls at uni are nice to me
>relatives try to set me up on dates
>still hung up on the girl from years ago

Is it just human nature to want things you can't have?

>>18085131
"Hey it's good to hear from you. Lets meet up"

Then you take her out

Then you take her home and fuck her gently

Then she attributes you with good feels and wants to stay with you

>>18085342
then you wake up and post suicidal story on /adv/

are women literal angels?

I swear you look at some girls and they are proof of god's existence

>>18085341

Yes. Grass is always greener and what not.

>>18085321
I myself started in my late 18's. But the public here is precisely why it seems so much. When you're 24 and all you got was a french kiss in prom and a sloppy bj from a roastie, I can totally see why 7-9 by 24 seems too much.

Please notice that I'm not advocating pro slutiness or anything like that. I wouldn't feel comfortable in this situation either. But partner count is very relative to how many you had yourself. It's the gap that makes things uncomfortable

>>18085329

I'm not saying that 7-9 by 24 IS the average. I'd say it's much closer to 3-5 by that age. I just did this math to show how this isn't a high number depending on the circumstances.

And c'mon now, "women can fuck whenever they want" is such a meme... most are just as insecure as guys are. And even if you fall for that meme, 7-9 is very low lol

>>18085313

That article makes me never want to have sex again

Why does my bf seem happier and laugh more when he's with his male friends than when he's with me?

>>18085328
Do you think she's legitimatly scared that you meet this guy?

Unless she sound really freaked out, it might only be fear of how awkward it can turn out for her

>>18084014
Personally, my wife and I both find it funny. Usually if one of us knows that we have one coming we'll tell the other, walk to the bathroom and fart, then continue.
When it just slips out due to all of the movement etc we laugh pretty hard (doesn't happen often enough to lose its comedic value). I'd say if you aren't comfortable enough with the person you're being intimate with, tell them you really need a drink of water/have to pee, go to another room and let it out. Usually if you try to hold it in it'll fail and make its way out eventually.

>>18085352

Not all of them. Only really feminine lesbians. I'm a guy and I can see how perfect earth would be with nothing but them walking on it
...until their first period that is lol

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>>18085352
>Literal angels
HA! No.

>>18085365
has he known them longer than you too have been together?

>>18085350
>suicidal story
Cuckold please.
If you can't get a girl in your bedroom when she's literally trying to contact you after a long period o f time there's no hope for you with any girl.

>>18085362

It's a different kind of bond. Don't let it bother you. It's probably the same as you are with your friends, but you probably just don't realize it.

Don't take it personal

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>>18085303
>>18085321
>>18085329
>People star their sex lifes somewhere around 15-17
Actually less than half of high schoolers are sexually active now.

>7-9 at 24 averages somewhere between 1 or 1.5 partners a year
And this is not normal/a lot. The CDC reports that the most recent data for number of lifetime sexual partners for women is a median of 3.9 and for men is 6.0. Other studies predict mellinials will have an average of 8 lifetime partners, but in these instances median is more accurate in reflecting reality than average.

>So nope, it's not that much at all.
Actually yep it kind of is

>>18085365
Sorry, I think I exaggerated with ''fucking nervous''. But I'm good at reading expressions and she clearly was surprised when I told her that
>it might only be fear of how awkward it can turn out for her
How so?
>>18085376
I'm sorry I don't get what you are asking. How long have them been and how long with me? Around 1 year with that guy, and like 3 and something months with me

>>18085360
10/10
banner worthy

>>18085401

Why

>>18085360
Why?

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What do I do?

>Meet girl through friends
>We suddenly spend a lot of time together
>One night we're hanging out
>We kiss outdoors at a party
>Very passionately
>Very intense
>We stop before going any further
>Go inside and finish the party
>We barely speak now
>We only talk when I start the convo
>Decide to wait until she talks to me
>It's been almost a month since deciding that
>Can't get her off my mind

What do I do? Maybe she was just confused? Maybe she needs time to think? But I'm losing my mind here, I want to be with her so badly but I don't want to scare her away by acting clingy.

>>18085411

I don't know, just reading it bothered me quite a bit.

>>18085407
I just can perfectly imagine that text as 4chan's banner. It fits for me

>>18085416
Well now I'm just more curious

>>18085317
Timing is everything.

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>21
>man
>pretty sure you're more attractive than most
>have no confidence
>have no experience
>get eyeballed and hit on
>still no gf
pls help me

>>18085423

>In the end, she predicted, biology will prevail. “Sex is a powerful drive, and so is romantic love. ... The sex system is way below the cortex. It’s way below the limbic system,” on a level with thirst and hunger.
>“They’ll get to the sex,” she said. “I’m positive of that.”
>"it's sad" the professor said. "They are missing out a good time"

That really bothered me. I don't like things within my life being "expected" of me. I hate this system where shit like this is just "suppose to happen". It really makes me want to distance myself from everything.

And then in the comments, someone said "people who go without a partner experience less pleasure, shorter life span, and more stress.. it's sad"

Fuck her.

>>18085396
Idk, she might fear that her ex will tease you, or that you will tease him, who knows?

I wouldn't worry about it too much unless she really looks like someone who's freaking out trying to cover her tracks

>>18085415
Geeeet the fuck over it. If she hasn't come to you in a whole month she's not interested.

How common are girls that are into femdom?

>>18085446
Ah I see. Well I don't know if they are exactly expecting it of you. I think they are just saying things in a "it is what is is" sort of way.

>>18085445
The fuck do you want us to do?

>>18085446

Yeah fuck her. Then she'll have sex and you won't, joke's on you

It's a biological drive. If you don't have it, tough luck. It's not expected of you, the only thing expected is that you'll be out of the gene pool if you don't date and people with sex drive will take your place in it

>>18085461

No, they are saying it's just expected of people do these things. People probably assume because I'm a healthy fit 25 year old male that I have sex when I don't. I don't like when people assume I do things that I don't. I don't like when people just expect me to do things because it's "apart of the system"

Fuck the system.

>>18085471

I have a sex drive, I just choose to not use it.

Are you saying I'm worthless?

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>>18085462
Help me pair bond and make lots of healthy, happy offspring with my mate

>>18085479

It's your choice, I'm not judging. I don't know you to evaluate your worth as a human being, but as a mean of perpetuating the species you clearly are worthless, just as gays.

It's that simple, if you don't leave offspring, you don't push your genes to the next gen and they're out of the game.

Dudes: signs of romantic interest over the internet?
Got a crush on a buddy of mine. He's always friendly, and I'm trying to get him to come out for drinks without making shit weird.

>>18085491

So I should probably kill myself in a few years then because I'm wasting space on this crowded earth?

>>18085495
It's fucking 2017, just ask him out for drinks ffs, you won't need more signals than a boolean yes or no

>>18085473
Well I'm not exactly sure what you mean, but it's just life that people will assume and expect things of everyone. And I'm not exactly sure what system you're referring to, but it's just part of life that we are part of systems whether we like it or not. But ultimately you are in control of you, so you get to do what you want. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to.

>>18085495
Just ask to meet him. You really don't have anything to lose
>>18085500
Beware the dubdub bird

>>18085496
Uuuh nope. Maybe you have a role to play, maybe you don't. Stick around to find out, or quit if you're not curious

It's just how reproduction works. Muslims for instance reproduce infinitly more than japaneses, who aren't breeding at all, and are moving to countries where their numbers are more likely to grow. In a couple of centuries japanese might be extinct and sandniggers outnumber everything else, which is a shame because personally I do prefer the first ones...

>>18085507

I hate this shit.

Fuck our system and societal pressure

>>18085518
It's more than just simply a societal system. There's bilogical systems at play too. Culture and society didn't form in a vacuum. Numerous systems all intertwining and influencing each-other. I know you don't like it, but it's at least an interesting thing to think about.

>>18085520

Yeah and I'm thinking about it right now. I was suppose to be asleep 40minutes ago, but I can't because I'm too irritated now.

>>18085496
>>18085479
man, you either asking for a pretext to get triggered or have terribly low self-esteem. In either way biology simply isn't as easy as saying reproducing=good, asexual=bad. So calm down.

>>18085528

Watch a documentary called something like "The gender equality dilemma in norway" or something like that

It's about gender theorists being full of bullshit and how biology and hormones dictate a lot of our interests

Idk, maybe it'll shed a light on you

>>18085526

You're being the nervous one apparently. He won't freak out with your invitation unless he's functionally handicapped by severe autism

>>18085532
Not him (I'm the anon he was replying to), but thanks for the recommendation. It looks really interesting.

Can women be trusted in the context of a relationship?

>>18085532
Is it the one where women and men end up taking traditional gender roles and steer themselves towards manly/womanly things even though it's a country with full gender equality?

>>18085529
>>18085532

I'm not "asexual".


And yeah, I'm sure biology does play a role in our lifestyles and laws, but it still pisses me off we are expected to live by this fucking system.

I'm not going to have sex ever again now, but I'll still be expected to do it. I've already had people trash me because I've said I never want kids before. So guess what, now I'll never have sex again. I hope that makes people fucking happy.

Fuckt them, fuck their system

>>18085537
What do you mean?

>>18085535
It is, it's not really my field of interest, but I was hooked beginning to end

>>18085538
Precisely, basically the more freedom of choice people have, the more their interests will be steered by their dominant hormones (gays and lesbians are accounted into it too)

>>18085537
Depends on the woman.

>>18085540

It's not a "system", it's ingrained in us as animal beings. Call people normies or whatever, but society as a whole is shapped by the average joes out there

You're entitled to not liking it if you don't, but they're not to blame too, your opinion is just different, not better nor worse.

I get what you say because I get pressured about marriage and parenting on the regular being almost 30 and with my gf for 8 years. I just shrug, laugh it off and wear the best "haters gonna hate" face I can, no biggie to me

Girls that prefer to fuck with the lights off, why do you prefer no lights?

>>18085560
I like both but I'm guessing that it heightens the sense of touch, allows them to focus better, makes them more relaxed, and less insecure and conscious about their appearance.

Girls, what are ways you show that you want to be exclusive with a guy?

>>18085574
I dot really think there's any other way than to outright say it and talk about it. I personally wouldn't be more than friends with a guy unless it was exclusive from the get go.

girls/gay guys

how do normal human penises compete with all the xxxxxl bad dragon supreme meme deluxe dildos you all buy?

>>18085574
I say "I want to be exclusive." Sending hints is for 15 year olds.

>>18085560
Not one of them, but probably insecurity

>>18085601
(female) the only dildo i own is about 4" long, and i use it so it doesn't feel like my average sized bf is about to rip me in half

stop spending so much time on r9k/4chan

How do I figure out the reason a guy is keeping my at arms length?

>>18085615
How girthy is your bf?

>>18085616
you corner him into a dark alley and then bully him into to telling you
just like in my japanese animes

>>18085616
You ask him

I have a severe distrust of women I feel and I want it to stop. So often have I seen the patterns of them cheating that I've really started believing redpill stuff about how women are these programmed breeders who secretly hate weak men and want strong ones. I feel like I lie somewhere in the middle of that, where I empathize with males who don't have a chance in hell, but I want to enjoy the way things are because admiration from competition is so ingrained in me.

I just want to be proven wrong somehow. I think I'm like this way because of an abusive mother, but it's so much apart of my mind I'm not sure if I can recover.

>>18085615
this may come as a shocker to you, but other people than you exist, and they own huge dildos. question was aimed at those people. thanks for your input i guess

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Yo femanons I was talking to my friend today and he told me i should get another girlfriend. But its like been.... fucking years holy shit. And frankly I don't think I got a lot to offer someone in the long run right now as shitty as it that sounds right now.

Ok so this is what i got to bring to the table in a relationship

>24 years old
>I work 40 hours a week
>In a band and play lots of music
>Manlet, 5'5
>Average cock size 5'3
>Like to drink and party with friends a lot when I can
>Play a decent amount of video games because i am shitty and smash bros.
>Kinda messy and kinda shitty like that
>Can kinda cook to a certain degree
>My friends would probably say i am goofy and I often think I talk to much so I think thats a negative
>Haven't cheated on anyone
>Aside from a few select women i actually kinda gotta get comfortable around you in order to stay hard during sex. Because I am often afraid of fucking up or ruining the mood or some shit which is admittedly fucking awful.

I mean i don't mean to sound like a idiot but should I start going out looking to meet new people or should i like focus on other things right now? Like do those sound like things you would be fine with having in dude or no? Femanons yay or nay?

>>18085625
>I just want to be proven wrong somehow.
Then get off 4chan and go out into the real world. Also scrutinise men's behaviour too, the realisation that it's not just women who act shitty might stop you from being so jaded towards women

>>18085628
>Like to drink and party with friends a lot when I can
Apart from this, you sound like an alright dude. I'd probably give you a chance

>>18085629
But you see, I believe that men scrutinize other men because they live in a haze of control, where deep in their subconscious, they are desperate to live up to women's expectations so much that they try to insult or keep other men in line out of mercy or competition.

>>18085624
Fucking how?

>>18085628
you're better than me in every way except height, cock and that I don't play babyfaggot stuff like smash bros. I think you should do both, focus on your music AND a good relationship. You sound like a guy who has alot going for him honestly.

>>18085631
Ah ok good to know. Thankyou.
>>18085641
Ah I don't know about a lot but I have more stuff going now then I did before hah. Feel like i could do more.

>>18085601
I don't even think most women who buy sex toys buy dildos. I'd guess most buy external vibrators more than anything.

>>18085625
>I just want to be proven wrong somehow.
This is what parents are for.

>I think I'm like this way because of an abusive mother
Whoops I didn't even read this before replying. There you go.

>>18085625
Well become a strong domineering man then. Bitching about muh cheating roasties doesn't help you at all.

>>18085601
This
>>18085649

I worked in a sex shop, the rombone tier and expensive shit are there mostly for display. Average people won't lay a hand on it for anything more than a joke.

You might be under the impression that it's selling like hot doughnuts because it's popular in porn but it doesn't reflect real life at all

If I start aerobic excercise and get myself /fit/ as fuck, will it make my dick throbbing and veiny and juicy?

>>18085680
I don't know about that, but being at a healthy weight and improving cardiovascular health definitely improves your erections.

Are girls just as shy as guys?

>>18085680
Not really. Your dick isn't a muscle however if you currently have terrible circulation and you significantly improve it, it could make you have stronger erections. Other than that you won't make much dick gains unless if you're fat and your dick is being sheltered by your fat

>>18085698
I don't need size increase, it's sometimes too big as it is, I was just wondering if improving my cardiovascular health would cause my dick to become a veiny beast.

>>18085697
It depends on what you mean exactly by shy, but girls tend to be even more "passive" than guys. For example, girls don't initiate as much as guys and prefer to wait for guys to do it.

>>18085697
Some are, some aren't. What sort of question is that?

>>18085063
Illegal drug use (grass may be okay, but not if he's rolling joints one after the other)
Excess legal drug use, like chain smoking or getting shitfaced on alcohol each day
Violence, physical or verbal abuse
Never leaves the flat
Lies
Belittling comments

>>18085456
Idk I think a lot of us just don't think any guy would like femdom, so we don't even dare to think of it.