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work "relationship" fuck up

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I think I've made an error here guys

>meet girl at work, works in the same office
>same room
>develop crush
>one time, out after work, go for drinks
>have a few beers too much
>anime confession time
>tell her exactly how much i like her etc., basically lay my feelings completely out for her, everything
>sober me is shaking his head in disbelief
>of course she politely declines me, says she isnt leaving her boyfriend for anyone
>going to work everyday is now quite uncomfortable (for us both i believe)

Any tips on how should I deal with this in the best way?
Normally I'd just avoid her and eventually forget about her completely, but in this case I can't cos we work together, in the same fookin room even, desks next to each other. Also, I dont want to quit my job over this.
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Be a man, and accept your folly. Go about each day as if she was just another cog in the machine.

You're the one making it awkward.
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>>18083559
This also if she has a boyfriend what the fuck are you really up to doing that?
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>>18083566

What can I say...
I made a mistake like a complete idiot, but not much good can come out of it if I eat myself about it
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>>18083559
>You're the one making it awkward
yep OP is and just has to suck it up and deal. I'm sure the girl is very uncomfortable thank you very much.
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>>18083487
Well either just don't say anything and hope time eventually numbs away the awkward. Or address the situation. Say hey sorry for the other night at the bar, won't happen again, drunk and I want to go back to having a good professional work relationship without that tension between us. Word it how you want but keep it short, clear and professional because that is what you are aiming for. Then proceed to live that life at work. If you don't want shit where you eat don't shot where you eat. It's really up to you.
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