How do I make my boyfriend more attracted to me sexually? Help

Why is this an issue?

Does he not fuck you enough?
Does he call you ugly?
Can he not get it up? Elaborate or tit job

Post a picture. I may be able to help if you aren't fat or ugly. Might even be if you still are.

>>18081519
Grind with him on the dance floor.

Be waaaaaay dirtier. Depends what he's into and to find that out you need to asking him or go off past experience. If he wants you to dominated be really rough with him, hold him down and suck his dick. Control everything and keep calling him a good boy. Use him like a big fucktoy.

Probably more likely is that he likes to dominate and if that is the case you need to tell him how thirsty you are just to touch his body. Don't touch his dick at the start just lie lower than him on the bed and run your hands all over him. Tell him how good he looks and start playing with yourself cheekily. Eventually start rubbing your wet pussy all over him while you suck his fingers and then beg him to let you put his dick in your mouth. Suck his dick like you're a junkie trying to get heroin out of it and moan a lot. Then get on all 4s and poke your little asshole up at him. Tell him to do whatever he wants with you.

It's real easy to seduce a guy if you make it as dirty as possible. We like it dirty and usually desperate.

>>18081537

I hate it when my girlfriend tries to do this. I respect women who are classy, not trashy. She thinks it's fun, but I don't enjoy it when I do it. It's just who I am. I much prefer it in private if it has to happen, but I would much rather have different kinds if soft foreplay.

>>18081552
Different strokes for different folks. Dancing isn't trashy you fucking southerner. It's a healthy part of every human culture and is fun if you aren't riddled with insecurity and anxiety the whole time.

>>18081578
Over the clothes sex to a beat =/= dance

>>18081578

Slow dances and swing dances are great, but nigger booty dancing is outright nasty. It's literally a mating ritual for strictly casual sex. I don't want anything to do with it because I don't care if something is trendy.

>>18081583
No that's usually still dancing. Just sexy dancing. That's like saying it stops being a painting if it's erotic.

>>18081584
>mating ritual
So? So is wining and dining. Doesn't make it trashy by definition.

>strictly casual sex
Yeah, because nobody ever takes their girlfriend out dancing right? You're a real expert buddy.

>>18081529

He says I'm sexy but just not incredibly sexy and lusts more for other girls who are skinnier than me

So alongside losing weight how do I pretty myself up for this boy so I can get the dick more?

>>18081596
Depends entirely what he's into. See >>18081547

Does he like to dominate or be dominated?

>>18081596
>He says I'm sexy but just not incredibly sexy and lusts more for other girls who are skinnier than me
Oh, it's you again. I would suggest you drop him and get with someone who makes you feel wanted. No one deserves to be with someone that is going to be that cold to them.

>so your not a wildly obese woman?
>You have both your boobs
>You have a vagina

You've just gotta build suspense, start parading around half naked at home, wear a skirt without knickers and make sure he sees. Just do things that'll make him horny without following through

>>18081600

He's a masochist all the way

>>18081603

sorry, who?

>>18081612
Then follow the being desperate one. Ask him to use you like his personal toy.

>>18081596
>He says I'm sexy but just not incredibly sexy and lusts more for other girls who are skinnier than me
He doesn't love you and he'll change you for other woman as soon as he can. I hate to be the one telling you, but is the truth.

>>18081596
You need to find someone who appreciates you. It doesn't matter if you "downgrade," because true love and real attraction should mean more when it's mutual. You would do yourself a favor.

>>18081632
>>18081603
Lol of course all the betas want her to break up with him.

He's being honest in communicating his sexual needs. That's a good thing.

>>18081647
>>18081645
See

>>18081647
The guy doesn't like her, you idiot. He just settled until he can get a "sexier" woman that accepts him.

>betas
Go to project somewhere and don't come back until you are 18+.

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how many times will you post this thread? thisis the 3rd time now that ive seen personally. who knows how many times youve posted besides those

>>18081660
I'm 21. How do you know he doesn't like her? Maybe he's just not as sexually attracted to her as he used to be because she's gained weight and/or got boring in bed. It's important to communicate these things and that's not an immature outlook. Now who's projecting?

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>>18081519
Get a boyfriend that isn't a beta faggot and can actually satisfy you. Real guys dont have a problem showing affection.

But if it's a problem with your looks; you gotta ask him straight out if you're the kind of girl he's looking for. If he keeps looking at others, you pretty much know the answer. Either improve upon your looks so you would look like someone he wants or find another dude.

>>18081606

What does without following through mean in this context?

>>18081674
>every man who doesn't want to fuck his gf as much as she wants to fuck him is automatically a beta.

Yeah all right buddy.

>>18081671
>How do you know he doesn't like her? Maybe he's just not as sexually attracted to her as he used to be because she's gained weight and/or got boring in bed
Because she's a dumb fat sow and he's only with her because he can't do better. Else, he won't say it that directly.

>It's important to communicate these things and that's not an immature outlook
Again, he could said that that the novelty faded and they need to spice the thing up, not that she's barely sexy.

>Now who's projecting?
I ain't the one who called other guys "betas" while defending a girl, "so mature" 21yo.

>>18081679
Means don't have sex with him while teasing him, well at least not all the time. People want what they can't have, if you create the illusion that he can't have you whenever he wants then hell want you more.

>>18081519
cuck him

being more spontaneous in the relationship helps a lot in sexual attraction. Try to do something different with him

Pic?

>>18081519
Well, one thing he should do is throw away all his secret porn stash and wait a few months to fully recover.

Search yourbrainonporn with Google and just tell him to read the FAQ from that website. The more he reads it, the more it will click. He'll understand.

Also, both of you should exercise. You crave more sex the more you exercise.

>>18081596
YOOOO wtf op he said that to you??? Holy shit man. Break up and move on. He basically called you a cow and hes looking for other women

>>18082333
Depends how he said this. On one hand, he's insulting and says he finds other women attractive.

On the other, he's honest and not some pathetic pushover. He made it clear that she has to lose weight and this makes me want to clap.

>>18081552
Being comfortable with sexuality is not trashy at all and is the hottest thing on Earth.

I hope I'm not the only person on the planet who doesn't associate sexy dancing with trash and polygamy.