I used to have like 5 separate groups of friends to hang out with, where we'd all get together and do shit. Be it go to the bar, go on a vacation, catch a movie, go to the lake... Lots of different things.
For multiple reasons I don't have any groups anymore. My relationships with all of my friends are pretty much 1:1 - we go to a bar and catch a game just the two of us, something like that.
I miss having a group of like minded friends that could all go out together. But I'm 30. Is that shit just over? Do I have to accept that? I'm so bored these days.
>>18080472
You just need to find the right group of friends I guess. That shit doesn't HAVE to change but it often does. People grow apart and they get tired of the same shenanigans.
>>18080472
like the other anon said, it doesn't have to change, but it often does.
men get older and they need less time out. in addition to that htey often work more, get more tired by it, and usually need to dedicate more time to a relationship or even a family.
even without relationship and family our poor modern diets make it so that were generally too tired to do anything after work, then on weekends were cleaning, doing grocery shopping, etc.
unfortunately if this is the way your current friend group is going there isnt much you can do to salvage it other than continually inviting them all and talking about it, but this often goes nowhere.
depending on how your group dynamic was they may also be tired of it. my last group of friends was AWFUL. i mean they were great fun people but there was no loyalty among friends. we hung out and had adventures but it was shallow. i need emotional connection with my friends and if all you do is hango ut in big groups and have advetnures you can never takl about anything remotely serious.
my curretn friend group i get a lot of 1 on 1 time, and eve in the group setting its still small enough that we can say things comfortably with one another and talk about our actual issues, so its a good ablance