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How do I balance dirty talk? 2017-02-25 01:45:59 Post No. 18080212
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I'm closing in on a one year anniversary with my boyfriend. These last two weeks have been rough, but only because everything built up to frustrated failure today. I feel really bad and at loss of how to become better at what I'm trying to do: Dirty talk.
>Last week, Valentine's day
>Get period literally on the fucking day
>Loads of romance but no sexual satisfaction on my part
>That weekend we sleep over at a friends place = no bone
>Still jokingly fool around
>Blame him for being a whore with his hard-on
>Gets him REALLY riled up
>First time we outright state that he likes dirty talk
>I'm into it, get hype for trying it out during sex
>Think about it all week
>Actually get to bone
>Spend 60% overthinking, 30% being embarrassed, last 10% just fucking up
>The few tries I actually managed just outright insulted him
>That's not what he's into
>He says he's okay, encourages me to not give up
>Still feel like shit
He's left now and I still feel greatly unsatisfied with myself. I know "whore" is his favourite word, but I have no idea on how to use it "the right" way. Apparently my attempts were a bit too dom-leaning, and... mean. He prefers it when I'm playful and cute, but that's more embarrassing.
Please help, any advice will be appreciated.
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I think concentrate on your self with your statements.
"You like my whore pussy"
"I want to be your whore"
"My tight little pussy has been wet all day wanting your cock"
"Suck my ass"
These sorts of statements directly verbalizing something you want using naughty words about your parts
After you get comfortable then ease into the dirty talk banter side of things where you tell him to do things. Of course complimenting him using dirty words to describe would be great also
Keep it simply. Use words you've never said out loud.
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>>18080225
Thanks for the advice! I find this very useful.
But I think I might not have been all that clear. He loves the word whore because he want to be called a whore. We're degenerates, I know...
Concentrating on myself is useful advice, but I don't think that's the most effective so to speak.
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>>18080230
In what context does he want to be called a whore?
I don't get how "blame him for being a whore" works because he has a hard-on. Do you mean "whore" like he's a slut who can't control his desire for sex?
What he might actually like is teasing about how he's helpless to resist your pussy.
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>>18080281
Yeah, the way you put it does sound weird. I've got to make him talk more about it without the conversation falling apart due to excitement halfway through. If I don't get what's the bullseye I can't possibly hit it (except with these lucky hits when I just don't even realise what I was doing)
Supposing you're the same anon I'll take your advice to "use words I've never said out loud" to heart. Maybe also cut back on my cussing.
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