Gonna start with mine in no particular order
>be me
>live on campus at college
>fairly facially attractive and can carry on a conversation fairly well
>stay in room all day except when I'm cooking in the kitchen
>on good speaking terms with a lot of people but no real friends
>don't really like spending money so I don't go out drinking a lot
>ego varies between being really high and incredibly insecure
I feel like I could be doing so much more but I'm not, could I have some suggestions please?
>>18077455
Get your life in a routine. Go to every class, wake up early. Don't lie in bed all the time.
Facially attractive won't cut it if you don't have the self-confidence. Best way to improve on that is the gym and university clubs.
Do not stress out that much dude, just strike up a conversation during breaks in class. Join the clubs and make pals there. If there is an event going on, go to it.
>>18077468
I've got this pattern where I manage to stick to a study/hygiene/etc routine for 2-3 weeks, then I slip up once and it all goes downhill. I've got a feeling that this is behind a lot of the self-confidence stuff.
Is there anything I can do to help finally sort this shit out? It's always like "this is the time I get my shit together" and then I'm back to being a degenerate which really fucks up my self esteem.
Over and over and over and over.