Ask the opposite gender anything

>>18076727
guys, do you find pregnant women sexy?

>>18076727
ladies: when is it OK to rape a woman??

>>18076732
I do find pregnant women sexy, however, I wouldn't say I have a fetish-tier obsession with it.

I just like the fact that she is more vulnerable due to her pregnancy. It's a vulnerability thing.

>>18076732
Fuck no. Dudes can though, just not me.

girls: would you date a NEET

>>18076732
Only if the woman was already sexy before getting pregnant, i don´t find nothing particulary sexy about pregnancy, but it doesn´t bother me either.

>>18076737
I didn't mean like a fetish thing, I more mentioned like if you got your GF or wife pregnant would you find her sexy still. I get what you're saying about the vulnerability thing though

>>18076747
This guy here >>18076744 summed up my feelings about it too.

In all honesty it doesn't change my attraction towards someone.

>>18076732
Do you think when the guy cums in her it will reach the child?

girls: what does it mean when a girl shows all signs of showing interest in you, but whenever you mention hanging out they either:
1. mention a friend who can tag along
2. straight up doesn't reply (mostly this)
3. delay the date

>>18076763
no I'm not stupid, I understand how the process of pregnancy works, I have kids. the wome is sealed shut till right before birth, the baby in an embryonic sack that keeps the baby safe from any infection or anything else while it grows.

>>18076732
sometimes
depends how hot they were before and whether their figure can handle it

femanons.
How does an average guy approach you at uni, but avoid "being creepy"

>>18076727
Why are you not using the proper macros?

>>18076732
NO! And I'll never have a kid.

How have your dating preferences changed as you got older?

>>18076732
only in porn.

Girls-
So basically I went a little overboard with the texts when I first got this girls number. The day of hour date she texted me saying she doesn't think she can go out with me. We end up still going out and both enjoy talking to each other. FF two week we've been out 4 other places including my house. She drives out of her way to see me and now she always wants to cling to me. We also made out for like 2 hours.

Did I make it out of the friend zone?

Girls,
Ideally, how long do you consider a sex session should last? by session i mean from p in v to finish, no counting foreplay.
Additionally, how would you feel if you were having sex with a guy and he came "too fast"? how do you'd like the guy to react to this to make the situation better for you?

>>18076732
I can still find pregnant women attractive, but I wouldn't say it makes them sexier.

Girls
Do you like cut or uncut?

Am I a bitch or is he an ass?
>Ask /adv/ should I talk to people on the train because for months i've had to stare at a super hot guy
>majority answer is no
>leave him be
>finally see him at a coffeeshop
>walk over and say "don't I see you everday at ttrain XYZ?"
>he responds, with this annoyed look "Yes, so what made you decide to stop aggresively ignoring me?"
>I uih, uh
> turn around and leave
>I didn't cry, at least

>>18076847
cut desu.
It just feels better having that little knob peg me rather than it being covered in a fleshsleeve.

Then again, I was with 2 cuts, and 1 uncut. This uncut didn't even clean properly. I had cheese coming out as I was cleaning up. It was awful.

>>18076864
if you never talked to him he's a cunt
otherwise it's at least partially your fault

How do you tell what 'league' you're in when it comes to dating? Is it the people that hit on you in combination of the people that your friends try to hook you up with?

I'm always getting hit on by girls I have zero attraction towards. I am not good looking either (male), but every girl that has made moves on me is always ugly in my opinion. I know it's all subjective and shit, but if you were to see the girls that hit on me, a lot of people would unanimously agree that they're not attractive. If you were in a bar with your friends and you told them to point to someone that they could see you going out (not only sex), would that be accurate?

>>18076864
I think he just was trying to be funny and you over reacted.
In a way that is cute, let's hope he didn't take it the wrong way

Girls, is it normal for guys to want to talk to you just as friends? Or do you tend to assume a guy is just hitting on you when they do that?

>>18076880
I can relate.
>You're not interested, so you're more relaxed
>They take your relaxation as an approach
>Oops

>>18076864
>months
You really took your time.

Women, do you have any politically incorrect views on dating?

>>18076796
Sit near me, ask me something about class. Smile. Introduce yourself.

>>18076843
>Ideally, how long do you consider a sex session should last?
10-20 minutes
>Additionally, how would you feel if you were having sex with a guy and he came "too fast"? how do you'd like the guy to react to this to make the situation better for you?
Laugh about it, compliment me. Finish me with oral or fingers if I didn't have an orgasm during foreplay. Cuddle me and fuck me again when he can.

>>18076847
Uncut.

>>18076888
I assume people want to be friends with me unless proven differently.

>>18076963
Not politically incorrect, but abnormal considering what seems to be the majority view here - I'd only be able to even consider seeing you as someone I'd be in a relationship with if we're friends already. I don't "get" the hookup and dating culture that seems so prevalent on this board where you ask out random people you don't even know.

>>18076796
Find a reason to approach - the best way is to have some kind of a question.

>>18076888
We like having friends too, unless you make it overtly clear that you're only interested in that way.

>>18076732
I do if it's my child that's growing inside of her.

Girls: do short guys have a chance?
And
Are you as horny as us guys?

>>18076981
>do short guys have a chance?
Noticeably shorter than me, no.
As tall as me or slightly taller than me, yes.

>Are you as horny as us guys?
On average, not really.
But of course there are personal differences.

>>18076981
I could not care less about your height. I really don't notice it when I'm talking to you.

It might not help that I pretty much guarantee I'm shorter than you, though.

>>18076733
When they trust you enough to explicitly want and ask for it, as in write and sign a contract that they'd like you to do so.

>>18076727
What's the capital of Outer Mongolia?

femanons:

Do you see makeup as a hassle or something fun? Guys really don't have a daily equivilant so it's difficult to relate.

>>18076993
Ulan Bator, I guess.

>>18076998
It's just a part of my daily routine, I don't even pay attention to it.
I enjoy skincare and have fun doing masks - make up is like brushing my teeth.

And I guess that's the reason why I have literally 4 make up products and two boxes of skincare products.

>>18076998
It's fun. There's something super satisfying about getting your eyeliner perfect or your lashes looking great.

>>18076963
Nothing super politically incorrect, but:

I want him to offer to pay the bill for the first few dates. I'll offer to split, insist if we went out for a meal and not for just a coffee, but if he doesn't offer it feels cheap as hell.

I hate when guys ask me a lot of questions. Especially if one of those is "what are your hobbies and interests?". We're not having a conversation, you're interviewing me.

I don't think I want a relationship where me and my partner are perfectly equal.

I like depending on each other and a bit of neediness.

I hate jealousy. I cannot stand it. I take it really personally and just want out.

Women: is it ever meaningless to apologize?

>>18077025
I'm with you on most points but

>I want him to offer to pay the bill for the first few dates. I'll offer to split, insist if we went out for a meal and not for just a coffee, but if he doesn't offer it feels cheap as hell.

If a girl pulled this on me then I guess I'd go with another old fashioned style of expecting sex on the first date since I paid for everything.

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>>18077025
>I want him to offer to pay the bill for the first few dates. I'll offer to split, insist if we went out for a meal and not for just a coffee, but if he doesn't offer it feels cheap as hell.

>>18076981
Short guys, or guys who are shorter than me?

Why aren't girls interested in thinking logically? Is it a chemical thing or do they do it on purpose/because society conditioned them like that?

Are women repulsed by male vulnerability? Like if a guy says he's not sure where he's going in life, or if he measures up to professional colleagues.

Girls:

Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

>>18077029
On average, for a cup of coffee and a slice of cake you'll pay about 5€ where I live. A blowjob from a whore costs 20€.
So I guess you owe me at least 4 dates before I suck your cock.

>>18076977
> I'd only be able to even consider seeing you as someone I'd be in a relationship with if we're friends already.

Do you realize you're asking someone to potentially hide their attraction to you for years and then revealing it to you out of the blue? You wouldn't be slightly mad that they were only friends with you because they wanted to be in a relationship with you, even though you gave them no other choice?

I just don't see the reasoning behind a position like yours. I thought intentions should be clear from the beginning.

>>18077042
No, but don't be a crybaby that complains about everything all day.
I don't want to spend 10 hours a week discussing about your problems. I'm not a therapist, I don't date people with the intention of fixing them.
I don't enjoy talking for hours about my friends' problems either.

>>18077046
>5€ for coffee and a slice of cake
>blowjob from a whore costs 20€.
Bad area? If I take someone out to coffee, it's going to be decent coffee and cost more than 5€. So I guess you'll be on your knees on the first date after all.

>>18077046
>for a cup of coffee and a slice of cake you'll pay about 5€
what shit tier coffee shops are you going to?

>>18077049
Italy. I can have amazing coffee for 0,80€. And if you're paying more than 5€ for a cup of coffee, they're stealing your money - a good cup of espresso hardly costs over 10 cents.

>>18077055
Location is included in higher prices along with atmosphere. I could get cheap coffee anywhere, but you want to have it somewhere nice.

I was including cake in what I said too.

I've known this girl for a whole semester, I was very attracted to her and I asked her on a date but then I got super busy and we only met in class, so that date was just never mentioned again. We still talk and joke around in class. So one day we talked about some random topic and it led to me telling her I jerk off at least once a day, even during my "busy period" which I didn't have time to date her. She was silent for a long time, I told her we could still study together. Next morning she came to my room bringing books, I opened the door with a huge boner (just woke up), and she still went inside so I guess she wasn't disgusted, and then I believe we're both horny so I convinced her to give me a blowjob (I don't know if I were too pushy but she gave in after a while). This is where I fucked up, when I came I sort of pulled her head in and blew my load inside her mouth, I think my dick hit her throat and choked her. She teared up and went into the bathroom for 15 minutes, then left.
I really like this girl and she has been giving me silent treatment, how to make it up to her?

>>18077025
honestly i'd consider you to be a bit of a bitch if you didnt split the bill. paying your fair share isnt about equality, its common sense.

>>18077063
>>18077032
>>18077029
Not her, but the question she was answering was literally about politically incorrect views on dating. Why are you surprised that you're offended by this, and why are you bothering to argue?

Girls, what makes you instantly interested? What makes a man noticeable? Masculinity? Honesty? Something I can actually work on...

Or is it just mostly about a nice jaw.

>>18077065
Instantly interested? Not really anything you can control, to be honest. I mean, you can be attractive, but that doesn't mean I think of you as anything other than eye candy

>>18076781
Not a girl but I can tell you it means that they're testing you.

Just be brave and honest when they throw that sort of bullshit test at you. 1 and 3 are mostly a thing of not hiding your intent and can be deflected with "No way. No friends" and "Nope. i'm going on (time and day) i'll just ask someone else"

B U T TWO

>FUCKING 2
Is the most common form of absolutely reprehensible bullshit in women these days. MOST DEFINITELY SO if she's doing that to you over text and if she is (unfortunately as much as it screams at) [you] should not try to counter it. She dropped the racket and stopped playing ball. So you should too. Just leave the field as it is. Don't add anything extra,it should just be the question of you asking her out. This way she doesn't have fuel to light your shit up and not contact you. It's her fault and she will own up to it, pick up the racket one day and give you more balls. Patience is key.

If she's not doing this over texting, this is BY far simpler, you just need to get physical and tease her. Play with her hair, touch her stomach or boob, something like that. In the little outburst that follows, bring up the date again. Easier here obviously because physical contact fucks women up heavily.

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Questions for both genders.

Girls: My gf for reason I won't go into, wants me to go out and have some casual sex and she recommended an escort since it would stop the chance of catching feelings from either side. Would you still respect a guy that's been with an escort? What are your thoughts on escorts in general?

Guys: Have any of you done it? Do you still respect yourselves? Will I still respect myself?

Disillusioned with relationships. One night stands are the best option. Prove me wrong girls.

>>18077064
I'm the asker and thought her answer was pretty mild. I was more interested in racy stuff like no short guys, whites only, must be ripped etc. Even my feminazi strong-woman Jezebel-reading ex-gf told me she needed a "dominant" guy.

>>18077070
But your opinion about this doesn't affect me and I just don't give a fuck what you think

>>18077069
>My gf for reason I won't go into
What's the reason?

>>18077072
OK. But do any of the other posters here, or on /adv/ affect you?

>>18077075
Nope. That's why I don't ask questions.

>>18077074
Well I left it out for not doing a long story but oh well. She feels I haven't been "experienced" things as much as she has since she had a pretty wild streak before me and I've always been pretty vanilla but recently started wondering about crazy shit I've missed out on. She feels it's something I should get out of my system and actually experience since I'll regret not doing anything later in life.

>>18077058
The cafè I usually go to is very nice looking, and in a super nice area of my town.
Depending on the order, you pay 1-2.50€ for coffee and 1-3€ for a snack. So unless you get the most expensive option for everything, you hardly pay more than 5€.

>>18077063
I am not going to run away and refuse to pay if you want to split, I always offer to pay. I will insist to split if the bill is like 50€ and won't mind it in the slightest.
But I'll think a bit less of you if you don't offer to pay for everything, I admit it.

To both men and women.

Embrace the life of the sagacious, wise ones. For in pursuit of flesh, you lose your mind. Do not let the reptilian brain define you. You are programmed to think with your genitals. Rebel. Be proud of your virginity.

>>18077084
I'm black.

>>18077087
Thine color doth not change thine composition, broth'r or sist'r

>>18077079
>dating a whore
>ever

That was your first mistake

>>18077065
Being physically attractive - in shape, groomed, nice teeth, hygienic, well dressed, nice face. Posture. Voice. Charisma. Sense of humour. Being interesting to talk to.

>>18077099

I have none of these things, no wonder women consider me to be a pathetic disgusting excuse for a person

>>18077110
That's super sweet.

>>18077060
Aww, that's super sweet.

Should a guy with a 4/10 face just give up hope forever?

I don't care if a girl as ugly as I am as long as she's not obese but even horrifically ugly morbidly obese women get to pick men far more attractive than them for sex/relationships so there's no hope for subhuman scum like me

>>18077120
But there is hope
Ascend, my child
Leave behind this vulgarity.
Make knowledge your happiness, not the release of sperm and some chemicals.

>>18077111
>>18077119

Cheers mateys!

He's wonderful and I'm a pain in the butt at times. I like to make him feel special but sometimes I go over the top and it's a bit cringe. I feel a bit better about things now :)

>>18077126

Shut the fuck up you faggot you probably have a bf/gf and get laid plenty

>>18077130
I can't claim to speak for all guys, but stuff like this is much more valuable than a flimsy gift.Your boyfriend will love the thought behind the gift more than the gift itself. Be confident!

My boyfriend feels really insecure compared to my ex.
I tried reassuring him, but he keeps having nightmare of me leaving him to go back to my ex.
He was cheated on before.

What do I do?

I had sex with my gf the other day but I couldn't finish (has only happened a couple of times in the few years we've been dating). She seemed kind of upset that I couldn't finish. I reassured her it was because I had a long/stressful day.

Was it normal for her to be upset that I couldn't finish?

Can someone explain birth control to me? My gf has an implant, is that effective enough without needing a condom? Also do women still get periods even when on birth control?

>>18077137
Do you have any contact with your ex? Anything at all?

>>18077152
We text if something major happens or if we can help each other with something. But we talked 6-8 times in 2 years. We meet just at funerals.

>>18077047
I just can't understand why you would want to be in a relationship with someone you don't know anything about, though. I'd like to like you as a person first before wanting to go further.

This prevents severe incompatibility issues later.

I also don't get how friendship somehow precludes relationships, or how it's a bad thing to be friends.

>>18077162
Considering his paranoia because of past experience and you having contact with your ex during serious situations (which can bond people), it's little wonder that he's insecure. He should be enough for you to talk to about for serious things, not your ex.

I'm kind of interested in guys' perspectives of this >>18076843

>>18077065
Intelligence, if not eloquence. Teach me something.

A nice voice.

>>18077174
I texted him when his mother died, he texted me when he found out my dad had cancer and when my grandma died. Just "I'm really sorry, tell me if I can do something". We didn't talk about the subject in depth or anything, just condolences/get well wishes and such formalities.
He asked me advice twice about medical things (I'm a med student), I asked him advice for a school project once.
I don't go to him and cry over his shoulder if something bad happens, we don't really bond.

>>18077182
Not so bad I guess but to him it's probably still a problem. Contact with ex's is a little weird anyway, in all honesty I have no contact at all with any ex's and my gf doesn't either.

is there such thing as an attractive girl virgin?

>>18077137
cuck him

>>18077188
We had a mature/friendly break up after 6 years of dating. I don't want to be his friend, but I want to be a decent person and go to his mother's funeral. It's just good manners, I guess.

>>18077191
No desire to.

>>18077202
>We had a mature/friendly break up after 6 years of dating

As mine have been too but still, when it ends, it's time to just move on.

I also notice his mother funeral is present tense so I'd guess your current bf, albeit subconsciously, sees at as a way for you two to reconnect properly with each other since you'll have gone from texting to being in person.

In all honesty, go to the funeral, talk to him, talk to him for a little while after the funeral but then let go entirely. Otherwise you're putting your current relationship at risk.

>>18077060
Wow you raped her.

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>>18077068
It's just nuts how different she is in person than over text. In person she's always hugging me, and saying "love you" and when it's time for me to head out she'll always say "I'll miss you". And when we see each other again she'll open with "did you miss me?". Since then though I haven't messaged her and some crazy stuff went down between her and my co-worker.

>co-worker tells everyone else he's meeting up with ex for closure
>girl doesn't like co-worker's ex
>girl starts lying about how his ex mentally abused him and pretty much made him a cuck
>starts to tell everyone not to be friends with co-worker or hang out with him
>boss records whole rant and sends to co-worker
>niggahemad.jpg
>eventually forced by boss to makeup because work reasons
>decent friends now, but were really close before

I made have made a mistake because when asked about this whole situation by my assistant manager I told her "yeah she's nuts". Since then she hasn't answered my text and blocked my on snap. It's kinda a non-issue for me since we haven't worked together since then and won't be for a while.

>>18077060
Fuck dude, just leave her alone. You went from just being friendly to suddenly tlaking about how much you jerk it, just waving your dick around and then coaxing her into blowing you the very next day.

She's silent because she wants you to leave her alone.

>>18077209
We text very sporadically - maybe 40 texts over 2 years. We already met in person, too -he came to my grandma's funeral.
I already moved on, I already let go. He's dating someone else, I am too.
I don't see how I am putting my relationship at risk or how I am behaving weirdly, it's really just his insecurities.

>>18077238
He has insecurities, yes, and I'm just saying that you and your ex talking isn't helping with it. I can't tell you what to do or what you should do, you have to figure it out. But at least now you have an idea of what might be going through your bf's head.

There's a cute girl in my class is really want to talk to but I'm too scared and hate myself for it. She's always alone but I make up excuses in me head. My issue isn't even appearance, I'm just so anxious and don't know what to do.

>>18077139
bump

>>18077358
My only advice to you is to just go and talk to her, it's the only thing that can solve both your anxiety through exposure and will let you do the thing you want, which is to talk to her.

>>18077376
How though? It's a big lecture. Do I sit next to her? Then what? I seriously have no clue. The friends I've made were definitely not through social skills.

>>18077217
No. I will try talking to her again. I want to make it up to her. Thanks for the useless recap of what you imagine happened.

>>18077378
I wouldn't personally go sit next to her at first, I'd iniate contact after the lecture.

>>18077393
Wouldn't that be harder since everyone pretty much just leaves? I feel like before class would be a bit better if anything.

>>18077378
No you wait until she's about to leave then tackle her.

>>18077393
That's pretty creepy.

Girls and guys, I've had a crush on a girl since the 2nd grade. I never approached her, because I never got the opportunity to. (it's a girls boys separate school) Its still pretty difficult to get in contact, but I'm willing to do it.

My cousin is her best friend, and my cousin let it slip that the girl had a crush on me too, but she hates me now. What am I supposed to make of that?

>>18077406
who are you? ever been approached during lectures?

>>18077413
If some strange guy suddenly approaches you after a lecture it's obvious he wants to get into your pants, unless he has a really good reason to prove it otherwise.

>>18077416
Unless a guy has a reason to talk to me, and sometimes even if he does, it's obvious that he approaches me is because I'm decently looking and he wants to do me.
It's not offensive. I want to fuck too. Maybe I'd like to fuck him as well.
It's not creepy unless he makes it creepy.

>>18077416
>>18077421
I just want to talk to her, and ideally go on a date. I have no intention of getting in her pants.

>>18077430
Then talk to her after class.

>>18077421
>unless he makes it creepy
ok how to make it creepy?

>>18077437
Just be ugly.

So there's this girl in my uni who's into me but I always ignored her before, only found out she was into me when my friend told me. She's kinda pretty but then that's it, a few hours ago she said Hi to me but I kind of walked away with a smoothie on hand and thinking about it now it would be nice to talk to her and get to know her, so my question is am I far too gone to ask her out and if so do I apologize?

>>18077435
Are there any good methods of reducing anxiety before. I get irrationally nervous.

>>18077443
you can bring a big doll to class and practice by talking to it.

>>18077446
That's not very subtle desu.

>>18077443
Protip: symptoms of symphatetic nervous system don't show to the outside world like you think they do.

>>18077437
Have an excuse to approach me. Even if it's just asking me if I enjoyed the class or something.
Smile. Try to be receptive of my body signals and my engagement in the conversation. Don't be too sexual.

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Is there too much hostility between both genders?

>>18077406
It's even creepier if you go and sit next to her out of the blue and then sit in silence for 2 hours after the initial "hey"'. Besides it's rude to talk during a lecture.

Guys, guide me before I make another text

>meet girl, in school etc
>one day, Im bored, I snapchat her
>we eventually make plans to do something, we go downtown and get Boba
>we are talking and she is laughing
>mentions her boyfriend
>ohshitIdidntknow.jpg
>time passes and I didn't know, we eat and I drop her off, she wants to hang out again
>I say no in respect of her boyfriend
>she texts me and snapchats me stuff occasionally
>she asks for rides and stuff, I work all day and am currently enlisted waiting for boot camp
>tell her maybe another time
>eventually I get time to give her rides, now she declines, says maybe another time
>she broke up with her boyfriend
>i would ask her once a week if she wants a ride, since I was in her area
>no sorry!
>okay, I stop asking
>2 weeks ago I ask if she wants to do something
>no response

So I haven't texted her since or said anything. I dont plan to for a while. Should I even try anymore with her or was I retarded in the first place?

I asked this last thread, but I just want a bit more advice. Maybe be able to twist this around?

>>18077139
Yeah, it's normal. She's just disappointed and maybe feeling a little inadequate. My ex got the same way and I would just make sure she knew it was nothing wrong with her, I still had fun anyways, and that I don't need to get off to enjoy spending time together. That usually seemed to work.

>girl that's a needy attention whore adds me
>added me only 'cause I was dating one of her highschool class mates
>whatever, she's cringy and in an out of relationship all the time
>so, my GF and I laugh about it over the years
>eventually GF and I break up
>cringy girl posts about her break up
>i'm drinking and my friend is ignoring me, so I send her a quick message on FB
>she gets back with her BF, but says we could still be friends

So, am I getting laid, or should I just go back to ignoring her?

>>18077496
Shut up.
Focus on boot camp.
>but muh specialty is
Shut up.
Focus on boot camp.

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>>18076727
Why do you women destroy our societies?
Do you want to become sex slaves to muslims?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw

>>18077557
You mong, Im not completely neglecting boot camp over her. Im just wondering if I can stick my dick in.

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Why are most girls children?
Why does society keeps on pushing a system that empowers their pussycard and undermines man making womans life x3 times more easy on whatever is it theyre doing?
why the fuck mens are the ones to initiate an approach? (unless of course the man in question has resources/power)
why women who undermine themselves (this type is everywhere) project their failures onto everyone they can (and why this happens in a common base)
why do mens, in society eyes, have to be providers, payers
why can't i find a girl that loves herself in the first place, and is not full of mental complexes

im really curious but im certain i ain't getting a single actual answer in this thread of shitty girls, dont get me wrong, we're on 4chin.

>>18077558
This dude is saying such a huge load of bullshit.

>>18077578
Not an argument

>>18077578
Not an argument.

>>18077069
sounds like you already don't respect yourself

>>18077574
You child. Stop trying to distract yourself from the defense of your nation. You need to learn how to kill people.
Because regardless of what you do in the military, your base purpose is fight and win your nation's wars. Which means the basic action expected of you is a sanctioned murder.
So, again, shut the fuck up and focus on boot camp. I'm saying that again because if you need the internet to tell you what to do with a woman, you're already a fucking liability to the military.

>>18077582
>on women's right to vote
If his issue with women voting is how much it ruins the bond between wife and husband, why cannot we take away the right of voting from men? One person per family voting anyway, just not you.
After feminism women and men kept getting married, and they still do. A lot of politicians care about family values and push on them, most politicians actually do because most people have families.
His point about homosexual marriage made no sense. How does two other people getting married damage your family?

>women shouldn't have the right to work
Women ALWAYS worked. I cannot think of one moment in history where it wasn't normal for women to work. It wasn't normal for women to have decent jobs, tho.
Also - more people working produces more job. People have more money to spend and they want more stuff. Both my parents work, and this is why we go on holiday, we buy new phones and we buy new cars. People have to work to produce those things. On half of that income, we couldn't do that.
And the idea that in the 60s you could basically own a yacht on an average person salary is ridiculous. They had much less expenses and much less things. They had much less expectations. Most people didn't have two cars, most people didn't have a dishwasher or didn't send their kids to college, they didn't have a laptop, an internet plan or a mobile phone. It was cheaper to live back then.

I could go on but I need to cook dinner for my husband.

Ladies what should I do to get you to like me at a party

>>18077666
Be attractive.

>>18076864
As though he doesn't have balls to do the same thing to you

What is wrong with me ? I hate my own race of women for taking a rainbow of cocks. But I'm not some ugly loser. I'm actually good looking and have girls hit on me. But I just fucking hate them so much for the rainbow of cocks. If it wasn't for this I'd probably have a ton of sex.

Girls,
What is a topic you would be very interested in talking about during a date?

>>18077598
>hurr I dont have a fucking clue what Im talking about and Im completely neglecting what the point if this board is

You fucking troglydyte, there is more than just shooting people in the military. Like driving trucks to the fronts in a war so that people have supplies to shoot people, getting peoples checks so that they want to keep shooting people, making sure things get shipped so that people can keep shooting people. You are so fucking brainwashed by movies that you think the military is just pure shooting. Its a job and people still have questions and do normal things just like everyone else, just in a very different fashion.

The point of this board is to help people out on their problems, whether its personal or regular questions. I asked a question, and it has nothing to do with the military. I know my responsibility when signing up, and I have almost all of it in check. If I fell for your shitty bait, then you got me, but if you actually think I'm completely thinking about her, then shit. Keep replying faggot. Help me or don't, Ill keep asking.

>>18077666
Be Chad

>>18077706
I am helping.
Shut up.
Get off the internet.
Focus on boot camp.
Go drive a truck. You still have to pass basic rifle marksmanship.
Why do you need to know how to shoot if you're going to be a bean counter?
Because you have to be able to kill, no matter what.

How easy is it for you to get wet and how often does it happen

>>18076727
Girls: Do you make a habit of measuring your boyfriends' penises? And I mean literally measuring them with a tape measure.
I have asked a couple girls who I have talked to online how big their boyfriend's dick was and theyll give me a ridiculous number and I try to call them on it by asking them if they have actually measured it and they say yes. I think they're lying.

>>18077711
>he is still replying

I have to check those, but you mong. I haven't even started. Help me with my problem.

>>18077715
I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14, I measured it once or twice.

>>18077719
How big?

>>18077693
Bump

>>18077697
It clearly depends on the girl.
Usually the best dates for me are those where the conversation flows naturally. Don't force it to particular subjects, just show interest and be active.

>>18077722
Girth is around 5.5", length is around 7".

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>>18076742
Please respond or should I take this as a no?

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>>18077577
ONE ANSWER, CMON

>>18077730
Lucky girl.

>>18076742
probably not

>>18077730
that's always the kind of response I get lol.
Doesn't add up sorry

>>18076727
Please explain the Albigensenist Heresy.

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>>18077623

>why cannot we take away the right of voting from men?
Because men are more rational and not as easily swayed by peer pressure, whereas women are biologically prone to just going with the group consensus even if that consensus is horrible.
Also, women have far less loyalty towards their own tribe than men do, again, due to inherent biological traits. Watch this video fully, and actually try to understand it:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw

Women are not fit for leadership roles. You are naturally submissive, and your voting behavior has lead to the continuous push for insane leftism across the west. You vote for parties and candidates that push for increased immigration that threatens the very fabrics of our societies, and has led to situations in many european countries where the native population will be fucking displaced and become a minority in their own ancestral homeland due to mass immigration WHICH WOMEN OVERWHELMINGLY APPROVE OF.
You are voting for your own daughters to become subjugated under Islam.

>Both my parents work, and this is why we go on holiday, we buy new phones and we buy new cars.
You do realize that 50 years ago you could have had all of that with the pay of just your father working, right?
Women entering the workforce devalued work massively and pushed down wages. Women were pushed into the workforce only to increase the consumer base. It only serves the interests of the rich elites that profit of the rest of the population.

>And the idea that in the 60s you could basically own a yacht on an average person salary is ridiculous.
Nice strawman.
A family could live entirely comfortably on the salary of the husband, which is pretty much impossible these days for wast majority of families.

The political emancipation of women is the cause for the societal downfall of the west.
It is because of women, that the west is under the threat of islamization right now. And women cheer for it in the voting booths.

>>18077731
My boyfriend was a neet when I met him and for like the first 7 months of our relationship, but I have a fetish for otaku-y fat asian guys so take that as you will.

I'd say the chances of you getting a relatively normal and caring gf (not ridiculously ugly or severely mentally ill) are very slim but not impossible. I'd try to get at least some sort of job though.

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>>18077756
>I have a fetish for otaku-y fat asian guys

wtf

>>18077747
Women aren't unfit for leadership roles. Women have a different type of leadership, which is proven to be more efficient in certain ways. Men are more competition driven, women are more collaborative.
If women were so inherently submissive and easily swayed by peer pressure, as you say, then we shouldn't be afraid of them voting since their husband can just make them do what they want, right?

And the native population isn't anywhere near the minority in any european country.
Also - in most countries muslims are less than 5% of the population. We're still subjugated under the catholics, debating whether we should have abortion or not like in Ireland or Poland.

>You do realize that 50 years ago you could have had all of that with the pay of just your father working, right?
But it's not true. 50 years ago people didn't travel abroad. People didn't have new phones, new laptops, didn't change their tv every 4-5 years. People didn't buy new shiny cars and families didn't have 2 cars. People didn't go out for dinner all that much. People didn't have tons of clothes, they didn't go to college.
You have unrealistic ideas of what life in the 60s was.

>A family could live entirely comfortably on the salary of the husband, which is pretty much impossible these days for wast majority of families.
Because our idea of comfort changed.

>>18077741
Average size for penis in my country is 6.2". My boyfriend is around 6.8", it is slightly over average but nothing impressive.

>>18077788
Changed to the worst I figure, that's nothing but empty consumerism.

>>18077790
Which country is that? That's ridiculous.

>>18077765
yeah i get that a lot. i just think theyre cute and pure

if people can like eating shit i can be into this, alright?

>>18077793
Then get off your computer or your phone and go masturbate on playboy magazines like your grandpa did in the 60s.

>>18077801
what i mean to say is if you get along with such people please be my friend

>>18077800
I'm sorry for your small cock, murican.

>>18077788
>And the native population isn't anywhere near the minority in any european country.
Do you lack reading comprehension?
They are not YET a minority in their homelands, but the CURRENT RATES OF IMMIGRATION will cause them TO BECOME minorities within their homelands within the next 50 fucking years.
This video explains the issue in detail.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dF9V8POmuxg

For example, at this point, the only way germans can avoid that fate is to close their fucking borders for ALL immigrants/"refugees" and start shipping them back, because otherwise they will face the choice between going extinct, or waging war against the non natives within the next couple of decades.

And women cheer for this future. You are cheering for the destruction of your own people, and nations.

>But it's not true. 50 years ago people didn't travel abroad. People didn't have new phones, new laptops, didn't change their tv every 4-5 years. People didn't buy new shiny cars and families didn't have 2 cars. People didn't go out for dinner all that much. People didn't have tons of clothes, they didn't go to college.
And none of that is possible with the current sallaries because women entering the workforce devalued the value of work tremendously

>>18077802
Typical reply. You have no idea why you are doing what you do and if it's the best or not, so you clinch to it like a slave to his master. Like the habitants of Plato's cave you will kill everyone that tells you that there's something else in life higher than than mundane, immediate pleasures. Acknowledging this doesn't mean you don't participate in them, but that you don't indulge in it as anything more than temporary and fleeting.

>>18077809
w-what? are you serious?

>>18077817
>Basing your understanding of geopolitics on youtube videos

Do you understand that those countries won't exist in 50 years if not because of immigrants? Birthrate is at its lowest, no one is going to work and pay taxes, we won't be able to pay for the welfare state.
Germans have a fertility rate of 1.5 babies for every woman. Without the immigrants, the country won't even exist in 50 years.

>And none of that is possible with the current salaries because women entering the workforce devalued the value of work tremendously
It is easily possible for 2 income families, which is the norm and set the new standard for comfortable.
50 years ago you weren't expected to have any of those things, now you are. 50 years ago, a very small portion of the population went to college, now everyone does. We need MORE to be comfortable, and obviously it is more expensive.

>>18077830
nope

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>>18077836
ok fuck off faggot

>>18077830
yes, please be my friend (no homo)

>>18077841
nope

>>18077844
ok fuck off faggot

>>18077825
I hate hypocrites who complain about today's society when they live with all comforts of living in 2017.
My grandpa at my age was in a labour camp in Poland, my dad had to drop out of school to work, I am in med school and never worked a real job beside some part time stuff in my life.
Get fucking real.

>>18077847
No one is complaining, you just can't use "comforts" as a benchmark for how much a society is advanced and stronger. That's pathetic, no wonder the Muslims are conquering you.

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>>18077834
>>Basing your understanding of geopolitics on youtube videos
The jewtube videos explain the situation so clearly that even a woman can understand it. Anyone who has actually paid any attention to what is going on in the world has known these issues brewing under the surface for over a decade.

>Do you understand that those countries won't exist in 50 years if not because of immigrants? Birthrate is at its lowest, no one is going to work and pay taxes, we won't be able to pay for the welfare state.
>lol, our population is not breeding fast enough, lets just fucking replace the whole population with foreigners.

You utter fucking retard. Declining birth rates don't fucking mean that the nation goes away. It simply means that it has to re-organize it's economic policies and welfare state. Whereas importing massive amounts of foreigners DOES fucking cause the nation to go away. Nation=THE PEOPLE. Germany is Germany because of GERMANS, same goes for Finland, Sweden, Norway, France etc.
IT IS THE PEOPLE OF THE NATION, THAT DEFINE THE NATION. By importing masses of foreigners to the point where the natives of that nation become minorities, YOU ARE DESTROYING THE FUCKING NATION, you brainless fucking moron.

Mass immigration has nothing to do with ensuring the continued existence of the nation. It has absolutely zero benefits for the natives of the nations subjected to this insanity. The ONLY people who benefit from mass immigration are leftist political elites who gain new voter bases (because immigrants vote massively for leftist parties) and the banks, who gain new people to whom issue loans and thus debt.
Mass immigration only serves the elites. It has absolutely no benefit for the average joes and janes. In fact, it is actively detrimental to us. It breaks the cohesion of our societies, puts the welfare network you are so desperate to retain under tremendous tress, and causes massive internal tensions and strife.

>>18077858
I never did that.
I'm just arguing that 1960 "comfort" isn't nearly as comfortable as 2017 comfort, which is partially why one salary could afford 1960 comfort but not 2017.

>>18077845
nope

>>18077862
It's pointless to argue with tit people man, they are neck deep in their bubble ideological fantasy. The next few years will tell who's is right.

>>18077712
Well, depends what you mean by wet.
I get "wet" from just kissing. But, think of it like the stages of your dick getting hard. You got completely flaccid, semi, and then like, rearing to go hard.
Vaginas are similar. During the kissing/fore play stage, I'm probably at the "semi" stage of wetness. I'm wet, but if you try and penetrate woah boy I'm gonna be jumping back in pain.
It's pretty easy to get to that point in wetness, it happens basically any time I'm aroused.

But to be wet enough to actually have sex, that takes a bit of work. Me personally, I have difficulty ever getting wet enough on my own to really be penetrated, hence why I rely on lube (and lots of ladies to too). Some of us are dryer than others just naturally.
And honestly, I only ever really feel ready to go after the first orgasm. So foreplay generally lasts a good chunk of time for me.

Do you think you can be introverted but still have a gf? Asking both genders

>>18077871
Honestly, the way young women vote is fucking despair inducing, and has made me realize that they shouldn't have the fucking right to vote.
They vote overwhelmingly for leftist parties that are importing an actual fucking patriachy to the west, in the form of islam, and then virtue signal against people who speak against this insanity.

They are hopelessly deluded and brainwashed. They cheer for the enslavement of their own daughters. It is disgusting and depressing at the same time.
Just look at the elections last year in Austria.
It was young women voting for a green party Eurocrat globalist that has wowed to bring more migrants to Austria, that led to the loss of the based right wing anti-immigration politician.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kOMkl3ApTK0

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>>18077693
Sigh, your problem is making assumptions on people before you even know, and a touch of racism probably. You assume every single chick in the world just must be having tons of interracial sex, when literally all statistics point to the exact opposite. The amount of people, men or women, who are attracted to other races is incredibly low. Trust numbers and stats, not your insecurity and complexes.

I shouldn't be responding to troll posts though.

>>18076847
Cut.

>>18076847
uncut because foreskins look fun. If you have that phimosis stuff then it seems pretty lame though.

>>18077881
On the other hand, that means their men are weak and can't keep the women in check.

>>18076732
Yes, but only if it's mine.

>>18076864
Neither. But that was a clear opening you just wasted.
All is not lost though. You can still recover.

>>18077137
Nothing. Just be there for him and don't try to fix him. The best way to deal with this kind of insecurity is with trust, which takes time to develop.
But since you're asking this question i get the impression that he has cause to be insecure.

>>18077189
Yes, but not for long.

>>The problem with introversion is that you're less likely to meet new people, i.e. less likely to meet girs, i.e. less likely to meet a girl who would be into you. And even then it's more difficult and slower to build a bond.
But yes, it has been known to happen.

>>18077896
The last one was for >>18077878

>>18077144
Id suggest checking out planned parenthood's website, they have a lot of useful information on many kinds of BC, but here's the link to the implant specificially and it's effectiveness.
>https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/birth-control-implant-implanon
>https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/birth-control-implant-implanon/how-effective-is-the-birth-control-implant

>Do women still get periods even on birth control
TL;DR: Depends on the woman, some react more strongly to some forms of hormones than others.
Some people with BC methods such as the implant often complain that they never get periods anymore (which can make them nervous because there's no tell tale "I'm not preggo" sign like getting a period). Others will say they have lighter periods, but still get them. Others report no change in their cycle.

Me personally, I'm on the pill. The way the pill works is you take all the "active" pills during the month (the ones containing the hormones) and then there's a week of just sugar pills (which are only there for purposes of helping form the habit of taking the pill every day) for where your period is supposed to be. I just move onto the next pack instead of taking the sugar pills or letting my period come. Now, I've found that I still get 1-2 periods a year because every now and then I'll start spotting despite taking the pill, and that spotting just won't stop until I let it go and just have a full period.
Now, there is some controversy on whether or not it's dangerous to do this, some claim that you're risking infertility by just taking the hormones all the time (but there are risks of infertility in taking BC period). I talked to my gyno before I did it and she said it was ok.

>>18077878
Of course, but you're playing on hard mode.
Introverts often only attract other introverts. But given the nature of your personalities, you will likely never meet, because you both just stay inside as much as possible.

Your best hope, if you refuse or can't change who you are, is to meet people through obligations. Such as, your job or school. Since you're obligated to go out and make money, or go to school, that's when you're going to meet the most people.
Or, most introverts flock to online dating because it's less personal and you don't have to leave the comfort of your own home to meet people.

>>18077862
The decline of birthrate means a general ageing of the population, and a reduction of the number of workers.
While it might not have huge problems on the economy, it surely does have huge problems on welfare. Who will pay taxes to pay for pensions, healthcare, services?
Most retirement systems are based on about 2 people working for each person retired, how will we find those 2 people? Will we just tax the shit out those who work? Will we just tell old people "well fuck off, you could have had more kids"?
We need workers to pay taxes and keep welfare. If we don't, the state will collapse and that will definitely end the nation.

Also - nations aren't defined by the ethnicity of people who live in a certain area.

I don't even vote left, I am against mass immigration, but

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>>18077894
>On the other hand, that means their men are weak and can't keep the women in check.

True.
West has been thoroughly subverted, our values, culture and traditions tarnished and broken, and what remains of us is a decaying husk ripe for the taking by stronger cultures.
I hope that there will be a national reawakening in Europe, and that Europeans will rally against the madness of multiculturalism, globalism and the cancer that is the EU, once this situation becomes unbearable, but given how endless the tolerance of some seems to be, I am pessimistic about our chances of saving ourselves from extinction.

Honestly, I have finally understood why Hitler rose to power. Weimar republic was almost exactly in a similar state of social and moral decay as west of today is. The people were being robbed of their wealth by banks and predatory capitalists, their society was being rotted by utter degeneracy and their nation was being actively plundered. I can easily see, why people followed Hitler because anything is better than this shit. Whole of west has become like the Weimar republic. Our path has only two possible endings. Either total extinction and islamization, or civil war.
And personally, I prefer the scenario of war, because at least from it's ashes, something better than this can rise.

What are some good date ideas? Already seen two movies, had dinner at my place and gone on nice walks at two different places.

What else is there to do?

>>18076820
I used to have much higher standards kek.
Now I have next to none.
>>18076847
I've been with/seen one of both irl, though I've never been penetrated so I can't say from that perspective.
I don't think I really have that much of a preference either way. It's never going to be a deal breaker or anything. If I had to choose I guess I'd say cut, but I'm an American so it's probably just because it's what I'm most familiar with. Jerking off the uncut guy just wasn't quite as fun as the cut one. But it was still fun regardless lol.

>>18076796
Same as any other guy. Be confident, don't think of yourself as inherently creepy, talk to me like a normal human being.

>>18077920
Check out local events in your town. One of the best dates I've ever been on was this big like, christmas light show my town put on.

Other good date I went on was an old fashioned picnic in the park, which is probably going to be a little more seasonally appropriate right now. It was something different and fun.

>>18077909
>The decline of birthrate means a general ageing of the population,
Well duh.
Do realize that the post ww2 baby boom birth rates were an ANOMALY. We are merely reaching an equilibrium for our societies.

> and a reduction of the number of workers.
Which is good, because the amount of WORK is going to be radically reduced due to automation.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Pq-S557XQU

Also, most of these immigrants and "refugees" that have come to the west, are UNEMPLOYABLE. They will NEVER, EVER get jobs, and will only leech off from our welfare system.

> it surely does have huge problems on welfare. Who will pay taxes to pay for pensions, healthcare, services?
This simply means that those systems need to be re-organized and changed.

>Most retirement systems are based on about 2 people working for each person retired, how will we find those 2 people? Will we just tax the shit out those who work? Will we just tell old people "well fuck off, you could have had more kids"?
Universal basic income would solve this problem.

>We need workers to pay taxes and keep welfare.
Again, the amount of work humans can even do is becoming lesser and lesser, so this problem will not be solved by importing more workers.
>If we don't, the state will collapse and that will definitely end the nation.
Wrong, it just means that we need to re-organize the way the welfare system works.

>Also - nations aren't defined by the ethnicity of people who live in a certain area.
Yes, they fucking are.
PEOPLE ARE THE NATION. Without the people, the nation does not fucking exist. Multi-ethnic states do exist, yes, but they are always less stable than homogeneous societies. FInland is what it is because of FINNS. If you replaced the Finns with Somalis, Finland would cease to be what it is.

This is why mass immigration is actively destructive to the nation states and their peoples. It only creates tensions, problems and strife, while benefiting only the banking and political elite.

>>18077929
She did mention that she would like to picnic one day. But we have already been to like the two main picnicking spots over the last week.

>>18077920
My go to first dates are bowling, mini golf, and ice or roller skating.

>>18077938
I can tell you are stupid when I tell you that we need workers to pay for taxes to pay for welfare and you tell me "waa, we don't need workers, we'll have universal basic income" without realising that universal basic income is a form of welfare.
You need workers to pay for taxes. You can go around it as much as you want, but money doesn't come out of anywhere. There needs to be someone working and producing.

Even if you "reorganise it", you can make money out of nothing.

>PEOPLE ARE THE NATION
But this is simply not true. Most nations are multicultural at least, and a lot are multiethnic. Even European nations. Belgium, Switzerland for example.

>>18077961
>I can tell you are stupid when I tell you that we need workers to pay for taxes to pay for welfare and you tell me "waa, we don't need workers, we'll have universal basic income" without realising that universal basic income is a form of welfare.
>You need workers to pay for taxes. You can go around it as much as you want, but money doesn't come out of anywhere. There needs to be someone working and producing.

Nice going, missing the whole fucking point.
What I am trying to get trough your skull is that THERE WILL BE NO FUCKING WORK for even the current amount of workers, due to AUTOMATIZATION, which is already happening. This issue of disappearing workforce would occur regardless of if the native birthrate was high enough to maintain the current work force, or not.
Do you realize how many people will be out of jobs once self driving cars hit the market? That is the whole fucking transport industry. And self driving cars is just one of the aspects of industry which automation will hit.
Watch the fucking video I linked in my earlier post

This structural change of our society in terms of work, taxes and welfare, is going to happen no matter what we do, because automation is advancing at extreme speeds. Importing massive numbers of immigrants will not help this problem one fucking bit. It will only make our societies less stable, less safe, and less cohesive

Also, universal basic income will be needed because within the next 50 years, unless we don't bomb ourselves back to the 18th century, massive number of people will be simply UNEMPLOYABLE, because anything they can do, a fucking robot can do better, faster and cheaper.

Your whining about "but mah workforce, muh taxes, da welfare!" bs is fucking irrelevant, an certainly won't be fixed by bringing in thousands of unemployable foreigners from utterly alien cultures
.
>There needs to be someone working and producing.
Yes, and increasingly, it won't be humans doing any of that, because of automation.

So I am coming from a working life into a university and I have a hard time connecting with my peers. What the hell am I supposed to talk about?

>>18078008
also im male, so advice from females would be nice, but either gender is helpful

>>18078008
How old are you? Because most people who go back to school do have a hard time connecting to the basically high schoolers in their freshman level classes.

Your best bet is to find the people as close to your own age as possible and use school/class as an ice breaker. Also, join clubs and track down the upperclassmen and make friends with them
But if you're over 24, you're basically fucked. I would try other places to make friends.

>>18078021
I am 21 and freshman but in my country I am young enough to be in classes with some people the same age as I, thus I don't have a hard time finding the people. The problem might be a cultural one but my peers get jealous if I bring any of my professional life up. My professional experience is around 5 years ahead of them, so in a way, I do am basically fucked. I can pass the age check, but in terms of being broke and having interests in drinking booze all day, not so much.

Should I even try to cover it? I used to work abroad and the reception there was completely different. Might it be that the peers I have, which are mostly engineers, are just childish?

How do I stop feeling bad over not getting female attention.

>>18078124
Hit the gym.

Is an outtie vagina really that gross? Not super meat curtains but just enough to probably not count as an innie?

>>18078106
Ah ok, then I gotta switch gears.

I can relate, I'm one of those spoiled rich kids who's mommy and daddy gave her a 100% full ride on their dime. Hell, my dad even bought me a fucking house to live in when I complained the dorms sucked (though in my defense, the cost of the dorms for the entire time I was gonna be in college was more expensive than him buying a 60k fixer upper house and then renting out the spare rooms to my friends. He's actually profiting off it)

So yeah, I find it hard when everyone's talking about student loans and paying tuition, since I don't do any of that. What I do, is just downplay my wealth and luckiness as much as I can. I don't try to engage on those conversations too much, and I don't ever let on that I'm not in the same shoes.

I would just not brag about your experience or anything, even humble brag.

Not all college students are about getting trashed either, so you will find some of them. Just keep looking. I think you just haven't talked to enough people yet.

>>18078124
once you talk to them you realize that they are as dumb as your usual friends

really, even if they have a pretty face that wont compensate for the lack of shared interests over time

by all means this applies to guys as well

>>18078133
Not a guy, but fellow outie. Never met a man irl to prefer it.
I've met plenty who tolerate it, but never any who actually liked it.
Generally though, the bigger the labia, the worse off you are, so if you're smaller you should be somewhat ok. I've got the god awful 2inchers so you're better off than me

>>18077131
>projecting this hard

>>18078147
Sounds about right.

>>18078147
>2inchers
wew
how can I help you?

>>18076727
Girls:
What would you do if your boyfriend expected you to stop talking to your male best friend (if you have one)? What do you think about such expectations?

>>18078142
Thanks, nice to hear from someone from about the same situation!

I will give your approach a chance. Also, how has it worked for you? Any additional tips which come to your mind?

Should I talk to my ex again? Really starting to miss her.. It's been 4 months.

>>18078195
Not a girl, but that's some bitch ass bullshit. And that goes for all genders.

>>18078205
Standard reply: There's a reason they are your ex.

>>18078205
You never enter the same river twice.
>>18078208
Well asked girls because wanted their insight on that topic, since my gf is basically forcing me to do such thing (and stop talking to ideally every girl possible) and i'm pretty much about to break up.

>>18078215
>You never enter the same river twice.
I don't think this means what you think it means.

>>18078215
Is there no other way to shut that shit down without resorting to the nuclear option?

>>18078226
something about pee?

>>18078133
I don't really give a fuck. Innies are cute, but outties give off this raw, hedonistic vibe.

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what does it mean when women, who you don't know, smile at you? Does it mean they think you are good looking? Is it an invitation to approach and talk to them?

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>>18078190
Ending my miserable life lol

>>18078226
This sentence has 2 meanings where i live, so sorry i wasn't clear. What i meant is you shouldn't try to fix things, because you broke up for a reason.
>>18078232
If you're asking about my relationship then no. Tried talking about it, tried working this out together. In the end i just realised that it was me who wanted to solve her problems, while she is completely fine with things being as they are. She'd rather force me to submit and do as she wants than work together.

>>18078195
My boyfriend didn't explicitly tell me to, but it obviously made him uncomfortable and I valued my partners comfort over my friendship. He makes the same kind of compromises, so I thought it was only fair. But, I think it sort of depends on your relationship and what sort of things you feel comfortable with doing for them, and possibly if they'd do the same. If theyre giving you an ultimatum thats pretty shitty and you should find someone else.

Tldr; if theyre trying to force you to, theyre being faggots. Essentially, you should be able to do what you want (as long as its not harming anyone) and your partner should respect that.

>>18078133
I don't have an opinion strong enough for it to elicit any kind of response when the pants come off.

>>18078133
No, I love to suck them.

>>18078147
>>18078245
You probably can symphatize with small dicked men on some level then, I presume? I mean being shunned for having your genitalia's size and shape be worse than "normal".

>>18078233
No. It suggests that the ex is not the same person as they were 4 months ago. Was that your intention?

>>18078239
Most likely it's a learned reflex and doesn't mean anything.

>>18078199
Pretty ok, the more you talk to college students, the more you realize they don't just talk about finances all the time. Yeah, it is kind of a common topic since almost everyone there can commiserate, but I find we talk about how much we hate college and classes more than anything lol.

Can't really think of much else 2bh. You can try to learn how to steer conversation. That helped me a little bit, but I'm also not very good at it. Whenever it gets into a conversation about loans and stuff for example, I just sit and listen until I can find something to grab onto and lead the conversation onto something else I can have more input on

>>18078133
>>18078147

outies are not that bad
here's an outie I like

http://img.4plebs.org/boards/tv/image/1487/56/1487566772760.webm

>>18078245
I can help you with math :)

>>18078253
Yeah lol.
to be honest, I prefer dicks smaller. Big ones just scare me, and I hate penetration anyways. I just put up with it because it's part of the sex package. Smaller they are, less I have to worry about being hurt by them, because they all just hurt.
>in b4 everyone starts telling me penetration should never hurt, vaginismus, blah blah blah.
Been through it all, talked with at least 12 different doctors, none of them have any reason for why I don't like it/its uncomfortable other than it just is.

>>18078256
>Cuck porn

Kys.

>>18078265
>mad dicklet detected

>>18078247
Well i was given an ultimatum. She basically said "if i'm your girlfriend then i'm the only girl you can interact with" (my family excluded). She has no problem on confronting me about trivial things like facebook invitations and openly state how uncomfortable she feels when i'm doing it.

And to give more context: She is doing her Phd now and has to work with some guy on it. I have no problems with it, but when i first brought it up, she answered with "how can you compare such things" I still think it's hipocritical on her end, because when i was helping some of my friends at uni she had no problems whining about it.

>>18078246
>while she is completely fine with things being as they are.
If she's fine with things as they are then maybe you can be too? You'll keep seeing your friends and she keeps bitching at you about it.
I'm not necessarily advocating this advice, but it's an option to consider.

>>18078266
If you enjoy seeing black guys fucking white, innocent looking girls you are seriously fucked up in the head. No amount of name calling will change that.

>>18078261
I'm not in any more math courses tho lol.

>>18078269
Sounds like she cheats and is projecting onto you.

>>18078265
Projecting much? There's nothing in that clip indicating cuckoldry.

>>18078273
I don't focus on the guy, as long as his size is adequate and he's good at fucking, black or white doesn't really matter. lol but your response is funny

>>18078269
Don't know about the cheating bit, but this is definitely an unhealthy behavior. It's extreme jealousy and controlling, and not good for you. And yes, it is hypocritical

>>18078239
I smile at most people I make eye contact with, it's just polite. Would you rather just get a blank stare or resting bitch face or something?

>>18078289
It's arguable that all porn is cuckold porn, you are watching a dude fuck a girl from a third person perspective. Interracial porn is even worse because it implies men from another race are better lovers.

>>18078269
Yeah that does sound pretty hypocritical. Honestly, if she ACTUALLY said that and you're not paraphrasing badly, she sounds insane. I assume you've tried sitting her down and talking to her about her jealousy? Maybe reassuring her a little and telling her shit like "youre the only one i love blabla"? Because if none of that worked, and its getting on your nerves, I'd say its a lost cause.

>>18076727
For guys. Or girls. Please help, dealing with a manipulator.

>Break up with ex
>Ex contacts me months later, apologizing, saying he misses me and that he's depressed
>Say I'm still hurt, but I miss him too
>He asks why I messaged back if I hated him so much (we dated for a year, started flirting with another girl near the end, so I said adios. Breakup was full of crying and anger, lots of problems in the last few weeks)
>I said because I don't hate him, I'm just disappointed with his actions
>He says "I don't know what you want me to say. You made me lose a friend." (The girl he was flirting with contacted me, he claimed he was going to leave me for her, I told that bitch to run because of the shit he put me through and she did"
>He starts getting angry, questions why I told her so much shit
>I said because I was angry and jealous basically, this isn't the first time he did this to me. Remind him he made me give up a friend as well (This relationship was toxic af)
>Now he won't respond, just says he's busy.

So like, why did he even bother messaging me? Why is he acting like a total fuck after he was all "Oh I'm so sorry for messaging you, I know you don't want to talk to me, I shouldn't have done this to you."

Can anyone translate.

>>18078312
Oh sorry, you said she basically said that. Regardless, if that really is close to what she said she sounds crazy.

>>18078318
Why are you even talking to him? Ignore him and move on with your life.

>>18078264
Oh fugg I have a rather above average benis. About 7in x ~6in. Would my little friend be pretty uncomfortable then?

>>18078325
That girl is an exception, most women like a slightly above average dick.

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>>18077214
>how different she is in person than over text

IMO if you can ever conjure up THIS statement towards a girls behavior you yourself should start getting more respecting of yourself and your time. From your perspective YOU should be the jewel here,not her.
Act and speak like it.

Because hey, girls who can be thought of like that typically think the whole connection to you is a play to boost their self esteem. They aren't taking you seriously and for that matter don't have any genuine respect towards your relationship and possibly even the idea of a relationship,they're fine stringing along guys. You need to counter this and get them off their pedestal with self interested decisions and acts.

Also
>That story
What you said wasn't important. But her interest in the co-worker to such a degree suggests that she had feelings for him.

>>18078318
You might be dealing with someone who has a very bad personality disorder. My suggestion is to not fall for his manipulative trap again.

>>18078318
Shit got fucked up with the new girl and he started to regret his choices and wanted you back. Not regret as in he feels bad or like an ass for doing that for you, but regret as in he doesn't like dealing with the consequences of his actions.

Ignore that dick.

>>18078318
What do you mean why? You obviously know why or you wouldn't blatantly call him a manipulator. He messaged you so that he can manipulate you more and get back with you and/or hurt you more. I know its tempting, but you have to stop talking to him unless you want him to hurt you again.

>>18078299
Even if you assume the meta approach to interpret porn instead of suspending your disbelief and immerse yourself in the presented narrative, voyeurism is not the same as cuckoldry.

for girls

is a guy being a virgin a turn off?

>>18078312
She did say that, and i had to go through 3 days of constant fighting to be allowed to have chats on facebook.
>>18078270
I can't. Her behaviour pretty much forces me to walk on eggshells so i won't trigger her jealousy. Every time she acts like that i feel mentally and psyhically exhausted.
>>18078277
Well if i take in how she broke up with her ex i guess this could be the case.

>>18078349
Instead of imagining yourself fucking a woman you fantasize about a stud that can give her multiple orgasms with his huge dick, sounds like cuckoldry to me.

>>18078362
Ok man, the solution here is pretty clear. If you ever feel like you're walking on eggshells with someone and no amount of communicating or anything like that can fix it, it's probably time to call it quits. Have you told her this is how you feel?

Not a question but something i want to say to all women here and especially the ones that feel low self worth, i believe all of you are beautiful no matter what anyone says and i invite you to see yourself as beautiful as well.

>>18078360
A girl having an orgasm during sex is seen as a feat
You can figure it out.

>>18078360
it kinda depends on the guy's personality.

>>18078239
Depends a lot on the social setting. I would go figure it out in a bar or a club, where it most likely is an invitation or at worst they can at least expect that to happen, but in a more day to day activities it is just about being nice.

>>18078377
Don't be stupid, not everyone is attractive. Bullshit like this is why /r9k/ and tumblr think they're entitled to 10/10s

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>>18078337
>>18078338
>>18078347
These were my first thoughts. He didn't apologise, and denied he did anything wrong. I think he's upset that I didn't immediately fall back into his arms.
2 months into the relationship, he tells me he loves me, sleeps with me, then he goes after another girl. Girl rejects him so he crawls back, and I took him back because I loved him and I'm retarded. I reminded him of that, and he was like "So? I didn't leave you for HER I was just confused about my feelings for her."
Deny. Deny. Deny. Well, got away this time. I'm not going back. Only messaged back to see how badly his life was going, and to see if he'd finally admit he was wrong.

>>18078360
Depends on the guy, I actually think it's hot.

>>18078255
Cool, thanks! I appreciate the input.

>>18078362
>>18078362
>Every time she acts like that i feel mentally and psyhically exhausted.
What i meant was that you MIGHT learn to not feel exhausted by her jealousy. If she's worth it.

But if the only options are breaking up with my friends or breaking up with a girl who demands i break up with my friends, i know which one i'd choose.

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>>18078377
Ooh, yay. A random person on the internet who has no idea what I actually look like, or knows who I am, gave a blanket statement to every single person on earth. Feels super special.

>>18078400
please elaborate

>>18078370
I did. We had an argument about that a month ago. I took the "i feel x when y happens" and only related to my feelings. She pretty much only lashed at me. We agreed that we should work together. I tried to fix things, asked her questions but she swept it under the carpet. Had another fight a week ago. She told me she wants to go partying with her friend, i was ok with that. When i said the same stuff i had to tell her exactly how am i planning on partying with my boys, and if there are women in there she will be mad. I asked why, she said that she isn't ok with me flirting with other girls for my firends (which i never said i'd do) and didn't listen to what i was saying. When i asked why she's so possessive she got up, went to another room and slammed the doors. If i didn't drink those 2 beers before i'd get up and leave then. Right now she gives me a cold shoulder. But the longer she does, the more apparent for me is that she cares more about her than she ever did about me.
>>18078406
I know what i'd choose too. That's why when i asked her if she's giving me an ultimatum she dodged the bullet. Later she admitted that if she did that then she knew i'd leave.

>>18078360
Virginity itself is not, the complex that comes 99% of the time with the virginity is.
If you can act with confidence, knowing your inexperience doesn't really matter so long as you carry yourself high, then I'll be as attracted to him as any other guy with the same traits.

girl and guys

are any of you really depressed that the warmer season are approaching which means an increased sex drive?

i'm seriously dreading spring and summer. I fucking wish there was a way not have a sex drive. I fucking hate this shit

acording to this >>18078380 then is getting laid kinda like getting a job?

can't get experience without doing it, can't do it without experience?

>>18078410
The people saying it depends probably mean if you act like an insecure spaghetti sperg about it to a girl they obviously wont like you. But if you can put insecurities aside then whatevs

>>18078409
>>18078390
I said that because it's my statement of truth, You can believe what you wish.

I think a more sensible remark would be to say that everyone is worthy of love. Not entitled, but as a human being, worthy of feeling whole with another.

>>18078410
I like how euphoric it is for them, because it's something so new. They're more enthralled.

>>18078325
Eh, as I said, all of them hurt/are uncomfortable. Even the smaller ones. Fingers are uncomfortable. I'd only actually say no way to one of those dumb monster cocks like in pornos. Everything else I'll just smile and put up with if I like the dude enough or if he's doing a good enough job with the foreplay. I'm just strictly clitoral. I only do penetration for his sake. Deal with the discomfort for a few minutes to give him his, because it's only right since he gave me mine before.

>>18078415
For men, sex is almost always a 'performance', so kinda like a job yes.

>>18078413
too bad the inexperience actually matters because it enables one to preform well

>>18078414
huh, I've never noticed any increase in my sex drive due to season.
Then again, I'm a woman so my sex drive is basically controlled by my cycle. Like right now I'm on my period so I'm a fucking frustrated horny beast who can't do anything about it because I think it's just way too gross to fuck or masturbate while I'm bleeding.
Next week I'll still probably be a little hornier than usual, then the next I'll be mellowed out, next week after that I'll be slightly more horny, and then the cycle begins a new.

>>18078367
Not unless you're also imagining the woman to be your significant other. And if you do all that without explicit prompting from the porn your watching, you're projecting.

Besides, why can't i imagine myself to be the stud that can give a woman multiple orgasms?

>>18077882
Not trolling

>>18078415
Nah because you're supposed to be somewhat legit when getting a job. When getting sex and queried about it just dodge the question. Don't give a flat yes or no. Always be indirect and if you want you can even lie about it.

>>18078434
Yeah but if you're in a relationship the complex obviously will matter more because it'll make the girl think not only are you bad at sex but you're annoying as fuck. You can get better at sex, but if they think you're an obnoxious little bitch you're not even going to get the chance.

>>18078437
Because it's obviously not you, you are just a pasty white guy with a 5 inch dick so you have to see someone actually attractive in your place. Stop defending this degeneracy you idiot.

This girl and I were subjected to a lot of fucked up emotional manipulation by a mutual friend who turned out to be a sociopath. We care for each other but the situation was too much, and we haven't really spoken or seen each other in a month.

I messaged her with a heartfelt apology for how intense things were.l, and that I hoped she was doing well and knew I care about her. She replied with a thank you, and that it was really nice to hear. It's been a few days.


I want to reconnect with her but I don't know what to say, if anything.

>>18078434
For women, they care more about the mental aspect. Women get off with their brains. If you can turn them on by being charismatic and confident enough, you'll get them off physically too. So long as you're still so insecure, yes you won't get them off because you can't even get them into the headspace they need to be in in order to actually get off.
But you'll continue to make excuses saying you're not good enough because you aren't physically experienced because the reality of fixing your mental issues is far harder to fix than just getting laid and having bad sex.

Anyway, all you really need to know to do is how to talk. If you communicate well, you will have good sex. That's all there is too it. Even the most experienced will have a bad time if they don't talk to their girl and ask what she wants.

>>18078449
actually you made me realize that there is this much bigger issue

I'm a smooth talker that once managed to take a girl to bed and once there, most likely because of the stress of not being able to live up to her expectations, I couldn't get it hard for much time, ended up not being able to loose my virginity

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>>18078449
>if they don't talk to their girl and ask what she wants.
And then they say "I don't want to talk about it" and you get cucked

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>>18078336
Yeah me and him both came to the conclusion that she probably had feelings for him.

Heres some other story because I just wanna get it out. We were working she asks me:

>"Hey anon are you doing anything for christmas eve?"
>respond with "nah probably not"
>"well if you're not doing anything we should totally hang out"
>I say "yeah that sounds awesome"
>have dinner with co-workers the night before christmas eve
>everyone stays up till 4am
>christmas eve rolls around
>send text saying "hey what time did you wanna meetup today?"
>hit with "I'm really tired from last night, not until later tonight?"
>no problem
>later tonight rolls around
>"hey what do you wanna do?"
>"Sorry I need to sleep"
>niggawhat.jpg
>"Ok no problem!"

>>18078414
>I fucking wish there was a way not have a sex drive.
One common sideffect of SSRIs is a decrease sex drive. I know this from personal experience and from reading the insert leaflet.

>>18078464
I know this is irrelevant to the thread, but today I was told to read the manga where that face comes from and now I can't remember the name, care to help?

What is the longest you have ever gone without speaking to another person, in person, who wasn't a coworker or a relative? Were you upset or did you have nobody to talk to?

Would any cute black girls date an Asian guy?

I'm 6"2 and Korean but my penis is only 7 inches :(

>>18078436

at least for males. Due to the warmer temperatures approaching it causes a spike in testosterone. Its why animals mate like crazy in the spring. It effects us too unfortunately. I really fucking hate it. It actually causes me depression.

>>18078471

yes i know about that. But i can't mess with anti-depressants because of my job

>>18078436
>on her period
>horny beast
This makes no sense. What the fuck, evolution?

>>18076866
Then he must be so fucking dirty. I'm uncut and you really only get cheese if you never wash - and even then it'd be hard to see it for you when cleaning yourself

>>18078481
>"only" 7 inches

>>18078479
A year, maybe more. If you dont count online then probably 2-3 years. I didn't mind. Me and my brother are pretty much best friends so it kinda feels like cheating though. I just don't have friends and I dont feel the desire to have any because focusing on more than 1-2 people is too tiring for me.

>>18078446
>you are just a pasty white guy with a 5 inch dick
Yeah, so why would deny me the fantasy of being a sexual tyrannosaurus? I'm obviously not getting that irl.

Or are you saying that the only porn i should be allowed to watch is of some pasty pudgy dude jacking off alone, because that's the only thing that's realistic to my situation?

>>18078505
First of all, most girls don't need a muscular stud to have a good time, that's a male fantasy; second, you shouldn't watch porn with men at all, I already explained why, so fuck off.

>>18078522
>I already explained why
You really didn't.

I've started getting close to a girl who's 24 (I'm 19) but my parents treat her like a daughter (they know her for 5 years). I asked her out to coffee and she said yes and last week we were together and she was very playful and then invited me out running&breakfast with a married couple. Is she interested in me or is there a possibility she sees me as a little brother?

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>>18078465
God damn did you fuck up. That's a fucking nightmare of a mistakes right there. I'll just like fucking number them

1) You said it sounded awesome and then you didn't make a move with a suggestion of a time and place to meet.
2) After saying the above you waited an OBSCENELY long time with nothing conclusive and then contacted her again. This definitely pissed her off.
3) She told you to wait and you waited. That's far too nice and not being respectful of your own time.
4) When you contacted her you tried to leave the meet up up to HER to decide. She's a woman,she makes moves in the heat. It sounded good then but because you let her sit on it she did something that let her cool off.

Honestly forget the fact that she now has you blocked on Snapchat which in itself is complete cuck level friendzoning shit. Your shit with her was probably over at this exact moment.

Like seriously don't ever just TRUST women who aren't able to self proclaim themself as your Girlfriend. ESPECIALLY when it comes to making engagements over the phone. Women are incredibly rude when it comes to things like these so as the guy it's your responsibility to be strong, concrete and not iffy about what you want.

>>18078588
>Snapchat which in itself is complete cuck level friendzoning shit

And by that I mean Snapchat itself not the fact that she blocked you.

>>18078587
She's going out with you so yes. Don't hesitate to make a bigger move sometime when you've got her having fun again.

>>18078588
Thanks man, I knew I fucked up in someway(s). Especially with the whole in- person discussion. Not being decisive and playing it cool really backfired on me.

>>18078464
Well, you're the defeatist who will never be satisfied. You're applying generalizations and just plain assumptions, stop doing that and you'll get laid.

If she's too shy to tell you, then its nobodys fault but her own that she had a bad time. That reflects nothing on you and your ability.

>>18078487
Ikr. the fucking hormone rush is killer.

Maybe it's supposed to be punishment for letting an egg go to waste kek.

>>18077069
Ask her to hook you up bro

>>18077120
A guy I work with is 5'5 tall and looks like a troll but still gets it on the reg. You have to lower your standards bro

>>18078872
Does he fuck fatties only?

>>18078481
I would loves me some slanty Chinese cock, mmmm delicious in my ghetto chocolatey throat;)

>>18078907
No, just insecure Mexican sloots

>>18078948
Not so bad then.

>>18077496
Can I get help with this? Last person who gave me advice just dodged the entire question.