-girl ive been friends with for years and i have always had flirty relationship
-go to university together in butt fuck nowhere, hate everyone else in the town and are each others best friends
-get drunk and admit i have feelings for her
-she reciprocates to some degree but is also bad with feelings
-shes best friends with a girl i dated a while ago, said she feels kinda weird about it but will go on a date with me if the girl is fine with it
-my ex is supportive of it
-now shes kinda hesitant, talking about how everything is really good right now, is unsure
-i really want this, i think i like her a lot
is this gonna happen? is there anyway to make it more likely?
will she let you into her house? if so this may be your only opportunity, just make sure you have the proper supplies
Life is too short to worry about the "what ifs". Just do it. If it works out, great. If not, it was only one date and nothing serious happened to make it uncomfortable.
>>18076619
>is this gonna happen?
Maybe.
>is there anyway to make it more likely?
No.
She doesn't want to lose you as a friend. She knows that if you get into a romantic relationship, it changes the friendship. She knows that if something goes wrong in the new relationship, there's no going back to the old friendship, and that scares her. She might be brave enough to take the chance anyway, or she might not. Nothing you can do can decide the outcome for her, and if you push it too hard she'll shut you down completely.
Give her space, let her decide, respect whatever decision she comes to.
>t. guy who fucked up a really good friendship by getting into a relationship with one of his chick friends