Has porn ruined me?

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>has porn ruined me
Obvious answer is yes

How does watching other people fuck not sound like a terrible idea to you?

>>18075902
Try fapping to pictures of naked women. Never to porn. Fapping to naked women will fix your brain.
When you imagine banging them, be sure to do it in first person, if you do so in third person you are a cuck and porn ruined you.

>>18075939
>>18075921
lies. i exclusively watch interracial bm/wf and I am a well adjusted individual baka.

>>18075921
O look. A retard. I jerk it 2-3 times a day to porn and when I have a gf, I fuck the shit out of her every chance I get.

Porn doesn't ruin you unless you're a retard who lets it. Anything can ruin you if you let it. For any well adjusted/sane people, porn is just a way to get rid of your libido for a while. What's excessive is dependent on the person's actual needs.

>>18075968
>I drank poison and was fine so you can do it to
No faggot, everyone is different.

>>18075939
I'm not a cuckold.

In my own personal(If sparse) sex life, though never in porn, I like being the dom side of BDSM stuff. I've never felt any appeal at equitable sexual relationships.

>>18075921
Will read this, though... It was a good idea as a teen, terrible one now as an adult.

>>18075984
Why would you ignore every thing in that post to talk about being a cuck

>>18075987
Because you seemed to think I'm a cuck and gave advice based solely on that.

The issue is that, consciously, sex isn't hot. I cannot get horny off of my own volition like I used to. I very rarely, if ever, get that all consuming desire to just annihilate some pussy.

>>18075921
>>18075984

Also, the reason given for the odd fetish I have doesn't apply to me at all, which makes me skeptical... But I get the general idea. Act the way I want to be and my psyche will follow.

>>18075994
So you ignored advice based on a failure to read. Seems legit.

>>18075902
are you an unfit sack of shit?

>>18075968
This guy is right, mostly. The people who get all obsessed with no porn and nofap are really misguided, their real problem is their terrible lifestyles not porn or masturbating. Though too much porn does fuck your expectations.

>>18076050
Huh... I was at my most virile back when I boxed...

Maybe its worth getting active again for more than aesthetics...

Shame lifting pays for its effectiveness with fun.

>>18075968
I can tell you're ruined by how defensive you just got.

>>18076058
Getting fit really made me a lot more horny.

I take masturbation breaks fairly frequently, when i was a skinnyfat unfit piece of shit the longest i got was 11 days and i was aroused at everything and very horny.

Now though, the level i felt at 11 days i feel at 3 or maybe just 2 days without masturbating. The longest i can make is 4 days, i think if i did 11 now id probably jizz my pants in the street

>>18076058
>Shame lifting pays for its effectiveness with fun.
Literally an hour in the gym (30 mins twice) is all you need to get fit. Thats all i do, its just about patience, dont worry about getting ripped in 2 months, a year passes in no time and if youve spent that year doing consistent but moderate exercise you'll still end up very fit.

>>18076081
Of course but there's miles more to a combat sport.

This is a whole different thread on its own but I do struggle with lifting. I've been aimless since I had to stop boxing.

Anyway, maybe soccer with some lifting on the side might do.

Hopefully it'll make me like actual women again too.

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Obviously porn ruined you. Your body has been trained to see attractive women and not feel the need to pursue, because you can just jack off to them and save time.

This is a horrible conditioning. You are demeaning yourself as a man. Your mind wants to pursue beautiful women you see, but you've trained yourself to not feel as motivated to pursue real women because you know you can get quick relief easily with your hand.

To fix this....stop watching porn. Never touch your dick if you are looking at a picture of a woman. Limit masturbation to as rarely as possible, but at least 1-2 times a month to maintain a healthy libido. Not ejaculating for months on end is a nofap meme and is only useful for old men. Young men can ejaculate once - twice a week max and not have their libido negatively affected.

Only ejaculate once too. I'm sure you've experienced jacking off three-four nights in a row and feeling zero sexual drive for a few days afterwards. Your body spends a lot of energy restoring lost semen and if you deplete yourself too much you will lose your libido and women will sense it. Ask any girl if they can tell if a guy cums too much, they'll tell you it's obvious.

>I really only get consistently horny in week long phases every one to two months. When not in those phases, I sometimes only jack off once or twice a week.
That's abnormal and unless you also have access to pornography on such a schedule you're stupid for assuming a relationship between the two.

Maybe. First of all, porn is not the only possible culprit here. There are many possible causes for lack of libido, like bad nutrition, depression, some physical condition etc. It's usually hard to pinpoint what's causing it, but a doctor may be able to help you. MAY.

We don't know exactly to what extent porn affects the brain. People take very one-sided stances on this matter and they exaggerate it, so it's hard to find real information in that sea of bullshit. >>18075921 pic for instance makes some points that seem correct to me, but also pulls theories out of his ass a lot. Anyway, I believe that porn can negatively affect you to some extent, but I don't think it can completely crush your libido by yourself. Many people, myself included have watched ungodly amounts of fucked up porn for extended periods of time and still get hard for normal women, while others can't get their dicks up for models.

But you don't have to take anybody's word for it. If you think porn might be the reason behind your problem simply stop watching it completely for 2 months. Not only that, but you should also stop masturbating during that time (the reason for this is that when you fap you will most likely fantasize about the same shit you see in porn, which will reinforce the neural connections that allegedly caused your issue). If you can't abstain from fapping for that long do it once every few days at most, but imagine only having normal PiV sex with women you know irl for it.

If you manage to do this for 2 months and you don't see any real improvements with your problem then I can guarantee that the issue wasn't the porn, so at that point you should definitely talk to a doctor.