Am I shallow or is this a legitimate dealbreaker

>>18074947
Her pussy is normal.

Dont be an idiot.

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>>18074947

I would have trouble with that too. I'm ocd so I would be internally screaming in their presence.
It does suck for her but she needs to be upfront about that shit in her profile

I don't think it's shallow.
As we've all now said, it sucks for her that she has that, but you have no obligation to stay with someone you can't be comfortable with. It's better now over down the line realising you can't deal with it.

>>18074947
Its something you would have to get used to. Don't be a faggot though. Its gonna take you by surprise at first but you should have comforted her that its something that people who stay in her life will not be bothered by. Its different, but what you care about is if it effects the relationship with you in a meaningful way.
Like maybe you have this huge aversion to disfigured body parts, then its legit. But it sounds like you just don't like it because its different which is shallow.

>>18075846
Not so much that it's different but let's just be frank, it's unattractive, or at least less attractive than a girl with both hands. It's not her fault, but it's not ugly people's fault for being ugly either

>>18075866
Its only unattractive if you think its unattractive. You might as well say all indians are unattractive for being different. You find different unattractive which is shallow.

>>18075962
How is thinking that a deformation is unattractive shallow?

I just gotta ask, how the fuck did you not notice it before?

>>18075978
We were wearing jackets and I guess she got really good at hiding it. It actually blew my mind when I realized that I hadn't even seen her right arm for an hour and a half

>>18075973
Whats unattractive about it.

>>18075973

>I'm attracted to every bit of a person except for their right arm
>better dump them

That's how it's shallow.

>>18074947
Think of it this way, OP - it will be the most unique handjob you ever get in your life.

>>18074982
fpbp

>>18074947
lol This is some Seinfeld shit right here, are you intrested in her? then bring the ruckus to that ass

>>18074947
Can't help you turnoffs. It's not shallow. Especially since you acknowledge. I'd still see her. You'll probably get used to it. And eventually won't notice.

deformities like that are shocking at first but you'd be used to it within a week of knowing her

so basically it's your call, but don't claim you "can't get over it". You would easily if you gave her a chance

Bro I've been there. Almost same situation except she showed me her hand AFTER we started dating. She was super good at hiding it after years of being teased. It took me a few days to process it, and then a few weeks to come to accept it. We split 6 months later over something completely different. You'll get use to it. If you are worried by people caring, fuck 'em. You learn in a situation like that that others opinions don't actually matter

>>18074947
Her genetics are inferior, no reason to carry on the relationship unless you want a mangled handjob.

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I can't make this shit up.

>>18074947
it a natural instinct to be disgusted by deformities. it's your body telling you she's genetically unfit. if you can get past it, cool. if not, there's no shame. you shouldn't force yourself to be with someone because it's "politically correct".