>date girl
>girl is into me, I'm not into her
>feel confident enough to let her go, she gets clingy
>treat her badly because I'm indifferent to her leaving me
>finally she's had enough and start acting distant
>suddenly I get paranoid, start getting clingy towards her and be unhappy that she isn't giving me the attention she used to
>she tells me she isn't afraid of letting me go anymore
>I lose my confidence in finding someone else and fall back into scarcity mentality
what is this mental illness that makes me flip flop on what I want? I want to get out of this but then I'm afraid of how my mindset will change immediately and make me regret the decision. Anyone have been in similar situation?
>>18074929
You're a frogposter, that about sums it up.
>>18074933
it was the only semi relevant thing in my junk picture folder I happen to have because I don't go around collecting reaction images like an autist
>>18074951
>Being this mad for being called out
Lel. You're a greener grass kinda guy. You don't realize how good you got it until it's gone.
>>18074929
Just dump her man, your confidence is gone because you no longer have power over her. It's better if you both split up.
>>18075267
this or a long game of pull and push until your heart's thin
Congrats, you're the male version of the girl who wants her beta orbiters to orbit her and want to fuck her, but doesn't actually want to fuck them.
She was your egostroke and you became hung up over getting your next attention fix after she threatened to move on. Grow actually confident and this stuff won't happen anymore, but it takes time.