Help me be less of a shithead

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/adv/ I need your help to be less of a shithead. I've been online dating for a few months, and I fucked an extremely hot 20 year old for awhile, and then a pert, athletic 25 year old with like the best body I've ever seen. They were both dynamite in bed but fucking awful people who basically ruined me mentally. Like, my experiences with them were traumatically awful, and made me almost give up on dating again and go another decade as a pure robot.

However, before I gave up, a really nice girl messaged me on tinder. We get along really great, she's smart af, cultured, works in a really cool field, and is like the kind of girl I can see myself really spending a long time with. The only problem is...she's just not as attractive as other girls I've been with, physically. Like I can typically do pretty well with really attractive girls because I'm pretty handsome, and I keep thinking "boy I wish I could put her head on (other girls) body".

How do I stop this? She's awesome, not ugly or anything, and kinky as hell and down for literally anything. Our sex is amazing. I'm just not, like, quite as into her body as I was the other girls I dated.

How important is this? I'm a robot new to the dating world and it seems to me like mental compatibility is rpobably what really matters, since my looks will fade, and I want a real relationship