wat do?

>>18072272
>what did I do wrong?
you thought you won the lottery because a girl cheated on her bf. you weren't special just next

>>18072350
This.

Don't trust chicks that get into relationships whilst they're still in them. That's a big red flag. You done goofed, the ones that
>tells me that I mean a lot to her
>tells me that she would never hurt me
>tells me she wants to be with me
Are overcompensating for real lack of genuine feelings they have towards you.

Abort, OP.

>>18072272

She's probably regretting leaving her boyfriend and is trying to hedge her bets by keeping you both sweet. What you wanted was probably heading towards a relationship which would obviously mean her ex was off limits. By "taking it slowly" this gives her time to work out which of you, if any, she wants to be with.

TL;DR - she is having her cake and eating it. Don't get too attached.

You dated a thot. All you gotta do now is try never to repeat your mistake again. Don't date other ppls gf's, and you wont have problems.

I've had similar bad experiences, but never full on dating the girl, just camming.

I was a virgin then, between 20-21years old or so, a girl I knew for a few years introduced me to a friend of hers. They would webcam together, her friend had a bf and even showed me a photo of her, my then friend, and her bf together in a room wearing nothing but underwear together. In my mind I'm thinking.. well these people are pretty lax.. they hang out half naked together or whatever..so no big deal right? Both my friend and her begin stripping topless for me on cam, one thing led to another, her friend got herself a dildo and began showing me herself using it on cam.. welp, she started talking to me on phone even, both of em, mind you, she made it seem this whole time like her relationship was near nothing.. weeks go by, she meets some cowboy with a huge dick, they fuck, she breaks down and tells me about it, starts taking meds. My friend told her bf she was talking to me, she gives him my AIM screen name, the guy blew his top on me and I felt like shit, but I told him, dude she made it seem like nothing..and I'm not even the one she's fucking, I'm a virgin...needless to say, the guys life probably went to shit. Girl ended up marrying some Asian college teacher after.

Years and years go by, some lady starts talking to me on kik, she's married, i tell her it's a bad idea to talk to me, continues anyway, i say a few dirty things, i feel bad about it, we don't talk anymore clearly. Over the years, I just made it a habit to ask a girl if she's single first, and if she isn't, I just stop talking to her.

>>18072358

Can confirm, I do that.