Is it cheating ?

Yes absolutely

What the fuck is wrong with people. You're willingly showing other guys your fucking twat, it doesn't matter if they know it's yours or not.

Nah it wasn't cheating but it was some deviant and slutty behavior.

I do consider the bait weak though.

>>18071273
100%

>>18071273
You satisfied your sexual curiosity, with
someone other than your BF... so yeah.
'Tis cheating.

Not OP, but I feel legitimately curious as to what extent something can be called cheating ? Does it just mean doing something sexual behind your partner's back?

If i understand it correctly OP basically did the equivalent of getting off while knowing someone was peeping in. In webcam scenarios It kinda makes me wonder ?

>>18071311
op is b8, so we disregard that. however we can answer your question. anyway, what is your partner okay with?

if you have a lenient partner who doesn't consider flirting w/ someone else cheating, then its not cheating

if you're with someone who considers flirting cheating, then its cheating

some like to say its getting sexual needs met with someone other than your partner, however it can getting emotional needs met with anyone other than your partner, causing attachment .

if you want to keep it simple, cheating is ANYTHING you wouldn't tell your partner you did with someone else

go on a date with someone? didn't tell your man, or woman? thats cheating b/c you're looking for new dick or pussy

kissed someone else behind their back and would tell them? cheating

fucked someone else? cheating

girl got drunk, and kissed someone and tried to confess? cheating. she wouldn't do that if her man was at the party

>>18071311
Cheating is literally any interaction you have with another person that your partner would consider a betrayal of fidelity. That's it, full stop.

>>18071273
I guess it all depends on the context of your relationship. Honestly, if I found out my girlfriend were doing that, I would feel betrayed.

>>18071362

I'm a guy and I literally wouldn't give a fuck if my GF did what OP described.

Am I a cuck ?

yes. If I was your BF and I found out I'd leave your ass immediately. Kek.

>>18071372
Depends on how you structured your relationship. My girlfriend and I have made it quite clear that we need to talk about any kind of sexual incidences outside of our relationship. That said, neither of us have approved of something that involves anyone other that each other. So far be it from me to call you a cuck if you guys are open or whatever. But if that is what you want to be, I also really don't care.

you literally sent nudes to a stranger

>>18071273
You can tell how similar this is to cheating by investigating how easily you could tell your boyfriend you did this. If you find it hard to tell him, you fucked up, lass.

can I see some of the nudes?

>>18071273
yes is cheating...
would you be ok with your bf jerking it off to some random cunt?

>>18071273
link to your stream or b8 lol

>>18071411

THIS
IS
THE
DEFINITION
OF
PORN
YOU
FUCKING
HYPOCRITES

Yes, it's cheating

>>18071461
is the inverse of porn you cuck.

Why am I never on soc?? What happends overthere ? Anyway, I would say no. Until you start doing it on a regular basis. Than you have to tell him about it. Otherwise you could tell him if it starts feeling bad.

>>18071273
Were you paid? In a way, that would actually have made things better.

>>18071475
You'd be ok with your GF literally being a prostitute ?

>>18071486
At least she would have some money for her efforts.

>>18071344
I feel like this is a dangerous definition.

If I'm already labeled a cheater for some minor indiscretions, why not at least enjoy the fruits of the tag?

I turned a girl down for a date because I had a girlfriend but I gave her a few kind of intimate and personal compliments to soften the blow that I definitely wouldn't want my gf to know I said.

If I thought I was a cheater either way I would have at least got my dick sucked.

Congratulations, you are the worst kind of cheater, the kind who tries to justify it by bringing into question the definition of cheating. Break up with your boyfriend and never commit to anyone again unless you can keep it in your panties.

>>18071493
It's not dangerous. Your mentality is definitely one of a cheater so it fits regardless.

Cheating is whatever your partner sees as a breach of loyalty. ESPECIALLY if you know they wouldn't be okay with it. This is why boundaries are so crucial and should be discussed early in a relationship.

>>18071273
You are cheating and if your boyfriend finds out he will break up with you.

>>18071529
You seem young or sheltered. Life isn't so neat, right and wrong aren't so clear.

>>18071544
>haha you're a young kiddo
>in time you'll learn to be unfaithful like me

you are dumb as fuck and this:
>If I'm already labeled a cheater for some minor indiscretions, why not at least enjoy the fruits of the tag?
hurr if i dropped one egg on the floor why not just drop the whole fucking carton?

>>18071544
Ad hominem and >implying

>>18071273
It's not cheating, but two things are clear now.
1. You're asking because you know it was wrong, but you want at least one person to come forward and normalise the behaviour.
2. You lack even basic respect for your boyfriend or the relationship between you two. I'd suggest telling him you just want to become fuck buddies or maybe have an open relationship, because it seems the current set of unspoken rules are too restrictive for you. If he doesn't want that, break up immediately because there's a fundamental difference in thinking in that case.

the question is does he know and would he be ok with it

It isnt cheating. If your bf told you he jerked off with a strange girl watching over the internet would you consider it cheating?

>>18071544
>haha you're young and foolish, you'll learn to be a piece of garbage like me one day
Why is this the only argument that cheaters can come up with? Do you idiots realize that people who cheat are the minority? Just because you're a shitty person doesn't mean everyone else is destined to be one too. There are plenty of people who don't cheat.

>>18071273
Is it cheating? not really.
Is it wrong? yes, but you know that because you haven't told him.

It's really a " advance cheating" Technic. Think of it like this.

say your BF did this,same stage, dick out, etc etc.

is it cheating to you ?

People asking the question "What exactly is cheating?" are simply looking for loopholes to cheat AND feel better about it.

>>18071372
Probably not, there are plenty of healthy relationships where partners will engage in intimate contact with people outside the relationship without it being cuckoldry. Things like threesomes, open relationships and if one of you is a stripper or something like that.

The worry people tend to get is that the sexual act will lead to an emotional attachment to someone else which can often happen but not always

I do it every now and then. It helps me get the sexual validation I need that I'm missing. Don't tell me to talk to him because it's pointless. I've pretty much accepted our sex life is shit.

I wouldn't say it's cheating...

But I can't say it was being faithful to him too...

It's something in between.