How do I change my mindset? I have no talent, no drive, and no

Tell a doctor you've got ADD, get aderall and everything will go smoothly

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>>18068723
>How do I change my mindset?
i wish i knew anon

>>18068723
Start out with a process of elimination. Do you like making things? Are you into body building or obscure movies? Doesn't really matter what it is, even if its the most 'autistic' hobby out there; it gives you something to talk about and it weeds out people who dont gel into your general interests and ergo increases your chances of building a relationship with them and experiencing social benefits with them (I.e. sex, connections, references)

Of course, if you're doing hobbies just for some vague ulterior motive, and you dont or no longer enjoy it, you're setting yourself up for failure. For example, I'm not into sports...I honestly can't see how anyone can go on and on about that stuff without getting bored, it just doesnt make sense in the same way I'll never understand otakus collecting expensive figurines, despite the two things ive mentioned being popular hobbies.

If you're picking up a hobby to impress other people, youre setting yourself up to fail because you cant please everybody, and peoples tastes in things change, so dont do it.

Do something or follow something you enjoy. I started with cooking and learming all sorts of techniques about it. Same with fashion...I used to just follow lookbooks and shit as a pointer to look better, but I learned more about fabrics, design and how the industry works and am thinking of considering it as a career..of course it's just an idea, but it's an illustration if how some small interests can become passions.