Why should I go see my dad? If he wanted to move overseas and have nothing to do with me, then why should I go see him?
I was completely stranded on my own and it wasn't till recently when my auntie took me in when my mental health started to get better . Honestly I've never been happier.
I had to get a full time job so I couldn't go to college after my parents broke up and that really pissed me off. Then my mom talks down on me for "not doing anything with my life"
>>18067980
Has your dad requested you visit or what's the reason for your trying to decide if you should go and see him?
>>18067980
I think knowing your parents is important
But I understand resentment and feeling of false obligation (i.e. "You should do this. Don't you want to? You're owed this")
That's my two cents at least
Don't feel obligated but maybe see the importance of seeing your parent?
Meeting your kids is very very important to a parent.
>>18068009
She probably just wants something to complain about. She constantly says I'm not doing anything with my life yet...this is my life...(wtf?)
She always talks about "I sacrificed this"
Lmao she's the one who threw her 25year marriage away for cheating!
Seems dumb to me. She can't just enjoy what she has. She always has to ruin things
>>18068019
I know what he's like. He never saw a problem with himself, that's why he fled to an asain country where he doesn't even speak the language.
I don't even know what I'd say to him. It would be awkward.
"Cheers for not raising me. Thanks for giving me no direction in life"
That's all I can think of