Gf past Is bothering me alot

>>18067557
Why does it bother you?

>>18067564
Cause they manipulated her into doing it

>>18067557
That would be a dealbreaker for me. She is too low in life and you deserve better. No matter what you do at this point, it will be gruelingly hard. You might as well make the choice which enables you a happier future, rather than happier present.

(break up with her, block all contact....)

4chan brainwashed you into thinking it should bother you. Normal people take a practical approach to life. Everyone has had past encounters, obviously, except virgins, and there is absolutely nothing special about being a virgin. Virgin is literally a term we came up with to mark women like cattle back when they were treated like cattle, it's disgusting to still care about it.

Have you tried talking to her about what her past relationships were like? That would probably help both of you, because experience helps future encounters be more successful. If you act like a man about this then you'll be even more likely to live the rest of your lives together.

Also, ignore all the fucking robots.
Seriously.
They openly admit they're mentally diseased.

>>18067587
Why do you think so?

>>18067557
This same thread with the same anime pic says a lot kek

>>18067557
Gross.

>>18067598
Op here, thanx for this, yes I did talk to her about it we had a small fight, she regrets it a lot but that was the last time I talked about it, don't wanna make her sad
>>18067600
Cause they are fuck boys and use alcohol and weed to their advantage

>>18067639
>Cause they are fuck boys and use alcohol and weed to their advantage
And how does the fact that they were black influence the whole thing?

>>18067639
>M-muh weed & alcohol
You sound bitter as fuck and it sounds like your girl willingly fucked them and you're in denial because you have some sort of grudge against black guys.
t. Mulatto

>>18067557
Find a better girl

>>18067598
>wanting to get the HIV
>convincing OP to get the HIV
You're a monster.

Get out, this is damage goods

>>18067598
>4chan brainwashed you
there is no such thing as brainwashing
> Everyone has had past encounters, obviously, except virgins,
Not everyone, and anyone has the right to have standards. Clearly OP's was betrayed and you are pushing him to LOWER his standards. To REDUCE himself as a man, because of your cookie-cutter opinions
>and there is absolutely nothing special about being a virgin.
Lie. Being a virgin is extremely important if iu are female. It is your value in life. Your womb is your reputation, who and how you give it explains your status as a woman. Being a virgin is extremely important and valuable. Look at those white girls who sold their v-cards on an online auction for nearly a million dollars. That is just one example among MANY, but it proves that virginity is extremely valuable in a real sense.

If anyone is doing brainwashing, it is you.

>Have you tried talking to her about what her past relationships were like?
And embarrass his girlfriend while he feels like a cuckold? Are ou mad? Do you really think anythig good can possibly come from a conversation like that?

>Also, ignore all the fucking robots.
You're telling him to ignore other advice? Seriously?
>Seriously.
Perhaps you believe you are righteous, that your opinions are superior to other people. I'm starting to think you hate the OP and are trying to sabotage him.

>>18067664
I aould have to disagree with you. He doesn't sound bitter, he sounds gullible. Imo his girlfriend played a victim card to try and forfeit her accountability for making a terrible choice in the past. And OP sponged it all up.

Just my take.

>>18067697
The reason why virginity is important was because there was no other way to determine whether a child was biologically yours or not other than being the only one who fucked a woman.
Right now with birth control and pregnancy tests, it has become really unimportant to be virgin.

If you want to stay virgin for moral reasons, there is no way that virginity for women is more important than virginity for men because the same moral standards apply to both.
There is no logical reason why a virgin girlfriend is better than a non virgin girlfriend unless you're planning to stay virgin together till marriage and you're deeply religious, in which case it lowers your chance of divorce.

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>>18067557
Bet she's been hollowed out nicely eh?

>>18067712
That is not why virginity is cherished. Perhaps a small, auxelliery reason. But you are in denial.
Just a few red pills for you:
>Women will ever only honestly love the man she loses her virginity to. It is hard for women to love men
>Female happiness falls in an expotenial curve with each additional sexual pertner. Marrying a virgin means a much happier wife, and a happier life for you
>Males are sexually possessive. We evolved for it. It's stupid to deny it, and even stupider to repress it. Happiness in life comes from fulfilling your emotions. Your primal subconcious emotions are some of the most powerful.
>A woman's reputation lies in how she handles her womb. A virgin is essentially a perfect woman. A woman to feel proud of.
And i can go on and on. This is like female 101 stuff. You are just in denial and trying tonruin OP.
Also need we forget? She fucks niggers. That is how low she values herself. That is her reputation, how worthy she thinks she honestly is. If not she would have never done such a thing. Now Wwyd? Stay with a low-class woman or move on to someone who respects herself more?

That is the real question here. And we wont help OP find answers with idiots like you spreading lies all over the place.

>>18067557

Lol pathetic insecure white men. You deserve it. I don't even feel sorry for you.

>>18067742
>And we wont help OP find answers with idiots like you spreading lies all over the place.
Perhaps then you should refrain from posting /r9k/ polturd

>>18067742

>Women will ever only honestly love the man she loses her virginity to. It is hard for women to love men

This has got to be BS.

>>18067742
>>Women will ever only honestly love the man she loses her virginity to.

So women who get raped/molested only love their abusers? See even with your so-called "logical" approach to human social dynamics you still come off as a complete moron with no life experience under your belt.

Your insecurity seeps through even further when you feel inadequate that a girl is a "coal-burner" cause you somehow have attached value to dick colors like the literal moron that you are.

>>18067742
>Women will ever only honestly love the man she loses her virginity to. It is hard for women to love men
Absolutely false.

>Female happiness falls in an expotenial curve with each additional sexual pertner. Marrying a virgin means a much happier wife, and a happier life for you
Yes, but nor really.
It goes from 50% of happy marriages for virgins till marriage to 30% for people with 15+ sexual partners. People with 2 sexual partners at the moment of marriage are actually happier than those who had just 1 partner before marriage (which is, probably, the spouse).

>Males are sexually possessive. We evolved for it. It's stupid to deny it, and even stupider to repress it. Happiness in life comes from fulfilling your emotions. Your primal subconcious emotions are some of the most powerful.
We also evolved to be non monogamous and have just one male fucking multiple women, but I don't see all guys on this board defending evolution when it comes to one alpha male fucking all females.

>A woman's reputation lies in how she handles her womb. A virgin is essentially a perfect woman. A woman to feel proud of.
A woman's reputation lies in her womb for the reason I explained to you earlier. Which is completely irrelevant nowadays.
A virgin woman who sucks everyone's dick is still a woman to be proud of?

>>18067763
This isn't the place to discuss this but I can point you in the right direction. Women are not capable of loving men the same way that we love them. They love the 'feeling' that a boyfriend gives them. The one exception is the man who takes her sexually the first time, she will develop real, more unconditional feelings for, and love him for who he is. Just for being there. Ask any chad or a woman who isn't censoring herself.

>>18067775
See my post above. I didn't expect you guys to dispute this particular "redpill". I think it's hard for you to accept because you (falsely) believe men and women are equal.

Also my comment about her fucking niggers isn't rooted in insecurity, it's rooted in racism. Yeah, I am a racist and black people are largely inferior to whites. That's why only the lowest and dumbest of our women become "coalburners", and mutually, it's why the porn fetish exists. You may not be racist, but OP clearly is. Even if he isn't as secure in his racism like me, if would help him with this problem if he embraces it a little better and speaks openly like this.

>>18067557
Well were you a Virgin before her? If not then literally never date against you hypocritical nut job

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>>18067802
thanks man. I'm on my cell phone so I couldn't pull up the graphs. good stuff

>>18067797

Anyone who uses the term "redpill" outside of discussing the Matrix movies is a moron.

>I think it's hard for you to accept because you (falsely) believe men and women are equal.
If you want to be technical about everything no one is truly equal to anyone else on this planet you idiot.

>Yeah, I am a racist and black people are largely inferior to whites.
That's nice that you think that, but you should know your opinion is outdated, archaic and stupid to the point it cannot be taken seriously even on a scientific level.

> That's why only the lowest and dumbest of our women become "coalburners"
Hopefully one day you'll work out your insecurity issues. The porn fetish exists for losers like you to self-insert to.

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>>18067802
>>18067805
Same data, different design. What's the point?

>>18067598
>4chan brainwashed you into thinking it should bother you.

Nah I've actually met black people before.

>>18067795
DELET

>>18067809
What are you like 16? xD

>>18067815
>My own anecdotal experiences should count
>However it's wrong when these minorities that I passionately hate rely on anecdotes

>>18067819

That the best you can do you insecure moron?

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This thread was destined to go poorly.

>>18067825

One of the worst bait topics on this board. Complete with the anime image.

>>18067822
You know what virtue-signalling is?

My advice to you is to open a new thread and ask "How do I stop virtue signalling?"

>>18067831

>virtue-signalling is the action or practice of publicly expressing opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue

Why do you think that /pol/ is the default position? Also why do you think that your stupid insipid outlook on life being called out is virtue-signalling? I am not trying to earn brownie points with anyone here, I'm simply debunking your stupid "arguments" if they can even be classified as such.

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>>18067837
>doubling down on antifa

>>18067841
You don't even know what you're trying to say.

>>18067697
>>18067742
noice shitpost guys
bet ur the same redpill faggots
go fuck urself

>>18067837
It's because your "replies" aren't coherent and aimed towards me, rather you just showing us all what a great person you are.

Really, you must be such a wonderful guy. I bet you have so many friends and everyone loves you. After all, why else would you
>feel the need to signal virtue?

>>18067841
I lol'd

>>18067853
Did that post hurt your feelings bro? Maybe those opinions were too different from your own. Don't worry, Mark Zukerberg is working on a browser addon which can automatically sniff and hide opinions that you don't want to see!

I'm actually not kiddig

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>>18067864
get raped nigger faggot

Women take notes, that shit is disgusting

>>18067557
if I were you I'd get checked for STDs.

>>18067557
i'll tell you the truth

it was more conscentual than you think. She saw how much it hurt you and damaged your opinion of her, so if she said she was forced the pressure is taken off and your beautiful pure gf wasn't fucked repeatedly by some greasy dudes.

how do I know? I've been there. when my girl was 15 she was getting blown out by some 19-20 dos.

why does it bother you?

Simple. You think of your girlfriend getting railed by two hung black dudes and it makes you insecure and sad to imagine her fucking two dudes. You are feeling like a man cheated on(A cuck).

Is she your first sexual partner or one of your first? Your mind is playing these games on you. perhaps you valued your virginity while she gave it away to two gross dudes willingly, without care, like a whore or a slut.

It's ugly to think of women like that, but most men do. I did. For a long time. It made me really insecure. I had to work hard and I was loving and cool to her, while some jokers who didn't care about her told her to drop them panties and she did.

How did I get over it?
I just grew up a little bit. I had to meditate a lot. You need to realize that women are people who enjoy sex too. If there were two sexy black girls wanting to ride your cock, you probably would fuck too. Hell, while dating my gf I had the HARDEST time turning down pussy. I'm a human, so was she.

You can either:
-move on
-Fester in anger, think less of her, resent her
-Break up

Decide for yourself what's best for you. If you really don't like her behavior, then just leave her. its not going to change and you can't do anything about it

but stop imaging her moaning getting fucked hard by some big black cocks or you're gonna get a complex.

>>18067864
>rather you just showing us all what a great person you are.

I'm flattered that you think I'm a great person just cause I'm not a polturd like you. Really, I am. If that's what you consider virtual-signaling.

Stick to your containment cesspool.

I like how liberals don't have a single argument in the world besides name-calling.

>>18068263
If you have to emphasize that you are a great person then you probably are not. Just saiyan. I have no dog in this fight, but everyone I see that tries to paint themselves as a great person is usually actually a huge shit-stain trying to overcompensate.

>>18068298

I never said anything about being a great person, you did bozzo.

How am I trying to over-compensate? It's hilarious how you're trying to paint yourself as the victim when you came here spewing stupidity saying that women will always love the person who took their virginity and other supremacist brainwashing nonsense.

>>18068291

Ah yes, the great alt-right turd arguments of calling anyone who disagrees with them a "sjw cuck libural who is also a coal-burner" you guys are on another level with your "arguments"

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>>18068291
sounds familiar

Are you saying she was manipulated into sex using drugs?

>>18068089
this

Like everyone in their first relationship, I had to get over my girlfriend's past. Hypocritically, I had a "past" too, and funnily enough, it's not just guys that get beat up over this sort of thing. She was pretty upset. Seeing her get upset made me realise how silly it all is.

Ask yourself why your mind is so occupied with your girlfriend. You should have your own shit going on.

All this said, it's perfectly okay to take issue with stuff your partner has done. It might signal a vastly incompatible view toward intimacy/monogamy/relationships and so it's best to end it rather than let it breed resentment.

Op here just checked the thread now, thanx for the advice from some of u, i really appreciate it,
>>18068089
Your right I should grow up and not care about her past but if it continues to bother me I just have to end it, I have also slept with different women in the past, but seeing those fucks at college pisses me off
>>18068298
Nah I'm not great person I also did some fucked up stuff, just looking for advice don't wanna tell my friends cause I'm a pussy
>>18068709
Thanx for the advice