I am a 19 year old computer science student who is short (5'6), bald (had Male Pattern Baldness since 15. Shaved 4 months ago) and who can't grow a beard (very little facial hair). This is all because of genetics, of course. I also have braces to fix my teeth, also bad because of genetics.
I have been rejected and humilliated my whole life, from 15 years old until now. People laughed at me, bullied me and no one ever took me seriously. The only friends I've ever made are online, probably because they can't see me in real life.
I have been trying to "improve" for many years, but it seems that no matter what I do people still treat me as if I weren't worth anything. I try to dress well, my hygiene is very good and I spend a lot of time studying to get my degree. I am in good shape and I go running twice a week.
I have never had a girlfriend. Not even talking about a romantic relationship there: literally no woman has ever been interested in having a friendship with me. People say being friendzoned is bad, however I'd love to have a female friend.
I am not an insecure person. I know who I am and who I want to be. I am aware of my genetic traits and I know that I will have to deal with them for the rest of my life. I accept them. I have to. I refuse to let them take over my will to live and my happiness.
Despite me accepting my genetics, I still ask myself some questions sometimes, and I would like to hear your opinions.
If I were to try and get a girlfriend, what's the best I could hope for? My family is not poor but they make little money.
What are my chances at being more attractive? I can not hit the gym because of time, mainly, but also because of money. My parents paid my braces treatment and it left them with very little savings.
Thank you all
Insecurity is the most unattractive quality a person can have.
>>18064739
Definitely! Around the middle of the text or so you can read what I wrote about insecurity. I am not an insecure person.