How do I talk to girls?

>>18062853
Don't. We're ruthless bitches.

You never really, "talk" to women.
You just listen and provide feedback.

The only real way to talk to a woman is if they are attracted to you. Otherwise, no respect.

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>>18062857

But theres this one girl who seems pretty cool but I can't stop spilling my spaghetti everywhere

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Just talk to them as if they were guys

Basically exactly like a man. Literally not nessesary to do anything differently. Its just anxiety that prevents you from doing that but don't ask me how to get rid of that. I have a girlfriend but it's only because I'm good looking enough that she stuck with me despite my CRINGE as fuck behaviour until I was finally able to communicate with her in a normal way..

>>18062853
Don't mention anything sexual.

Other than that just ask questions and stuff and try to create an interesting conversation about some topic. Treat them like they are a regular person. There's a lot to talk about - science, politics, future plans, dreams, the past, friends, family, animals, nature, space, food, art, films, literature, favorite things, education, etc

>>18062888
kek this

Honestly, unless you're chad, you're going to have to suffer through some autism on your part and hope she doesn't get too weirded out. Then at some point you'll be able to talk to her like a normal human being and you can go on from there.

This shit literally just happened to me, and I actually had a pretty comfortable conversation with her today

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>>18062853
When asking her out, donbt form it as a question. Instead use the word "lets." "Lets go to the movie." "Lets go get coffee" etc

You need to be asserative and actually make descisions Also when shes talkng to you, a sign she likes you is if she says something that leave a wide opening for you to ask a question. Example: She says "I went to see the movie." The proper response in this situation was "What movie?" Then ask something like "Did you like it/how long was it etc." The problem is you are thinking of what else to say, really you need to ask questions. And stop acting like a cartoon character and showing off your personality. Its not becoming of a man

Also watch these (I dont take responsibility if you click these links:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs-brcHDxKqrOGU9cEWuCMQ

https://www.youtube.com/user/clasikobastv

I got my ideas about how to interact with girls from watching anime for years but realized western women don't act like that and ended up just moving to Japan

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>>18063054
I really think watching too much anime in my teens irreversibly fucked up my understanding of social situations. That stuff is made by autists for autists and is also wrapped up in Jap culture. It's so far removed from the reality of Western life that watching it is like poisoning your mind.

>>18063096
Western culture is the poison

I can never go back to that