VR porn consequences

>>18062495
>I'm afraid that I'll just spend the rest of my life jerking off to virtual reality

And why is that a bad thing?
Not everything is for everyone anon. If you're a virgin at 21, chances are you're too irreparable to have a normie life anyway.


So, embrace the VR waifu revolution.

>>18062526
Well, fuck...

>>18062495
As a non virgin who loves vr porn, I can say the brain reaction and feels are similar. It really does trick you quite well.

So if you remain a virgin, whatever. Psychologically its the same experience so you now have a really good window.

On the other hand, it may help with your confidence what with your brain starting to think talking to girls is old news.

I dont know man I dont see a problem with what youre doing.

>>18062576
I'm not sure, it just feels like giving up or like failure I guess. I don't know.

>>18062588
People may have felt the same with video pornography when it was new.

>>18062588
What's wrong with 'giving up'?

Not everything is for everyone. Some people are not gonna have have a normal social life, they're not gonna have girlfriends, they're not gonna make a family, etc.
Nothing wrong with that, you just need to accept it.

Chances are, if you haven't had a normal social and romantic life in your teens, that ship has already sailed by the time you're in your 20s.

>>18062601
This is actually awful advice. I was in the same boat as you, but know I'm having a great time with a gf and everything.

Make a list of things that you can feasibly do to improve your life and then set out to improve yourself. Confidence comes naturally when you realize you can change yourself.

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>>18062670

>just change bro :^)

Human touch is irreplaceable
I suggest you seek it

>>18062717
Untill something else comes along.
VR accesories, robo waifus, etc etc.

That's the only way some people can 'seek it'.

>>18062679
>gives advice a hopeless beta at the bottom of the social food pyramid would give
>posts some weeb anime shit

checks out. improvement takes work and motivation. i went from a friendless loser virgin to having a wide social circle and fucking girls almost every weekend. i look back and the progress ive made in my life is crazy, i wouldnt even know this board of sad losers even existed if i wasnt one of them to begin with. no im not rich. no im not attractive.

>>18062736
How did you start?
Don't give me that crap about mindset and motivation, just tell me what you did.

I truly believe that at 25 my state is irreversible, but I'm willing to try if there's a chance.

>>18062738
what are your weaknesses? what do you think is lacking in your life?

>>18062742
I got the full package.
Friendless with no social contact whatsoever.
Fat.
Unemployed, unemployable, never worked.
Highschool education.
I don't need to mention KHV and stuff, right?

>what is lacking in your life?
People? I guess. Though I have no idea how to deal with other people as I've been a shut-in for 8 years, the loneliness is really fucking bad.

>>18062750
let me comment on the whole looks thing first, because its what everyone who lacks hope always points at, as if theyve somehow been dealt a bad genetics card. you can do so much to improve your look. are you making an active effort to look good? do you have a modern haircut that fits your facial features well? do you go to the gym? are you wearing stylish clothes that fit you well? do you have good hygiene? all things that can massively improve your look. how fat is fat? i suggest some sort of intermittent fasting program in addition to working out.

make efforts to be more social. start by trying to maintain eye contact with people when you talk to them. have proper body language and posture. start conversations, dont sit by and wait for people to talk to you. try to meet as many new people as possible. start a conversation with a complete stranger you see on the street, coffee shop or whatever. whats the worse that can happen? theyll tell you to fuck off?

job/employment: find something you genuinely like to do. do research. if you need to invest in going to school to do that, make a plan and go for it. theres a theme here - you actually need to get off your ass and DO.

if youre seriously telling me that youve hit rock bottom and your life sucks so much, then tell me what you possibly have to lose? youre probably reading this shit and thinking you heard it all before and it all sounds like a pain in the ass and a lot of hard work for minimal results. i thought the same thing until i realized that self improvement isnt a chore, it can actually be FUN. im actually having fun going to the gym now and feeling like i put in a little bit of effort to get stronger and look better. ill approach a random girl on the street and get completely blown out and i enjoy it because i did something that was out of my comfort zone and i left it all on the table. dont look at results, look at progress and start taking action

>>18062772
>im actually having fun going to the gym
Not possible. Gym workouts are tiring and painful. They are the definition of a chore.

>>18062772
I'm 120kg (300 lbs? or something)
Around 183 (like, 5.11 or 6 or close to that)

I don't ever leave the house, I don't talk to people, so the whole looks and conversation thing doesn't really apply at this point.

I was thinking of going to some college, mostly for socialisation.
But the fact that I lack ANY experience with socialisation scares the crap out of me. I figure, there are things that are so common that aren't even said anymore and I don't know them.

>>18062526
That's ridiculous. I was a virgin until 28 and am now going to get married 3 years later.
VR will never replace the flesh, the touch, the feelings, the love.
It's probably masturbation's future though.

>>18062777
i like the feeling i get after i finish a workout

>>18062782
>I don't ever leave the house
>I don't talk to people

you know what you have to do. what scares the crap out of you? youre talking to me right now, its not like you cant speak english or youre a mute. whats the worse that can happen? you say something or introduce yourself to someone and they give you a funny look? who gives a shit, seriously? whos judging you? your fears are irrational

>>18062807
To who would I introduce myself?
To who would I talk?

Are you implying I should just walk up to strangers on the street and start chatting?

>>18062810
classmates, professors, other students.

yes, i am implying that if you can gather up the courage, because it will make you realize that being social is not a big deal. ask a random stranger for directions to some random place, or ask a random stranger if they know what time it is. youll do this, they will give you a response/reaction and you will realize that you did something you were incredibly scared of doing and nobody died.

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>>18062601
>Nothing wrong with that

>>18062798
I'm married but I just can't sympathize with all this "the feelings, the love" stuff

I just want rough lewd sex

>>18062495

I speak from experience when I say that no matter the quality of porn, porn will only ever be porn and a simple touch or kiss, or even flirting with another person can be much more intense than anything VR has to offer.
So if you think you can replace people with digital counterparts think again.
Being a virgin at 21 is not bad at all. In fact this age is prime for you to reinvent yourself as a person and start seeing girls. Fix whatever issues you have, start dressing nicely, get a job if you don't have one. Even if you're in school, get a job. You need money. Even if you just want to buy a VR headset and computer to run it.