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How can I make my life nice and worthwhile without a relationship?

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How can I make my life nice and worthwhile without a relationship?

>23 yo
>woman
>havent have serious relationship apart from highschool one
>had one short fling and one friend with benefits throughout all this time
>family starts getting interested in me getting someone
>dont want relationship


I do pretty good academically but no matter what work I will do, I know that at some point it will feel meaningless.
I also really enjoy fantasies and they almost always felt better than being with actual men- no idea how long it will last though.
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>>18060049
Get into a relationship when you want to?
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>>18060052
I doubt it will ever happen. Relationships arent for me.
Doesnt change the fact that my brain makes me want to have some companionship/love.
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>>18060049
make useful things that impact real people that will live on after your death.

it's how I get my sense of purpose and belonging.

then again, I have no idea what your field is so I can't say more. I'm also the type of person that's equally happy alone.
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>>18060066
My field could be desribed as regional studies (Russia and Caucasus) so I cannot really "create" anything there, apart from scientific papers and articles.
Good advice though, thanks.
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You know, I think at any point we can come to the realization that something is pointless. I mean, it's an attitude. It's logic. Everything is.

It depends on what you personally find worthwhile. What I find worthwhile are memories. Sure, there are achievements, but really more than anything, fun memories made being alive worthwhile.

It's finding a way to live, I guess.
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