Was with a girl for 4 years, broke up with her for legit reasons,but can't stop thinking of her as my girlfriend, occasionally a thought of her with someone else will sneak into my head and I'll feel awful for a bit. How do I stop this?
>>18057853
distract your mind with something else.
time will heal that and one day you will find someone else new to love
>>18057879
Thanks man,any ideas on what to do?
>>18057853
>when you call a new girl the old girls name in your head and ahe was 3 girls ago
>>18057886
Does this happen often?
>>18057891
Not too often.
I wasn't even really into that chick which is the weird part.
>>18057898
Chicks man, I just don't know
>>18057884
something you like or want to do, as an hobbies.
i do rockclimbing cause i like it, maybe you should give it a try.
>how I stop having oneitis
Deliberate choice, and willpower over time.
>>18057914
Hmm, never thought about it, I do have crazy large hangs and longer than average limbs, does that help or should I look into something else, I do like the idea of climbing things, always used to as a kid back in home country
>>18057934
Oh Jesus is that what that is? Chick really hurt my fee fees man idk why I still care
>>18057944
so yeah you should give it a try, i climbed thing when i was younger too, and it really help me out in climbing these days. after 6 months better than some who have been climbing for few years, longer limbs help a lot for the reach and big hand help for the grip.
yeah buddy give it a real try.
>>18057949
Thanks man,I will this weekend
>>18057949
Do it. Climbers make chicks panties soak