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Trusting someone again after they make a mistake

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My girlfriend and I were out on a small get together with a friend of hers for a birthday, their conversation turned to guys sending unsolicited dick pics. All of a sudden, my girlfriend pulls out her phone and starts showing the other girls a picture of some guys dick that he had sent her a while ago,I told her to put it away but I don't know what was up with her, she refused to. She said she forgot she had it on her google backup and just remembered when the topic came.I broke up with her because I felt like I couldn't trust her anymore and it kept causing issues in the relationship. We both want to be on good terms with each other but I'm so fucking angry at her and I can't let it go. I fear it will affect my future relationships as well, should I bother trying to work through things or just tell her not to contact me again and try to move on?
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Self bump in the name of harboring anger
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>>18052850
I would move on. That's not cool imo either.

The way I see it, given the context, is that she would've told you about the picture if she actually didn't enjoy it. She liked it, I'm sure she found it flattering that some chad is getting his dick hard to her so she had to join in the bragging about it with her friends. It's like dick measuring for women, only they're measuring their dicks with how many unsolicited dick picks they've received.

That shit is childish. Decent women don't act like that.
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>>18052861
THanks anon, told her not to contact me again
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This is bait, right? Fuck it, I'll bite.

She was mocking them. She did not want the dick pictures. You need to analyze where these feelings come from. I bet you would call someone "an unreasonable bitch" if they were mad at you for looking at some porn while dating someone. The worst part is that she was not attracted to any of these pictures at all. It's not like she was saying "man I want to suck on this guy's dick all day long" - she was literally saying "it's pathetic that these guys send dick pictures".

So imagine if someone sent a picture of their colon to you without you asking for it. You would not want to receive this picture of the colon, but for some reason people keep on sending you pictures of it because you owned a penis. That's it. Would you be flattered? No. It doesn't matter that your colon is connected to your anus and sometimes people can use the anus during sex: you didn't want the fucking picture in the first place.

For some reason men cannot understand why women don't think this is flattering. "But if I got a random picture of tits I would be flattered": it doesn't work that way. For some reason most men are never hesitant to show off their penises. are shamed for their bodies and sexuality and are taught at the same time that it is something precious that must be protected. There's an artificial supply and demand created by a society who that wants women to be sluts but demands to marry a "pure virgin waifu".

>>18052861
>She liked it, I'm sure she found it flattering that some chad is getting his dick hard to her so she had to join in the bragging about it with her friends. It's like dick measuring for women, only they're measuring their dicks with how many unsolicited dick picks they've received.
Anon here literally proved my point. Guys are never hesitant to talk about their dick size. It's literally the opposite of dick measuring for women because they are laughing at the men dick measuring.
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>>18052894

Also before someone pulls that "a key that opens every lock is a master key, a lock that opens for every key is a shitty lock" false ananlogy bullshit:
1. People aren't fucking locks and women are not a treasure chest. Your dick is not a key.
2. A pencil that sticks itself into every sharpener quickly becomes useless but a sharpener that sharpens every pencil without fail is a fantastic piece of machinery.
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>>18052894
>>18052897
>being this mad
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>>18052894
confirmed fem anon who would do the same.

Comparing a colon to a dick is a bit of a stretch don't you think?

What's your logic for her never even mentioning it to OP?

It's just flat out disrespectful when she refuses to stop talking about it in front of her boyfriend when it makes him uncomfortable.
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>>18052716
If you broke up with her, why would you care about trusting her again?
I'll admit that I'm surprised that you broke up after one conflict. But I tend to be too forgiving.
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>>18052913
>Comparing a colon to a dick is a bit of a stretch don't you think?
Some people like anal.
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>>18052916
>>18052918
Wasn't the first conflict, also yknow I could have let go of it if it was really about mocking but the fact that she refused to put it away when I told her to just translated as complete mindlessness and disregard for my feelings about it
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>>18052894
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>>18052716
hold on, you broke up with your girlfriend because some dude sent her a picture she didn't ask for? ok.
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>>18053012
Wasn't just that, we had other issues of trust and communication I didn't mention those because I didn't think it was relevant to the topic at hand
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>>18053017
without mentioning those it sounds a lot like you broke up with your girl because a dude sent her a dick pic. FYI.
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>>18053041
Fair enough, decided just to call it quits and move on, you guys have a good night
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>>18053011
you dont need her to understand shit though anon. youre a man and you can draw your own lines
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