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My girlfriend or my best friend 2017-02-15 09:11:24 Post No. 18051294
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So for the last 4 months this I've been dating this girl, were both 18 love eachother have met eachothers family's been on plenty of dates and have even talked about kids and marriage and what not, she honestly thinks I'm the one, BUT she blows up over the tiniest things in when we talk, and is mad at me for 2 days and makes me feel like shit until I suck it up and apologise. We love eachother a lot but she just stresses me out sometimes. NOW HERES THE DILEMA, I've been spending so much time with her that I've stared to notice I'm begging to lose my high school friends,(just graduated senior btw) I told my best friend who is a girl that I liked her a lot and didn't want to risk ruining the friendship if she didn't like me back. I only said this as i felt like I wouldn't never talk to my best friend the same way if I was distant and only regularly talked to my girlfriend,I love my current girlfriend despite the fights.But this is how she replied she said the exact same thing, she said that she had so much feelings for me during senior and she didn't wanna ask me out in case I didn't feel the same ,then I went and started dating my girlfriend and she said it hurt her. Suddenly now we're talking every day. after I confessed my feelings for her we talked for 4 hours how much we used like eachother and if only one of us had confessed. I told her I'm happy with my girlfriend but she you always be my first love and she said I know your mine aswell. Now we talk every day like we used to I'm starting to get feelings for her again. Should I break up with my girlfriend over my best friend and go for it, or stay with my girlfriend until I forget about my feelings for my best friend. My girlfriend will be crushed it I leave her for another girl, but at the end of the day it's my life do I want to be happy with her or my best friend.
Cheers for reading all that boing crap, Any advice on what I should do would be greatly appreciated
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>>18051294
Didn't read past the first two lines because it's a clusterfuck of bad grammar and spelling but
>18
>'in love'
>been together 4 months
>talked about kids and marriage
>she thinks you're 'The One'
Yeah, I give this relationship two more months, max. Let it fizzle out, and then get on with your life.
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>>18051294
You're not as happy with your girlfriend as you think, if you're talking to your friend about such things. Also, her way of dealing with problems in the relationship is very unhealthy. It's manipulative.
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>>18051294
>4 months this I've been dating this girl
>she blows up over the tiniest things in when we talk, and is mad at me for 2 days and makes me feel like shit until I suck it up and apologise
That love sounds pretty one-sided, OP. It shouldn't be that bad so early into the relationship.
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She sounds awful, but you're no catch either.
Take solace in the fact that you're only 18. This should end relatively soon and you can move on.
Or you could be an idiot and try to drag it out, in which case, thanks on behalf of other men for taking an asshole like that off the market so she doesn't bury her claws into someone else.
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>>18051294
First-hand experience here. Leave your girlfriend. Had one like that, and it never ends well. Choose your bro. You'll only suffer with your girlfriend.
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