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>be KV >scared as fuck some weeks ago before entering college

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>be KV
>scared as fuck some weeks ago before entering college
>social anxiety, shaking hands when I was meeting a girl
>started to approach girls both online (facebook) and IRL
>after approaching more than 80 girls in facebook and 20 girls IRL I've become more confident
>from every 15 girls I approached got 4 numbers
>from every 20 numbers I got 7 replied
>from 7 reply 4 were serious and didn't mind me
>ask girls if they have free time
>one I was really big into told me to fuck off (politelly, of course)
>at least one girl told me today she will write to me if she has free time after lunch and meeting a female friend (so is not even confirmed, she can forget or simply was a polite fuck off)
>the other two girls that speak to me tell me they don't know if they have free time
>I don't know if that's a polite way to tell me to fuck off or not
>not even ugly, just average
>not even fat
Dating is clearly BS, After all my effort and approaching more than 100 girls both online and IRL I only had like five girls that MAYBE were into me, of which maybe one though I was hot.

I'm considering to start to give up, I had big hopes thanks to BS porn sites like publick pickups and PUA BS stories about coaches, and memes like all women are whores.

Clearly I'm starting to give up on women and start to consider whores.
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>approaching more than 80 girls in facebook
Clearly, spamming friend invites is the same thing as approaching a girl in real life.
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>>18048442
I've approached more than 20 girls IRL, and got over a dozen phones.

Is all worthless.

keep projecting faggot.
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>>18048445
>I failed in doing something that 99.99% of the world is successful at
I'm glad that obnoxious shitheads like you are an evolutionary dead end.
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>>18048449
Not really.
Only 40% of males have reproduced ever, acording to dna.
Look it up.
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>>18048438 (OP)
The most important thing is always understanding.

you can even be 150kg fat and lazy

people that have "experience" and can get girls, just managed to find faster ways with their limited understanding.

If you don't have understanding and you don't, since you can't get a girl, there are intelligent methods:

1. Everything charming ease sociability
> If you want normie girls or just above average intelligence girls

have some interests that will show easily, fashion/sports/lift/literature. These will always ease sociability
(don't lift heavy things, only define, so you don't look dumb) (Try to understand classics that are not from an Anglo-saxon country) (try to dress half-formally but with humility, no bright colours, this is charm)


> With intelligent girls you need to be more chill.

All that above helps too but more open-minded, with more sociability and capacity to understand at least average social contexts.
It would be better to get used to /No television / No netflix /No 4chan/
"No social networks" meaning if you use one to hook up girls: black avatar or something very vanilla, no normie photos, no random memes, unless you joke on self-deprecative depression that you can't help wasting your time.(You need to show empathy, that would be far better to develop your humanity, possibly open-minded to anything bad or disgusting)

With even more intelligent girls, you do everything I said up, with more humility and ask help or advice and show that you have potential because you have the interest in understanding.

Also:
Consider this when you approach random girls with no understanding, lot of them are virgin or fed up with a previous relationship.
Overly-sexual girl will need a more easy but friendly approach to sexual talking.

You just want a normal girlfriend, ask her interests and try to find out if she has videogame interests or something in common with you. Don't overthink this if you are too lazy. Be a friend to them.
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>>18048438
Here's a fact that is oddly relevant. Businesses that send out sales letters or spam online, figure that a 1% response is the best they can reasonably hope for.

You did essentially the same thing - cold-calling 100 women pretty much at random, and got a 5% response. If you were a business, you'd be the envy of your competitors.
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