Long story short >talked with my girlfriend of 7 years about

>>18045883

You seem to be worried about the wrong thing here. She already said it's not swinging. So you two are on the same page.

But how are you even gonna ask this to the other couple?

>>18045920
Honestly this, do you know the couple enough to ask and them not be weird about it or even just to ask them?

>>18045925
>>18045920
That wouldn't be a problem because my girlfriend is a close friend of the girl in that couple and they already talked about that many times.

I noticed one time when we had them over and after some drinks she was all over her boyfriend, but it made me quite uncomfortable, which made them stop.

I'm quite worried that this is just a way to end up having a foursome or something. Which I honestly wouldn't like at all.

>>18045938

Just be honest with your girl. The kinky lifestyle is full of talk and setting of boundaries. You have to really talk with her and set the parameters for the session. And if you are going to include more people, the four of you should talk for a bit, too.

>>18045949
This, with the added proviso that any one of the four gets an absolute veto. The biggest danger in a situation like this (or actual swinging) is that three of the four will be for it and the fourth will feel pressured to go along and not be a party pooper. Guaranteed recipe for either disaster at the event or resentment after

>>18045883
As a way of testing the waters, why don't the two of you film yourselves having sex? Watching the film might be kick enough, or you could then upload it anonymously to amateur porn sites