Surviving Valentines

>>18045294
I gave myself alcohol poisoning last time just because I was so miserable.

Crush up morphine, dissolve in water, shoot up bum. Guaranteed happiness.

*May contain traces of completely ruining your life.

>>18045296
I always get super fucked up too, that's why I was looking for ideas to avoid it this time.

Good luck and most likely cheers tomorrow

>Tfw planning leap of faith that will either take me from being forever alone or take me further down the road to Alcoholism

>>18045294
Stop being an idiot who cares about Valentine's day. It is a completely made up holiday that exists just to waste money on cheap looking cards and expensive useless gifts.

Give yourself a nice evening. Do something you enjoy, treat yourself with good food and your favourite hobby.

>friend I have feels for already has a boyfriend
>never met the guy
>she hardly ever even mentions him
>don't know if they are serious or not
>gonna ask her if he did anything special for her on valentines day
>if she says no then I'm going to act offended and say she deserves something nice
>I will then proceed to list all the things I would have done for her if she was my girlfriend

Is this a bad idea?

>>18045352
Yes.

>>18045309
This. I'm miserable and alone all the time. Why would I care about the date? I'm probably going to be playing videogames.

>>18045357
I have decided to start answering "lonely and miserable" when people ask me how I am doing.

Been lying and saying I was good for a long time now.

>>18045363
Answering like that won't do anything positive for you. I get that pretending all the time gets tiresome, but being weird and depressing just makes people avoid you more.

>>18045352
Fucking lmao orbiter tier
Don't do this.

>>18045294

Don't let a date get so much to you. It's a date like any other day. Live it like that.


>>18045352

Awful idea. Hope this is a joke.


>>18045363

We all have problems and it's good to talk them out, but be careful where, when and with whom you do it.

Your classmates/workmates are just being polite when saying "How you doing?", so don't make them deal with your crap. But try to talk with friends or family. Heck, go see a therapist if you have no one else to talk to.

When my gf of 4 years broke up with me, i had the WONDERFUL opportunity of celebrating valentines day as a single man for 2 years before entering the current relationship im in.

I like to call it Self Care Day. I literally spoiled myself. I didnt give two shits about what anyone thought and i didnt call or text anyone. It was a day all about ME. and you should do the same!
It was so fun that even in my relationship, i decided to make feb 15th my self care day.

I bought and made food for myself at home. I also bought myself new briefs and boxers because i love the feel of a brand new pair. Dont judge me, but i bought some spa stuff to use like facial clay masks made from charcoal. I dont give a fuck about skin care, i just wanted to slather stuff on my face and feel good. I bought some nice shower gel and took a long shower. I bought a shit ton of snacks and beer and then rewatched some of my favorite movies that were available on netflix and hulu. And i also took all 4 of my dogs for a walk. Finished the night off by heading over to the gym for an hour and a half and then ordering a pizza all for myself.

I've been doing that stuff for 4 years, the previous 2 years i did it regardless of being with my gf. I plan to do it again this wednesday. She knows its a day all about me and doesnt mind if i ignore her for 24 hours. Its nice to get away sometimes and get time to yourself.

Treat yourself OP. take yourself out on a date at home.

>>18045294
Realize that valentines day is just another day of your shitty life and that it doesn't matter.

>>18045765
Exactly. It's just another day. Treat it as such and you'll be alright.