How do I find girls into BDSM? I'm in my mid 20s and I've had two flings with girls who were into rope, whipping/spanking, gagging and all that entry/mid level shit. Both of those girls happened by chance, and now I want to continue on as a dom.
But I'm still an amateur- how do I find girls who would be down to try shit with someone who isn't an experienced bdsm god? Do I lie? Do I join a bdsm community?
Punch girls until they say "i like that"
>>18044837
fetlife
>>18044837
I'd suggest BDSM groups online or in person, but single sub women are very rare everywhere.
Your best bet is to move your BDSM wishes to the back burner and just meet and date girls "normally." Once you're in a sexual relationship you can gradually introduce BDSM into your play to see if she responds. It's a very slow process, but short of just happening on a sub girl at random, really the only way.
Try fetlife, I guess.
But personally, I agree with >>18045400. Mostly because the BDSM community is shitty and full of giant egos and crazy people.