This may sound stupid, but it's getting to the point that I have a hard time being faithful (like, in an emotional way, because I avoid getting into relationships), and I feel like the most wonderful girl could show up and I'd just do her, and move on to the next one.
I'm currently dating this amazing woman but the nights I don't see her I just go and get laid with another girl from a past hook-up. Hell, I'll even pick a girl from Starbucks if I see she's willing, even if I'm not sex-starved.
I feel like affection and emotions for someone are a well and it dries up the more you share it.
Anyone in my situation?
TL;DR 29 yo male with promiscuous behavior is afraid this is all a downward spiral.
>>18044256
Sounds like you've got a sex addiction mang. You'll probs need some therapy or whatever they do for that
Yeah it just sounds like you aren't meant for relationships.
>>18044267
I'm thinking that may be the problem -- but then, I ask both myself and my mates if someone else in my situation (luck with women) would do the same.
>>18044282
That's what I'm afraid of. There's girls I fall for, but they're always taken, and I tell myself I'd do good with any of those. Even the girl from the OP -- she's in a LDR, and I'm with her until she leaves for another city.
Thanks, guys.
>>18044256
Could you teach me your ways, Chad?
>>18044322
I'm not sure how much of it is related to me being in neurology, and how much is my physique (tall, beard, not a hambeast) and my attitude. I'm sort of a goofball, but I'm usually very polite and try to be a gentleman to absolutely everyone. I'm also not afraid of talking to people (which I think is by far the most important aspect of it all), although intelligent girls make me nervous because I respect them more than your run-of-the-mill hook-up. I'm also flirty, in a friendly way, with my female colleagues/friends, and always comment on how I like the way they dress, or how much better their new hairdo looks -- just be natural about it.
Also, never ever stare, unless you're about to have sex.
I've been rejected a thousand times, of course. I think you just get the hang of it the longer you apply yourself.