getting girls while lacking

>>18043541

the problem here is you're assuming girls are warming up to you. they're not. their not slowly falling for you, they aren't taking their time and realizing you're worth dating.

what you describe is just befriending a girl. thats it. you can't speed up the process cuz the girl just isn't in to you even at the end.

>>18043580
no it does have end, like i said this method works and i get the girl eventually IFF i get a good 2-3 weeks clear on her

ofc i imagine some girls never were into me, but there have been many times when ive been going on dates with a girl and then she 'meets someone else' (but she actually does). so im looking to close the gap so i can be the someone else

>>18043603

try making a move in less than 3 weeks then

you can actually try to work on your personality instead of making all these assumptions about women and trying to ply them with drink. just a thought.

>>18043580
Possibly this.

How do you even know they like you in the first place?

>>18043608
ya but that jumps the gun. ive experimented with going sooner but in my experience it tends to bomb out

>>18043615
could you expand on this? pretty vague

>>18043624
they dont like me in the first place thats the point. im not hot enough for that, but if i keep talking to them i can get them to like me. this doesnt always work (fails maybe 1/3 times) but i can tell if things arent improving and give up

>>18043632

because they dont like you.

dude, the girls arent warming up to you. you are not an acquired taste. they just didnt like you.

>>18043632

>could you expand on this? pretty vague

you're overrating looks. Girls will fall for a guy who will listen to them and be genuinely interested in them as a person (not just because you're looking for a warm hole), you don't have to be a male model to get women.

>>18043634
ya they wouldnt go on repeat dates if that were true

>>18043636
lol please read the thread, this is my whole position; youre not telling me anything. i know girls will like a guy who listens to them because thats what i do!! the problem is this takes a while to warm up, and in the mean time most girls will jump on a hot guy who shows interest in them

>>18043643

they're not dates. they're you buying them lunch cuz you're good friends.

you're getting literally cucked man open your eyes

>>18043643
>i know girls will like a guy who listens to them because thats what i do!! the problem is this takes a while to warm up

that's not really my experience. perhaps you just don't know how to escalate your interactions sexually. if you're getting signals that they like you, you should be looking for opportunities to touch, kiss, etc.

>>18043648
right so i should not interact with any girl who doesnt immediately express strong feelings towards me because otherwise i might just be wasting time?

youre really dumb please dont reply anymore

>>18043655
are you reading what im typing? thats what i do, it just takes some time to get those signals, because like i said i have to push those feelings into them, which takes too long because hot guys can get those reactions much much faster

>>18043663

Not sure what you want to hear.
Sounds like you're just looking for validation that you can't succeed because you're ugly/think you're ugly.

If you want to move things along faster, then take bigger risks. There is nothing else to it.

>>18043670
i want some -ADVICE- on how to speed up the convincing process i have described multiple times in this thread, as i said in the OP

please read the OP again if you are confused before replying

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