heya, homosexual here
I noticed my classmates/coworkers often have a little postcard of a woman in a bikini or whatever in their rooms.
Do you think people would be weirded out if i put a pinup of my own on my desk or wall?
>>18043492
if its your bedroom how many people are gonna see it?
as for your desk at work, thats hard to say, people can always make a bigger deal out of it for being gay.
for instance on TV if two kids have a kissing scene no one bats an eye. but if two little boys had a kisisng scene on 'the fosters' everyone was 'concerned' and claimed it wasnt about them being gay, but rather that no kids should be made to kiss.
even the homosexuals were uncomfortable with it.
things are often okay for striaghts but not gays. in the discord im on theres a nsfw section thats for dirty jokes. i threw in one of those gay porn being used as reaction images one and a striaght guy went and threw a fit and said 'ITS NOT CUZ THEY'RE GAY ITS JUST NOT FUNNY OR ITS GROSS OR I JUST DONT GET IT MUST BE A GAY THING'
>>18043501
since im in uni accommodation, my living quarters are so small all of my friends would see it when they hang out at my place
i dont think any of them would actually make a big deal about it, but i dont want to make them super uncomfortable or anything
>>18043516
if hes not legit naked than anyone who makes a big deal out of it is just closeted phobic, which is fine a lot of people are, they arent a bad person for it, but its not your job to make sure other people are comfortabel with who you are, especially if they have their own pinup.
if they're close enough to hang out with you then they are close enough not to worry about something like a guy in his underwear, you can see that at the fucking beach really.
works another story. even if you're in the right they can still fire you and make it look like its your fault.
>>18043492
Sure you can be gay but do you have to be all gay about it?
>>18043492
Who cares? It's your room. Fuck anyone who has an issue with it.
>>18043592
This. Also if you want to keep it on the light side, grab a somewhat humorous or tacky image, like a 70's hair-bear or a cowboy or something (rather than an obvious modern choice like an oiled up channing tatum).
Been sending my nephews 70's pinups or vintage drawn pinups for their birthday for years. They both have them hanging next to their bed, including chicks who are completely naked. Everyone thinks it's cool because it's "art". I bet it was their first fap material ;)
>>18043492
well, do they know that you're gay? If not, it might lead to confusion.
If you like looking at pics of whatever-it-is-that-you-desire, sure, put it up. But I've never understood that.
Maybe some backwards hetero will tell you to put it down again cause it makes him insecure.