I don't know if this is the right place to ask this, but I do need advice.
I'm not sure if anyone has experienced something like this, but basically, I have an occasional attraction to the same gender as me, as in it comes and goes, some days naked (in my case) men repulse me, sometimes they "interest" me.
The problem is I have never gotten more than a "half-chub", i.e. never become fully erect over the same gender, but I still feel some "attraction". Before about 6 months ago I only felt attraction towards women.
It should be noted that I have depression and anxiety, and my libido is very low, so I don't know if that will effect it?
What is going on? Is it a phase or am I bi? It would be obvious to think I'm just straight but I can't get over the fact that I do get a feeling in my dick when I see certain guys/gay porn etc.
My advice is to just go with the flow. Also, there is no need to attempt to categorize and lable things.
sexuality is much more complicated than man or woman, factors regarding masculinity/femininity come into play. im attracted to feminine boys, but not masculine ones, and i still feel attraction towards women. dont know if id ever date another guy, but ive definitely been turned on by one before.
if youre curious, just go on /gif/ and snoop around a bit. tug your dick at whatever makes it hard. you dont need to have it figured out.
>>18043147
Yeah I see what you mean, I suppose I'm trying to put a term on my sexuality when it's pretty open nowadays, like they say it's a spectrum or something? Thanks
>>18043163
My problem is that a guy will get me "turned on" a bit, but I can never get an erection, and if I have one from straight porn and switch to gay porn it dies. But maybe I'm thinking about it too much. Thanks
Stop giving a shit about defining your sexuality and do whatever the fuck you want to do. None of it matters anyway, because you'll always be a massive faggot regardless of whatever makes your dick hard or how hard it gets.
>>18043163
>sexuality is much more complicated than man or woman
Hello Tumblr, how large has your list of genders grown today?
>>18043178
Don't be a dick, he's saying that sexuality isn't just black or white.
>>18043174
Thanks cunt
>>18043170
>My problem is that a guy will get me "turned on" a bit, but I can never get an erection
This is a problem why?
>>18043185
Because if I'm attracted to men, I'd rather be able to get hard over them. If I'm not, I don't want any arousal. Half way between is just annoying.
Sounds like you're low testosterone and it's affecting your libido.
Start talking saw palmetto extract supplements. 1 capsule 3 times daily, it is one of the best natural testosterone boosters. Huge libido boost, takes some getting used to.
Also limit masturbation/ejaculation to once every 3-5 days.
>>18043208
Alright, thanks mate.